Reduce Interpersonal Stress*
Posted: December 4, 2025 Filed under: attention, behavior, Breathing/respiration, CBT, emotions, Exercise/movement, healing, health, meditation, mindfulness, Pain/discomfort, stress management | Tags: health, mental-health, nutrition, wellness 1 CommentAdapted from: Peper, E. & Harvey, R. Adjunctive techniques to reduce interpersonal stress at home. Biofeedback. 53(3), 54-57. https://rdcu.be/eMJqt

Stress often triggers defensive reactions—manifesting as anger, frustration, or anxiety that may mirror fight-or-flight responses. These reactions can reduce rational thinking, increase long-term health risks, and contribute to psychological and physiological disorders. and complicate the management of specific symptoms. Outlined are some pragmatic techniques that can be implemented during the day to interrupt and reduce stress.
After we had been living in our house for a few years, a new neighbor moved in next door. Within months, she accused us of moving things in her yard, blamed us when there was a leak in her house, claimed we were blowing leaves from her property onto other neighbors’ properties, and even screamed at her tenants to the extent that the police were called numerous times. Just looking at her house through the window was enough to make my shoulders tighten and leave me feeling upset.
When I drove home and saw her standing in front of her house, I would drive around the block one more time to avoid her while . . . feeling my body contract. Often, when I woke up in the morning, I would already anticipate conflict with my neighbor. I would share stories of my disturbing neighbor and her antics with my friends. They were very supportive and agreed with me that she was crazy. However, the acknowledgment and validation from my friends did not resolve my anger or indignation or the anxiety that was triggered whenever I saw my neighbor or thought of her. I spent far too much time anticipating and thinking about her, which resulted in tension in my own body—my heart rate would increase, and my neck and shoulders would tighten.
I decided to change. I knew I could not change her; however, I could change my reactivity and perspective. Thus, I practiced a “pause and recenter” technique. At the first moment of awareness that I was thinking about her or her actions, I would change my posture by sitting up straight, begin looking upward, breathe lower and slower, and then, in my mind’s eye, send a thought of goodwill streaming to her like an ocean wave flowing through and around her in the distance. I chose to do this series of steps because I believe that within every person, no matter how crazy or cruel, there is a part that is good, and it is that part I want to support.
I repeated this pause and recenter technique many times, especially whenever I looked in the direction of her house or saw her in her yard. I also reframed and reappraised her aggressive, negative behavior as her way of coping with her own demons. Three months later, I no longer reacted defensively. When I see her, I can say hello and discuss the weather without triggering my defensive reaction. I feel so much more at peace living where I am.
When stressed, angry, rejected, frustrated, or hurt, we so often blame the other person (Leary, 2015). The moment we think about that person or event, our anger, indignation, resentment, and frustration are triggered. We keep rehashing what happened. As we relive the experiences in our mind, we are unaware that we are also reliving bodily reactions to past events.
We are often unaware of the harm we are doing to ourselves until we experience physical symptoms such as high blood pressure, gastrointestinal distress, and muscle tightness along with behavioral and psychological symptoms such as insomnia, anxiety, or depression (Carney et al., 2006; Gerin et al., 2012). As we think of past events or interact again with a person involved in those past events, our body automatically responds with a defense reaction as if we were being threatened again in the present moment.
This defense reaction to memory of past threats from a “crazy” neighbor activates our fight-or-flight responses and increases sympathetic activation so that we can run faster and fight more ferociously to survive; however, this reaction also reduces blood flow through the frontal cortex—a process that reduces our ability to think rationally (van Dinther et al., 2024; Willeumier, et al., 2011). When we become so upset and stressed that our mind is captured by the other person, this reaction contributes to symptoms of chronic stress such as an increase in hypertension, myofascial pain, depression, insomnia, cardiovascular disease, and other chronic disorders (Duan et al., 2022; Russell et al., 2015; Suls, 2013).
Sharing our frustrations with friends and others is normal. It feels good to blame people for their personal limitations or mental illness; however, over time, blaming others avoids building adaptive capacity in strengthening skills that reduce chronic stress reactions (Fast & Tiedens, 2010; Lou et al., 2023). The time spent rehashing and justifying our feelings diminishes the time we spend in the present moment and our focus on upcoming opportunities.
In the moment of an encounter with a difficult neighbor, we may not realize that we have a choice. Some people keep living and reacting to past hurts or losses perpetually. Some people can learn to let go and/or forgive and make space in favor of considering new opportunities for learning and growth. Although the choice is ours, it is often very challenging to implement—even with the best intentions—because we react automatically when reminded of past hurts (seeing that person, anticipating meeting or actually meeting that person who caused the hurt, or being triggered by other events that evoke memories of the pain).
What Can You Do
Choose to change your response. Choose to reduce reactivity. Choosing adaptive reactions does not mean you condone what happened or agree that the other person was right. You are just choosing to live your life and not continue to be captured by nor react to the previous triggers. Many people report that after implementing some of the practices described below along with many other stress management techniques, their automatic reactivity was noticeably decreased. They report that their chronic stress symptoms were reduced and they have the freedom to live in present instead of being captured by the painful past.
Pause and Recenter by Sending Goodwill
Our automatic reaction to the trigger elicits a defense reaction that reduces our ability to think rationally. Therefore, the moment you anticipate or begin to react, take three very slow diaphragmatic breaths, inhaling for approximately 4–5 seconds and exhaling for about 5–6 seconds, where one in-and-out breath takes about 10 seconds to complete. As you inhale, allow your abdomen to expand; then as you exhale, slowly make yourself tall and look up. Looking up allows easier access to empowering and positive memories (Peper et al., 2017).
Continue looking up, inhaling slowly to allow the abdomen to expand. Repeat this slow breath again. On the third long, slow breath, while looking up, evoke a memory of someone in whose presence you felt at peace and who loves you, such as your grandmother, aunt, uncle, or even a pet. Reawaken positive feelings associated with memories of being loved. Allow a smile inwardly or outwardly and soften your eyes as you experience the loving memory.
Next, put your hands on your chest, take another long slow breath as your abdomen expands, and as you exhale bring your hands away from your chest and stretch them out in front of you. At the same time in your mind’s eye, imagine sending goodwill to that person involved in the interpersonal conflict that previously evoked your stress response. As if you are sending an ocean wave that is streaming outward to the person.
As you do the pause and recenter technique, remember you are not condoning what happened; instead, you are sending goodwill to that person’s positive aspect. From this perspective, everyone has an intrinsic component—however small—that some label as the individual’s human potential, Christ nature or Buddha nature.

Why would this be effective? This practice short-circuits the automatic stress response and provides time to recenter, interrupting ongoing rumination by shifting the mind away from thoughts about the person or event that induced stress toward a positive memory. By evoking a loving memory from the past, we facilitate a reduction in arousal, evoke a positive mood, and decrease sympathetic nervous system activation (Speer & Delgado, 2017). Slower diaphragmatic breathing also reduces sympathetic activation (Birdee et al., 2023; Siedlecki et al., 2022). By combining body-centered and mind-centered techniques, we can pause and create the opportunity to respond positively rather than reacting with anger and hurt.
Practice Sending Goodwill the Moment You Wake Up
So often when we wake up, we anticipate the challenges, and even the prospect of interacting with a person or event heightens our defense reaction. Therefore, as soon as you wake up, sit at the edge of the bed, repeat the previous practice, pause, and center. Then, as you sit at the edge of the bed, slightly smile with soft eyes, look up, and inhale as your abdomen expands. Then, stamp a foot into the floor while saying, “Today is a new day.” Next, inhale, allowing your abdomen to expand; as you look up, stamp the opposite foot on the floor while saying, “Today is a new day.” Finally, send goodwill to the person who previously triggered your defensive reaction.
Why would this be effective? Looking up makes it easier to access positive memories and thoughts. Stamping your foot on the ground is a nonverbal expression of determination and anchors the thought of a new day, thereby focusing on new opportunities (Feldman, 2022).
Interrupt the Stress Response with the ABCs
The moment you notice discomfort, pain, stress, or negative thoughts, interrupt the cycle with a simple ABC strategy (Peper, 2025):
- Adjust posture and look up
- Breathe by allowing your abdomen to relax and expand while inhaling
- Change your internal dialogue, smile and focus on what you want to do
Why would this be effective? By shifting your posture and gently looking upward, you make it easier to access positive and empowering memories and thoughts (Peper et al., 2019). This simple change in body position can interrupt habitual stress responses and open the doorway to more constructive states.
Slow, diaphragmatic breathing further supports this process by reducing sympathetic arousal and restoring a sense of calm. As your breathing deepens, clarity of mind increases, allowing you to respond rather than react (Peper et al, 2024b; Matto et al, 2025).
Equally important is transforming critical, judgmental, or negative self-talk into affirmative, supportive statements. Describe what you want to do—rather than what you want to avoid. This reframing creates a clear internal guide and significantly increases the likelihood that you will achieve your desired goals.
Complete the Alarm Reaction a Burst of Physical Activity
When you feel overwhelmed and fully captured by a stress reaction, one of the most effective strategies is to complete the fight-flight response with a brief burst of intense physical activity. This momentary action such as running in place, vigorously shaking your arms, or doing a few rapid push-offs from a wall (Peper et al., 2024a). After completing the physical activity implement your stress management strategies such as breathing, cognitive reframing, meditation, etc.
Why would this be effective? The intense physical activity discharges the excessive physiological arousal and interrupts the cycle of rumination. For practical examples and step-by-step guidance, see the article Quick Rescue Techniques When Stressed (Peper et al., 2024a) or the accompanying blog post: https://peperperspective.com/2024/02/04/quick-rescue-techniques-when-stressed/
Discuss Your Issue from the Third-Person Perspective
When thinking, ruminating, talking, texting, or writing about the event, discuss it from the third-person perspective. Replace the first-person pronoun “I” with “she” or “he.” For example, instead of saying “I was really pissed off when my boss criticized my work without giving any positive suggestions for improvement,” say “He was really pissed off when his boss criticized his work without offering any positive suggestions for improvement.”
Why would this be effective? The act of substituting the third-person pronoun for the first-person pronoun interrupts our automatic reactivity because it requires us to observe and change our language, which activates parts of the frontal cortex. This third-person/first-person process creates a psychological distance from our feelings, allowing for a more objective and calmer perspective on the situation, effectively reducing stress by stepping back from the immediate emotional response (Moser et al., 2017). This process can be interpreted as meaning that you are no longer fully captured by the emotions, as you are simultaneously the observer of your own inner language and speech.
Compare Yourself with Others Who are less Fortunate
When you feel sorry for yourself or hurt, take a breath, look upward, and compare yourself with others who are suffering much more. In that moment, consider yourself incredibly lucky compared with people enduring extreme poverty, bombings, or severe disfigurement. Be grateful for what you have.
Why would this be effective? Research shows that when we compare ourselves with people who are more successful, we tend to feel worse—especially when we have low self-esteem. However, when we compare ourselves with others who are suffering more, we tend to feel better (Aspinwall, & Taylor, 1993). This comparison relativizes our perspective on suffering, making our own hardships and suffering seem less significant compared with the severe suffering of others.
Conclusion
It is much easier to write and talk about these practices than to implement them. Reminding yourself to implement them can be very challenging. It requires significant effort and commitment. In some cases, the benefits are not experienced immediately; however, when practiced many times during the day for six to eight weeks, many people report feeling less resentment and experience a reduction in symptoms and improvements in health and relationships.
*This blog was inspired by the podcast “No Hard Feelings,” an episode on Hidden Brain produced by Shankar Vedantam (2025) that featured psychologist Fred Luskin, and the wisdom taught by Dora Kunz (Kunz & Peper, 1983, 1984a, 1984b, 1987).
See the following posts for more relevant information
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Breathe Away Menstrual Pain- A Simple Practice That Brings Relief *
Posted: November 22, 2025 Filed under: attention, behavior, biofeedback, Breathing/respiration, cognitive behavior therapy, education, emotions, Neck and shoulder discomfort, Pain/discomfort, posture, relaxation, self-healing, stress management, Uncategorized | Tags: dysmenorrhea, health, meditation, menstrual cramps, mental-health, mindfulness, wellness 2 CommentsAdapted from: Peper, E. Harvey, R., Chen, & Heinz, N. (2025). Practicing diaphragmatic breathing reduces menstrual symptoms both during in-person and synchronous online teaching. Applied Psychophysiology and Biofeedback, Published online: 25 October 2025. https://rdcu.be/eMJqt https://doi.org/10.1007/s10484-025-09745-7
“Once again, the pain starts—sharp, deep, and overwhelming—until all I can do is curl up and wait for it to pass. There’s no way I can function like this, so I call in sick. The meds take the edge off, but they don’t really fix anything—they just mask it for a little while. I usually don’t tell anyone it’s menstrual pain; I just say I’m not feeling well. For the next couple of days, I’m completely drained, struggling just to make it through.
Many women experience discomfort during menstruation, from mild cramps to intense, even disabling pain. When the pain becomes severe, the body instinctively responds by slowing down—encouraging rest, curling up to protect the abdomen, and often reaching for medication in hopes of relief. For most, the symptoms ease within a day or two, occasionally stretching into three, before the body gradually returns to balance.
Another helpful approach is to practice slow abdominal breathing, guided by a breathing app FlowMD. In our study led by Mattia Nesse, PhD, in Italy, the response of one 22-year-old woman illustrated the power of this simple practice.
“Last night my period started, so I was a bit discouraged because I knew I’d get stomach pain, etc. On the other hand, I said, “Okay, let’s see if the breathing works,” and it was like magic — incredible. I’ll need to try it more times to understand whether it consistently has the same effect, but right now it truly felt magical. Just 3 minutes of deep breathing with the app were enough, and I’m not saying I don’t feel any pain anymore, but it has decreased a lot, so thank you! Thank you again for this tool… I’m really happy!”
The Silent Burden of Menstrual Pain
Menstrual pain, or dysmenorrhea, affects most women at some point in their lives — often silently. For many, the monthly cycle brings not only physical discomfort but also shame, fatigue, and interruptions to work or school. It is one of the leading causes of absenteeism and reduced productivity worldwide (Itani et al., 2022; Thakur & Pathania, 2022). In addition, the estimated health cost ranged from US $1367 to US$ 7043 per year (Huang et al., 2021). Yet, despite its prevalence, most women are never taught how to use their own physiology to ease these symptoms.
The Study (Peper et al, 2025)
Seventy-five university women participated across two upper-division Holistic Health courses. Forty-nine practiced 30 minutes per day of breathing and relaxation over five weeks as well as practicing the moment they anticipated or felt discomfort; twenty-six served as a comparison group without a specific daily self-care routine. Students rated change in menstrual symptoms on a scale from –5 (“much worse”) to +5 (“much better”). For the detailed steps in training, see the blog: https://peperperspective.com/2023/04/22/hope-for-menstrual-cramps-dysmenorrhea-with-breathing/ (Peper et al., 2023).
What changed
The results were striking. Women who practiced breathing and relaxation showed significant decrease in menstrual symptoms compared to the non-intervention group (p = 0.0008) as shown in Figure 1.

Figure 1. Decrease in menstrual symptoms as compared to the control group after implementing slow diaphragmatic breathing.
Why does breathing and posture change have a beneficial effect?
When you stay curled up, your abdomen becomes compressed, leaving little room for the lower belly to relax or for the diaphragm to move freely. The result? Tension builds, and pain often increases.
To reverse this, create space for relaxation. Gently loosen your waist and let your abdomen expand as you inhale. Uncurl your body—lengthen your spine and open your chest, as shown in Figure 2. With each easy breath, you invite calm and allow your body to shift from tension to ease.

Figure 2. Curling up compresses the abdomen and prevents relaxation of the lower belly. In contrast, lying flat with the body gently expanded allows the abdomen to move freely with each breath, which can help reduce menstrual discomfort.
In contrast, slow abdominal or diaphragmatic breathing activates the body’s natural relaxation response. It quiets the stress-driven sympathetic nervous system, calms the mind, and improves circulation in the abdominal area. With each slow breath in, the abdomen gently expands while the pelvic floor and abdominal muscles relax. As you exhale, these muscles naturally tighten slightly, helping to massage and move blood and lymph through the abdominal region. This rhythmic movement supports healing and ease, as illustrated in Figure 3.

Figure 3. The dynamic process of diaphragmatic breathing.
The process of slower, lower diaphragmatic breathing
When lying down, rest comfortably on your back with your legs slightly apart. Allow your abdomen to rise naturally as you inhale and fall as you exhale. As you breathe out, imagine the air flowing through your abdomen, down your legs, and out through your feet. To deepen this sensation, you can ask a partner to gently stroke from your abdomen down your legs as you exhale—helping you sense the flow of release through your body.
Gently focus on slow, effortless diaphragmatic breathing. With each inhalation, your abdomen expands, and the lower belly softens. As you exhale, the abdomen gently goes down pushing the diaphragm upward and allowing the air to leave easily. Breathing slowly—about six breaths per minute—helps engage the body’s natural relaxation response.
If you notice that your breath is staying high in your chest instead of expanding through the abdomen, your symptoms may not improve and can even increase. One participant experienced this at first. After learning to let her abdomen expand with each inhalation while keeping her shoulders and chest relaxed, her next menstrual cycle was markedly easier and far less uncomfortable. The lesson is clear: technique matters.
“During times of pain, I practiced lying down and breathing through my stomach… and my cramps went away within ten minutes. It was awesome.” — 22-year-old college student
“Whenever I felt my cramps worsening, I practiced slow deep breathing for five to ten minutes. The pain became less debilitating, and I didn’t need as many painkillers.” — 18-year-old college student
These successes point out that it’s not just breathing — it’s how you breathe by providing space for the abdomen to expand during inhalation.
Practice: How to Do Diaphragmatic Breathing
- Find a quiet space. Lie on your back or sit comfortably erect with your shoulders relaxed.
- Place one hand on your chest and one on your abdomen.
- Inhale slowly through your nose for about 3–4 seconds. Let your abdomen expand as you breathe in — your chest should remain relaxed.
- Exhale gently through your mouth for 4—6 seconds, allowing the abdomen to fall or constrict naturally.
- As you exhale imagine the air moving down your arms, through your abdomen, down your legs, and out your feet
- Practice daily for 20 minutes and also for 5–10 minutes during the day when menstrual discomfort begins.
- Add warmth. Placing a warm towel or heating pad over your abdomen can enhance relaxation while lying on your back and breathing slowly.
With regular practice and implementing it during the day when stressed, this simple method can reduce cramps, promote calm, and reconnect you with your body’s natural rhythm.
Implement the ABCs during the day
The ABC sequence—adapted from the work of Dr. Charles Stroebel, who developed The Quieting Reflex (Stroebel, 1982)—teaches a simple way to interrupt stress reactions in real time. The moment you notice discomfort, pain, stress, or negative thoughts, interrupt the cycle with a simple ABC strategy:
A — Adjust your posture
Sit or stand tall, slightly arch your lower back and allowing the abdomen to expand while you inhale and look up. This immediately shifts your body out of the collapsed “defense posture’ and increases access to positive thoughts (Tsai et all, 2016; Peper et al., 2019)
B — Breathe
Allow your abdomen to expand as you inhale slowly and deeply. Let it get smaller as you exhale. Gently make a soft hissing sound as you exhale while helps the abdomen and pelvic floor to tighten. Then allow the abdomen to relax and widen which without effort draws the air in during inhalation. As you exhale, stay tall and imagine the air flowing through you and down your legs and out your feet.
C — Concentrate
Refocus your attention on what you want to do and add a gentle smile. This engages positive emotions, the smile helps downshift tension.
The video clip guides you through the ABCs process.
Integrate the breathing during the day by implementing your ABCs
When students practice relaxation technique and this method, they reported greater reductions in symptoms compared with a control group. By learning to notice tension and apply the ABC steps as soon as stress arises, they could shift their bodies and minds toward calm more quickly, as shown in Figure 4.

Figure 4. Change in symptoms after practicing a sequential relaxation and breathing techniques for four weeks.
Takeaway
Menstrual pain doesn’t have to be endured in silence or masked by medication alone. By practicing 30 minutes of slow diaphragmatic breathing daily and many times during the day, women may be able to reduce pain, stress, and discomfort — while building self-awareness and confidence in their body’s natural rhythms thereby having the opportunity to be more productive.
We recommend that schools and universities include self-care education—especially breathing and relaxation practices—as part of basic health curricula as this approach is scalable. Teaching young women to understand their bodies, manage stress, and talk openly about menstruation can profoundly improve well-being. It not only reduces physical discomfort but also helps dissolve the stigma that still surrounds this natural process,
Remember: Breathing is free—available anytime, anywhere and is helpful in reducing pain and discomfort. (Peper et al., 2025; Joseph et al., 2022)
See the following blogs for more in-depth information and practical tips on how to learn and apply diaphragmatic breathing:
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Huang, G., Le, A. L., Goddard, Y., James, D., Thavorn, K., Payne, M., & Chen, I. (2022). A systematic review of the cost of chronic pelvic pain in women. Journal of Obstetrics and Gynaecology Canada, 44(3), 286–293.e3. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jogc.2021.08.011
Joseph, A. E., Moman, R. N., Barman, R. A., Kleppel, D. J., Eberhart, N. D., Gerberi, D. J., Murad, M. H., & Hooten, W. M. (2022). Effects of slow deep breathing on acute clinical pain in adults: A systematic review and meta-analysis of randomized controlled trials. Journal of Evidence-Based Integrative Medicine, 27, 2515690X221078006. https://doi.org/10.1177/2515690X221078006
Peper, E., Booiman, A. & Harvey, R. (2025). Pain-There is Hope. Biofeedback, 53(1), 1-9. http://doi.org/10.5298/1081-5937-53.01.16
Peper, E., Chen, S., Heinz, N., & Harvey, R. (2023). Hope for menstrual cramps (dysmenorrhea) with breathing. Biofeedback, 51(2), 44–51. https://doi.org/10.5298/1081-5937-51.2.04
Peper, E., Harvey, R., Chen, S., & Heinz, N. (2025). Practicing diaphragmatic breathing reduces menstrual symptoms both during in-person and synchronous online teaching. Applied Psychophysiology and Biofeedback. Published online: 25 October 2025. https://rdcu.be/eMJqt https://doi.org/10.1007/s10484-025-09745-7
Peper, E., Harvey, R., & Hamiel, D. (2019). Transforming thoughts with postural awareness to increase therapeutic and teaching efficacy. NeuroRegulation, 6(3),153-169. https://doi.org/10.15540/nr.6.3.1533-1
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*Edited with the help of ChatGPT 5
This May Save Your Life! Bacteriophage Treatment for Bacterial Diseases*
Posted: September 11, 2025 Filed under: Evolutionary perspective, healing, health, Pain/discomfort, self-healing | Tags: antibiotic resistance, antibiotics, bacteria, bacteriohage, health, Medicine Leave a commentRecently, I listened to a special episode featuring Lina Zeldovich on her book The Living Medicine, from This Podcast Will Kill You. I was totally inspired because it discussesd the healing power of bacteriophages, which apparently treat antibiotic-resistant bacterial infections successfully, reportedly without side effects. (Bacterial phages are viruses that selectively kill specific bacteria and have been used to treat multi-antibiotic-resistant conditions).
This emerging therapy is an aspect of individualized treatment. Zeldovich reports that it can not only be used to treat, but also to prevent the occurrence of bacterial illnesses. I rushed out to buy the book, The Living Medicine: How a lifesaving cure was nearly lost and why it will rescue us when antibiotics fail. Zeldovich is a great science storyteller and the book really captured me. I read it in two evenings and wanted to share this information, since a day may come when it could save your life.
This is a must-read for all of us, particularly for health professionals. It offers hope through a non-toxic strategy in the fight against antibiotic-resistant disease. The book provides a perspective on the challenges of bringing this effective healing strategy to acceptance and implementation when cultural biases and financial disincentives have stood in the way.;

Zeldovich, describes the development and history of bacterial phage medicine and why it has taken so many years to become accepted in the West. Only after several high-profile cases has this approach become of interest. A prime example is the 2016 treatment of Dr. Tom Patterson, a professor at UC San Diego, who contracted a life-threatening Acinetobacter baumannii infection while traveling (Garnett, 2019). The bacteria that caused his infection was resistant to every available antibiotic. After he slipped into a coma, his doctors feared the worst. As a last resort, his wife, Dr. Steffanie Strathdee, worked with scientists to identify phages that could target the infection. Within 48 hours of receiving intravenous phage therapy, Patterson woke up. He went on to make a full recovery, one of the first documented cases in the U.S. in which phages saved a patient’s life.
Pros and cons of antibiotics
Until antibiotics were discovered, bacterial infections were often fatal. This changed with the discovery of penicillin by Alexander Fleming in 1928. During World War II, antibiotics saved countless solders’ lives in the treatment of infected wounds, pneumonia, and blood poisoning. The antibiotic approach was quickly adopted in the United States, beginning in the early 1940’s, since penicillin could be mass-produced and thus was highly profitable for the pharmaceutical companies. Despite the initial success of the drug, bacteria quickly developed antibiotic resistance to penicillin due to the ability of bacteria to produce β-lactamase, an enzyme capable of breaking down the drug.
Antibiotics were and are extraordinary drugs. When a patient is becoming sicker and sicker as a bacterial infection spreads, the infection can be stopped in its tracks with an effective antibiotic. Before the era of antibiotic resistance, patients recovered as if by magic, simple by giving an antibiotic orally or intravenously,
I still remember when our son developed pneumonia at the age of 12, initially with coughing, a high fever, chest pain, and a great deal of congestion. But as the infection progressed, he began to have difficulty breathing and his energy was fading. We were initially hesitant to give the prescribed antibiotic because we hoped his immune system would be able to fight the infection. My hesitancy was based upon the fact that antibiotics do not selectively kill the bacteria causing the illness, but also destroy beneficial bacteria that are part of the human biome.
Millions of women who have taken an antibiotic for an infection subsequently experience chronic vaginal yeast infections. This occurs because antibiotics such as tetracyclines, which are used to treat UTIs, intestinal tract infections, eye infections, sexually transmitted infections, acne, and gum disease, also kill the healthy bacteria of the human biome in the vagina. Since nature abhors a vacuum, yeast then overgrow where healthy bacteria used to predominate, thus allowing a vaginal infection (candidiasis) to occur (Spinillo et al., 1999)
In the case of my son, as it became clear that he was getting weaker and his immune system was not successfully clearing the infection, we followed his doctor’s advice and gave him the antibiotic. Magically, within two days he was better, and we continued with the course of antibiotics to clear his body of all the bacteria that was causing the pneumonia. Treatment is always a decision that involves balancing risk and benefit, getting sicker or getting well, given the possible negative side effects of the treatment. At the same time, it was possible that the antibiotic would not work since there was no time to run a lab test for that specific bacteria. If it had not worked, he would have needed another, different antibiotic, and if that had failed, a third drug.
Today, antibiotic resistance has grown into a worldwide crisis. The World Health Organization estimates that antimicrobial resistance directly caused 1.27 million deaths and contributed to another 5 million deaths globally in 2019. In the United States alone, the CDC reports over 2.8 million antibiotic-resistant infections occur every year, leading to at least 35,000 deaths and more than 3 million cases of infection by Clostridioides difficile (C. diff) occur (CDC, 2019).
Potentially fatal diseases that have become antibiotic resistant include Staphylococcus aureus (such as methicillin-resistant Staph aureus or MRSA) and Streptococcus pneumoniae (strep), as well as Klebsiella pneumoniae, Acinetobacter baumannii, Escherichia coli, and Pseudomonas aeruginosa. These six pathogens alone were responsible for nearly 1 million deaths in 2019. Other dangerous resistant infections include multidrug-resistant tuberculosis (MDR-TB), extensively drug-resistant typhoid fever, and carbapenem-resistant Enterobacteriaceae (CRE), sometimes described as “nightmare bacteria” (Murray, et al., 2022).
Bacterial resistance develops because bacteria, like all living organisms, evolve. Antibiotics, which are typically chemicals produced by molds or other organisms, work by killing or interfering with the life cycle of specific types of bacteria. However, antibiotics are often a blunt instrument: they resemble a form of what has been referred to as carpet bombing in warfare, in which the enemy is destroyed, but the whole neighborhood is also destroyed. While antibiotics may eliminate the bacteria causing the infection, they can also damage or destroy many beneficial bacteria in the gut, on the skin, and other areas of the body.
One in five medication-related visits to the emergency room are from reactions to antibiotics (CDC, 2025). This collateral damage can disrupt the gut microbiome, weaken immunity, and create opportunities for other harmful microbes to flourish. In addition, frequent antibiotic use could possibly contribute to obesity, as evidenced by the fact that low dosages of antibiotics are often given to farm animals, not only to prevent disease, but to increase their weight. Antibiotics appear to alter the gut microbiome to make it more efficient at extracting nutrients and energy from feed (Cox, 2016).
Antibiotics have been one of the major focuses of pharmaceutical drug development; however, they can cause serious side effects and tend to become less effective over time as the bacteria develop antibiotic resistance. Many bacteria can develop antibiotic resistance in less than a 6 month time period (Poku et al., 2023). Once bacteria develop antibiotic resistance to one drug, a new antibiotic drug needs to be discovered, developed, and produced. Even the newer and stronger antibiotics rapidly loose their efficacy as the bacteria develop resistance to it. In the long term, it is a loosing battle, and a totally new approach is needed.
Bacteriophage therapy
One new approach worth closer consideration is bacteriophage therapy. In nature, bacteria and viruses have been locked in a constant evolutionary battle for billions of years. Bacteria are vulnerable to specific viruses, so a bacteriophage, or phage, refers to a virus that specifically infects and kills a particular strain of bacteria. As bacteria change to evade attack, phages evolve to counter them, maintaining an ongoing balance to some degree. The theory is that because phages are very specific and only act on one particular type of bacteria, that potentially makes them a uniquely precise form of medicine.
The challenge involves matching the phage to the pathogenic bacterium, and there are an astonishing number of different phages and bacteria. In two patients with the same symptoms or diagnosis, the causal bacteria could be a slightly different subspecies. When used clinically, bacteriophages work only against specific type of bacterium. This makes phage therapy a useful form of individualized medicine.
To be successful, the bacteria that causes the patient’s infection must first be identified. This is different from the way in which antibiotics are commonly used in primary care. When a patient develops symptoms, often an antibiotic is given before the bacteria has been identified, and if it does not work, another antibiotic is given.
In contrast, phage therapy depends on matching the specific disease-causing bacteria to a specific phage. Phage medicine requires a library of thousands of known phages as an essential prerequisite to treatment. Clinical care involves identifying the phage that can target and destroy that specific bacterium. Then the phage is cultured, purified, and administered in either a liquid preparation, capsule, ointment, intravenously or at a wound site depending on the type of infection.
Unlike antibiotics, which often damage beneficial microbes, phages only target the bacteria they evolved to destroy, leaving the rest of the human biome intact. Because viruses are capable of reproduction, once a phage reaches its bacterial host, it multiplies rapidly and produces hundreds of new phages that continue to attack the specific disease-causing bacteria as shown in Figure 1. According to reports from phage medicine, symptoms improve dramatically within 24 hours. The phages are self-limiting and their numbers naturally decline once the infection is cleared.

Figure 1. Electron micrograph of a phage attaching and injecting it viral genome into the cell and its life cycle
At present, phage therapy has already shown success against a variety of resistant infections, including methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus aureus (MRSA), Acinetobacter baumannii wound infections (a major problem in military medicine), multidrug-resistant Klebsiella pneumoniae, and even certain cases of tuberculosis. Instead of being the last line of defense, in the future this may become the first line of defense.
The initial research and clinical use has been concentrated in Russia and Eastern Europe. The United States largely abandoned phage therapy after the discovery of antibiotics. Several factors contributed to this trend.
- Funding barriers. Funding agencies in the West have not seen phage therapy as a credible option. In many cases, the review committees that decided which grant applications to approve have tended to fund research that supported their own biases and their interests in antibiotic research. As a result, research money was rarely allocated to study or develop phage therapies. Generally, high- risk, novel research ideas are almost never funded by federal agencies except DARPA which is more open to new concepts when they offer a high potential of success.
- Economic realities discourage investment. Unlike antibiotics, which can be mass-produced as a single chemical and sold at high volume for profit, phage therapy requires maintaining large, evolving phage libraries and tailoring treatments to each patient. This individualized model offered little appeal to large pharmaceutical companies seeking standardized products with a high payout.
- Development is not scalable. A specific bacteriophage must be selected for each specific pathogenic bacteria, and a large phage collection must be maintained to identify the correct phage.
- Scientific and cultural bias. American researchers have tended to dismiss work coming out of Russia and Georgia, failing to recognize the rigor and effectiveness of decades of phage therapy practiced there. Limited scientific exchange was also a factor during the Cold War. A similar bias, for example, has influenced the adoption of psychological treatment strategies developed in Russia. In the U.S., the focus was more on using instrumental learning while neglecting the power of Pavlov’s classical condition.
These scientific prejudices, financial disincentives, and geopolitical divides have meant that phage therapy was almost totally absent in Western medicine although it continued in Eastern Europe, where it has saved countless lives. Phage therapy is currently becoming recognized and desperately needed because of the increase in multi-drug-resistant infections.
Phage treatment challenges
The greatest challenge with phage therapy is that it must be individualized to the pathogen. Each patient’s infection may require a different phage, because phages are exquisitely specific to the bacterium they target. A phage that destroys one strain of E. coli, for example, may have no effect on another subspecies of E. coli. While the same phage can sometimes be used for multiple patients with the same infection, in most cases treatment must be customized to the individual patient.
This requires maintaining vast phage libraries that researchers and clinicians must be able to screen rapidly in order to find the right match. The scale of this challenge is staggering, although AI technology may be part of the solution. Scientists estimate that there are 10³¹ (ten million trillion trillion) specific phages on Earth, making them the most abundant biological entities known. Only a tiny fraction of these have been studied, and only a relatively smaller number are currently catalogued for medical use.
Specialized research institutes, particularly in Georgia, Poland, and Russia (and now in the U.S. and Europe) have developed large collections of phages that can be tested against samples of specific bacterium. Building, maintaining, and updating these libraries is labor-intensive and requires constant monitoring, since both bacteria and phages evolve. Phage therapy does not lend itself easily to large-scale commercialization. Nevertheless, phage therapy represents one of the most promising approaches to resistant infections.
Summary
Unlike antibiotics, which disrupt the human microbiome and can cause significant side effects, phages are naturally occurring, highly targeted, and generally well tolerated. Because they attack only a specific bacterium, without disturbing beneficial microbes, phages have the potential to be used not only as a treatment but also for prevention, helping to control bacterial populations before they cause disease. Harnessing this form of living medicine could mark an evolutionary shift in modern healthcare, offering a sustainable, balanced way to prevent and treat infections. Read the outstanding book by Lina Zeldovich, The Living Medicine: How a lifesaving cure was nearly lost and why it will rescue us when antibiotics fail.
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*Created in part from the information in the book, The Living Medicine-How a lifesaving cure was nearly lost-and why it will rescue Us When Antibiotics Fail, by Linda Zeldovich and with the editorial help of ChatGPT5.
Exploring the pain-brain-breathing connection
Posted: August 30, 2025 Filed under: attention, behavior, Breathing/respiration, cognitive behavior therapy, education, emotions, healing, meditation, Pain/discomfort, placebo, self-healing, Uncategorized | Tags: deliberate harm Leave a commentIf you’re curious about how the mind and body interplay in shaping pain—or looking for real, actionable techniques grounded in research listen to this episode of the Heart Rate Variability Podcast, Matt Bennett interviews Dr. Erik Peper about his article and blogpost Pain – There Is Hope. The conversation takes listeners beyond the common perception of pain as merely a physical response. It is a balanced mix of scientific depth and real-life applications, especially valuable for anyone interested in self-healing, holistic health, or understanding mind-body medicine. Moreover, it explains how pain is shaped by posture, breathing, mindset, and emotional context. Finally, it provides practical strategies to shift the pain experience, offering an uplifting and science-backed blend of understanding and hope.
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Blogs that complement this interview
If you want to explore further, check out the companion blog posts I hve created to expand on the themes from this discussion. These blogs highlight practical strategies, scientific insights, and everyday applications.
Healing from the Inside Out: How Your Mind–Body Shapes Pain
Posted: June 9, 2025 Filed under: attention, behavior, Breathing/respiration, CBT, emotions, healing, health, mindfulness, Pain/discomfort, placebo, self-healing, Uncategorized | Tags: health, meditation, mental-health, mindfulness, Sufism, yoga 2 CommentsAdapted from Peper, E., Booiman, A. C., & Harvey, R. (2025). Pain-There is Hope. Biofeedback, 53(1), 1-9. http://doi.org/10.5298/1081-5937-53.01.16
Pain is more than a physical sensation—it’s shaped by our breath, thoughts, emotions, and beliefs. A striking example: a four-year-old received a vaccination with no pain, revealing the disconnect between what science knows about pain relief and what’s practiced.
The article highlights five key ways to reduce pain:
- Exhale during the painful moment – This activates the parasympathetic nervous system, calming the body. A yogi famously demonstrated this by pushing skewers through his tongue without bleeding or feeling pain.
- Create a sense of safety – Feeling secure can lessen pain and speed healing. Sufi mystics have shown this by pushing knives through their chest muscles without long-term damage, often healing rapidly.
- Distract the mind – Shifting focus can ease discomfort.
- Reduce anticipation – Fear of pain often amplifies it.
- Explore the personal meaning of pain – Understanding what pain symbolizes can shift how we experience it.
The blog also explores how the body regulates pain through mechanisms which influence inflammation and pain signals. In the end, hope, trust, and acceptance, along with mindful breathing, healing imagery, and meaningful engagement, emerge as powerful tools not just to reduce pain—but to promote true healing.
Listen to the AI generated podcast created from this article by Google NotebookLM
I took my four-year-old daughter to the pediatrician for a vaccination. As the nurse prepared to administer the shot in her upper arm. I instructed my daughter to exhale while breathing, understanding that this technique could influence her perception of pain. Despite my efforts, my daughter did not follow my instructions. At that point, the nurse interjected and said, “Please sit in front of your daughter.” Then turned to my daughter and said, “Do you see your father’s curly hair? Do you think you could blow the curls to move them back and forth?” My daughter thought this playful game was fun! As she blew at my hair, the curls moved back and forth while the nurse administered the injection. My daughter was unaware that she had received the shot and felt no pain.
My experience as a father and as a biofeedback practitioner was enlightening–it demonstrated the difference between theoretical knowledge of breathing techniques associated with pain perception and practical applications of clinical skills used by a pediatric nurse practitioner while administering an injection with children. An obvious question raised is: What processes are involved in the perception of pain?
There are many factors influencing pain perception, such as physical/physiological, behavioral and psychological/emotional factors related to the injection as described by St Clair-Jones et al., (2020). Physical and physiological considerations include device type such as needle gauge size as well as formulation volume and ingredients (e.g., adjuvants, pH, buffers), fluid viscosity, temperature, as well as possible sensitivity to coincidental exposures associated with an injection (e.g., sensitivity to latex exam gloves or some other irritant in the injection room).
There are overlapping physical and behavioral-related moderators that include weight and body fat composition, proclivity towards movements (e.g., activity level or ‘squirminess’), as well as co-morbid factors such as whether the person has body sensitization due to rheumatoid arthritis and/or fibromyalgia, for example. Other behavioral factors include a clinician selecting the injection site, along with the angle, speed or duration of injection. Psychological influences center around patient expectations including injection-anxiety or needle phobia, pain catastrophizing, as well as any nocebo effects such as white-coat hypertension.
Although the physical, behavioral and psychological categories allow for considering many physical and physiological factors (e.g., product-related factors), behavioral factors (e.g., injection-related behaviors) and psychological factors (e.g., person-related psychological attitudes, beliefs, cognitions and emotions), this article focuses on a figurative recipe for success associated with benefits of simple breathing to reduce pain perceptions.
Of the many categories of consideration related to pain perceptions, following are five key ‘recipe ingredients’ that contributed to a relatively painless experience:
- Exhaling During Painful Stimuli: Exhaling during a painful stimulus can activate parts of the parasympathetic nervous system leading to promotion of self-healing.
- Creating a Sense of Safety: Ensuring that the child feels safe and secure is crucial in managing pain. My lack of worry and concern and the nurse’s gentle and engaging approach created a comforting environment for my daughter.
- Using Distraction: Distraction techniques, such as focusing on the movement of the curls of the hair served to redirect my daughter’s attention away from the anticipated pain.
- Reducing Anticipation of Pain: My daughter’s previous visits were always enjoyable and as a parent, I was not anxious and was looking forward to the pediatrician visit and their helpful advice.
- Understanding the Personal Meaning of Pain: The approach taken by the nurse allowed the injection to be perceived as a non-event, thereby minimizing the psychological impact of the pain.
Exhaling During Painful Stimuli
Exhaling during painful stimuli facilitates a reduction in discomfort through several physiological mechanisms. During exhalation the parasympathetic nervous system is activated, which slows the heart rate and promotes relaxation, regeneration, reduces anxiety, and may counteract the effects of pain (Magnon et al., 2021). Breathing moderation of discomfort is observable through heart rate variability associated with slow, resonant breathing patterns, where heart rate increases with inhalation and decreases with exhalation (Lehrer & Gevirtz, 2014; Steffen et al., 2017). Physiological studies show that slow, resonant breathing at approximately six breaths per minute for adults, and a little faster for young children, causes the heart rate to increase during inhalation and decrease during exhalation, as illustrated in Figure 1.

Figure 1. Changes in heart rate as modulated by slower breathing at about six breaths per minute
One can experience how breathing affects discomfort when taking a cold shower under two conditions: As the cold water hits your skin: (1) gasping and holding your breath versus (2) exhaling slowly as the cold water hits you. Most people will report that slowly exhaling feels less uncomfortable, though they may still prefer a warm shower.
An Exercise for Use During Medical Procedures: Paring the procedure with inhalation and exhalation
A simple breathing technique can be used to reduce the experience of pain during a procedure or treatment, or during uncomfortable movement post-injury or post-surgery. Physiologically, inhalation tends to increase heart rate and sympathetic activation while exhalation reduces heart rate and increases parasympathetic activity. Often inhalation increases tension in the body, while during exhalation, one tends to relax and let go. The goal is to have the patient practice longer and slower breathing so that a procedure that might be uncomfortable is initiated during the exhalation phase. Applications of long, slow breathing techniques include having blood drawn, insertion of acupuncture needles in tender points, or movement that causes discomfort or pain. Slowly breathing is helpful in reducing many kinds of discomfort and pain perceptions (Joseph et al., 2022; Jafari et al., 2020).
Implementing the technique of exhaling during painful experiences can be deceptively simple yet challenging. When initially practicing this technique, the participants often try too hard by quickly inhaling and exhaling as the pain stimulus occurs. The effective technique involves allowing the abdomen to expand while inhaling, then allowing exhaled air to flow out while simultaneously relaxing the body and smiling slightly, and initiating the painful procedure only after about 25 percent of the air is exhaled.
Some physiological mechanisms that explain how slow breathing influences on pain perceptions have focused on baroreceptors that are mechanically sensitive to pressure and breathing dynamics. According to Suarez-Roca et al. (2021, p 29): “Several physiological factors moderate the magnitude and the direction of baroreceptor modulation of pain perception, including: (a) resting systolic and diastolic AP, (b) pain modality and dimension, (c) type of activated vagal afferent, and (d) the presence of a chronic pain condition It supports the parasympathetic activity that exert an anti-inflammatory influence, whereas the sympathetic activity is mostly pro-inflammatory. Although there are complex physiological interactions between cardiorespiratory systems, arterial pressure and baroreceptor sensitivity that influence pain perceptions, this report focuses on simpler reminders, such as creating a sense of safety for people as a result of better breathing techniques.
Creating a Sense of Safety
My young daughter did not know what to expect and totally trusted me and I was relaxed because the purpose was to enhance my daughter’s future health by giving her a vaccination to prevent being sick at a future time. Often, a parent’s anxiety is contagious to the child since expectations and emotional states influence the experience of medical procedures and pain (Sullivan et al., 2021). For my daughter, the nurse’s calm and confident demeanor contributed to a safe and reassuring environment. As a result, she was more engaged in a playful distraction, blowing at my hair, rather than focusing on the impending shot. This observation underscores an important psychological principle: when individuals do not anticipate pain and feel safe, they are more likely to experience surprise rather than distress. Conversely, anticipation of pain can amplify the perception of discomfort.
For instance, many people have experienced heightened anxiety at the dentist, where they may feel the pain of the needle before it is inserted. Anticipation evocates a past memory of pain that triggers a defensive reaction, increasing sympathetic arousal and sharpening awareness of potential danger. By providing the experience of feeling of safety, parents, caretakers, and medical professionals can play a crucial role in reducing the perceived pain of medical interventions.
Using Distraction
It is inherently difficult to attend to two tasks simultaneously; thus, focusing one’s attention on one task often diminishes awareness of pain and other stimuli (Rischer et al., 2020). For instance, when the nurse asked my daughter to see if she could blow hard enough to make the curls move back and forth, this task captured her attention in a fun and multisensory way. She was engaged visually by the movement of the curls, audibly by the sound of the rushing air, physically by the act of exhalation, and cognitively by following the instructions. Additionally, her success in moving the curls reinforced the activity as a positive and enjoyable experience.
In contrast, it is challenging to allow oneself to be distracted when anticipating discomfort, as numerous cues can continuously refocus attention on the procedure that may induce pain. This experience is akin to attempting to tickle oneself, which typically fails to elicit laughter due to the predictability and lack of external stimulation. Most of us have experienced how challenging it is to be self-directive and not focus on the sensations during dental procedures as discussed in the overview of music therapy for use in dentistry by Bradt and Teague (2018). The challenges are illustrated by my own experience during a dental cleaning
During a dental cleaning, I often attempt to distract myself by mentally visualizing the sensation of breathing down my legs while repeating an internal mantra or evoking joyful memories. Despite these efforts, I frequently find myself attending to the sound of the ultrasonic probe and the sensations in my mouth. To manage this distraction more effectively, I have found that external interventions such as listening to music or an engaging audio story through earphones is more beneficial.
From this perspective, we wished that the dentist could implement an external intervention by collaborating with a massage therapist to provide a simultaneous foot massage during the teeth cleaning. This dual stimulation would offer enough competing sensations to divert attention from the dental procedure to the comfort of the foot massage.
Reducing Anticipation of Pain
A crucial factor in the experience of pain is the anticipation and expectation of discomfort, which is often shaped by previous experiences (Henderson et al., 2020; Reicherts et al., 2017). When encountering a novel experience, we might interpret the sensations as novel rather than painful. Similar phenomena can be observed in young children when they fall or get hurt on the playground. They may initially react with surprise or shock and may look for their caretaker. Depending the reaction of their caregiver, they may begin to cry or they might cry briefly, stop and resume playing.
Conversely, the anticipation of pain can heighten sensitivity to any stimuli, causing them to be automatically perceived as painful. Anticipatory responses function as a form of mental rehearsal, where the body responds in a manner similar to the actual experience of pain. For example, Peper, et al. (2015) showed that when a pianist imagined playing the piano, her forearm flexor and extensor muscles exhibited slight contractions, even though there was no observable movement in her arm and the pianist was unaware of these contractions (see Figure 2).

Figure 2. The covert SEMG increase in forearm SEMG as the participant imagined playing the piano (reproduced by permission from Peper et al., 2015).
These kind of muscle reactions are also visible in sportsmen. For example, while mentally racing a lap on a motorbike, the arm muscles act like as if the person is racing in the dust of the circuit (Booiman 2018). The blood flow (BVP) and blood vessels are reacting even quicker than muscle tension on thoughts and expected (negative) experiences.
These findings underscore how anticipatory responses can mirror actual physical experiences, providing insights into how anticipation and expectancy can modify pain perception (Henderson et al., 2020). Understanding these mechanisms allows for the development of interventions aimed at managing pain through the modification of expectations and the introduction of distraction techniques.
The Personal Meaning of Pain (adapted from Peper, 2015)
The personal meaning of pain is a complex construct that varies significantly based on context and individual perception. For example, consider the case of a heart attack. Initially, the person might experience chest pain and dismiss it, which can be attributed to societal norms where people are conditioned to ignore pain. However, once the pain is assumed or diagnosed to be a heart attack, the same pain may become terrifying as it may signify the potential for life-threatening consequences. Following bypass surgery, the pain might actually be worse, but it is now reframed positively as a sign of the surgery’s success and a symbol of hope for survival. Thus, the meaning of pain evolves from one of fear to one of reassurance and recovery.
This notion that pain is defined by the context in which it occurs is crucial (Carlino et al., 2014). For instance, childbirth, despite being intensely painful, is understood within the context of a natural and temporary process that leads to the birth of a child. This perception is often reinforced nonverbally by a supportive midwife or doula. It may be helpful if the midwife or doula has given birth herself. Without words she communicates, “This is an experience that you can transcend, just as I did.” Psychologically/emotionally, the pain serves a higher purpose, to deliver a child into the world, which may also make the pain more bearable. There is a reward, namely the child. In addition, women who have had training and information about the process of childbirth have a significant faster delivery (about 2 hours faster).
Piercing the body without reporting pain or bleeding
To further illustrate this concept, Peper et al. (2006) and Kakigi et al. (2005) physiologically monitored the experiences of a Japanese Yogi Master, Mitsumasa Kawakami,who performed voluntary body piercing with unsterilized skewers, as depicted in Figure 3 (Peper, 2015).

Figure 3. Demonstration Japanese Yogi Master, Mitsumasa Kawakami, voluntary piercing the tongue and neck with unsterilized skewers while experiencing no pain, bleeding or infection (reproduced by permission from Peper et al., 2006).
See the video recording of tongue piercing study recorded November 11, 2000, at the annual Biofeedback Society Meeting of California, Monterey, CA, https://youtu.be/f7hafkUuoU4 (Peper & Gunkelman, 2007).
Despite the visual discomfort of seeing this procedure, physiological data from pulse, EEG and breathing patterns revealed that the yogi did not experience pain. During the piercing, his heart rate was elevated, his electrodermal activity was low and unresponsive, and his EEG showed predominant alpha waves, indicating a state of focused meditation rather than pain. This study suggests that conscious self-regulation, rather than dissociation, can be employed to control attention and responsiveness to painful stimuli and possibly benefit individuals with chronic pain (Peper et al., 2005).
A similar phenomenon was observed among a spiritual gathering of Kasnazani Sufi initiates in Amman, Jordan and physiologically monitored during demonstrations as part of a scientific meeting. The Kasnazani order is a branch of Sufism that has gained widespread popularity in Iraq and Iran, particularly among the Kurdish population. What sets the Kasnazani order apart is its inclusive approach—it welcomes both Sunni and Shia Muslims, making no distinction between them. During spiritual gatherings, some followers perform acts that might seem extreme to outsiders: piercing their bodies. These acts are seen as expressions of deep spiritual devotion and are performed in a state believed to be beyond normal physical sensation. With the permission of their Sheikh Mohammed Abdul Kareem Kasnazani, they pierced their face, neck arms, or chest and reported no pain or bleeding and heal quickly, as shown in Figure 4.

Figure 4. Voluntary piercing and with unsterilized skewers by Sufi initiates and subsequent tissue healing after 14 hours.
See the video recording of the actual piercing study organized by Erik Peper and Howard Hall with Thomas Collura recording the QEEG at the 2013 Annual Scientific Meeting of the Association for Applied Psychophysiology and Biofeedback, Portland, OR (Peper & Hall, 2013; Collura et al., 2014), https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=56nLZyG87oc
What Factors Decrease the Experience of Pain and Promote Rapid Healing with the Absence of Bleeding?
In the case of the Kasnazani Sufis, they framed their experience as a normal, spiritual phenomenon that occurs in a setting of religious faith and total trust in their spiritual leader (Hall, 2011). The Sufis reported that they had permission and support from their master, Sheikh Mohammed Abdul Kareem Kasnazani. Thus, they felt totally safe and protected—they had no doubt they could experience the piercing with reasonable composure and that their bodies would totally heal. Even if pain occurred, it was not to be feared but part of the process. The experience may be modulated by the psychological context of the group, the drumming, and the chanting. The phenomenon was not simply a matter of belief; they knew that healing would occur because they had seen it many times in the past. The knowledge that healing would occur rapidly was transmitted as a felt sense in the group that this is possible and following the expected normal pattern.
The most impressive finding was that the physiology markers (heart rate, skin conductance, and breathing) were normal and there was no notable change (Booiman et al., 2015; Peper & Hall, 2013) and the QEEG indicated the inhibition of pain (Collura et al., 2014).
Clinical implications
These observations underscore that the context of pain—whether through personal meaning, spiritual belief, or communal support—can significantly alter its perception and management. This concept is also reflected in clinical settings, where a lack of diagnosis or acknowledgment of pain can exacerbate suffering. An isolated individual, alone at night with the physical sensation of pain, may find the pain tremendously stressful, which tends to intensify the experience. In this situation, there are concerns about the future: “It may get worse, it will not go away, I’m going to die from this, maybe I’ll die alone,” and the worry continues.
If one can let go of these thoughts, breathe through the pain, relax the muscles and experience a feeling of hope, the pain is often reduced. On the other hand, focusing on the pain may intensify it. On the other hand, the meaning of pain implies survival or hope as sometimes is observed in injured soldiers. In context of the hospital setting: “I have survived and I am safe.”
What are the implications of these experiences in clinical settings in which the patient is in constant pain and yet has not received an accurate diagnosis? Or, in cases in which the patient has a diagnosis, such as fibromyalgia, but treatment has not reduced the pain significantly? Experiencing pain or illness that goes undiagnosed, and/or that is not acknowledged, may increase the level of stress and tension, which can contribute to more pain and discomfort. As long as we are resentful/angry/resigned to the pain or especially to the event that we believe has caused the pain, the pain often increases. Another way to phrase this is that chronic sympathetic arousal increases the sensitivity to pain and reduces healing potential (Kyle & McNeil, 2014).
Acknowledgement means having an accurate diagnosis, validating that the pain experience is legitimate and that it is not psychosomatic (imagined), because that simply makes the experience of pain worse. Once the patient has a more accurate diagnosis, treatment may be possible.
When one has constant, chronic, or unrelenting pain, this evokes hopelessness and the patient is more likely to get depressed (Sheng et al., 2017; Meda et al., 2022). The question is, What can be done? The first step for the patients is to acknowledge to themselves that it does not mean that the situation is unsolvable. It is important to focus on other options for diagnosis and treatment and take one’s own lead in the healing/recovery process. We have observed that a creative activity that uses the signals of pain to evoke images and thoughts to promote healing may reduce pain (Peper et al., 2022). Pain awareness may be reduced when the person initiates actions that contribute to improving the well-being of others.
Overall, pain appears to decrease when a person accepts without resignation what has happened or is happening. A useful practice that may change the pain experience is to do an appreciation practice. Namely, appreciate what that part of the body has done for you and how so often in the past you may have abused it. For example, if you experience hip pain, each time you are aware of the pain, thank the hip for all the work it has done for you in the past and how often you may have neglected it. Keep thanking it for how it has supported you.
Pain often increases when the person is resentful or wished that what has happened had not happened (Burns et al., 2011). If the person can accept where they are and focus on the new opportunities and new goals can achieve, pain may still occur; however, the quality is different. Focus on what you can do and not on what you cannot do. See Janine Shepherd’s 2012 empowering TED talk, “A broken body isn’t a broken person.”
Conclusion
The primary lessons from studying the yogi and the Sufis are the concepts that a sense of safety, acceptance, and purpose can transform the experience of pain. Expressing confidence in a patient’s recovery prospects places the focus on their ability to recover. Incorporating these elements into clinical care may offer new avenues for addressing chronic pain and improving patient outcomes (Booiman & Peper, 2021).
We propose the first step is to create an atmosphere of hope, trust and safety and to emphasize the improvements made (even small ones). Then master effortless breathing to increase slow diaphragmatic breathing and teach clients somato-cognitive techniques to refocus their attention during painful stimuli (mindfulness) (Pelletier & Peper, 1977; Peper et al., 2022). Using the slow breathing as the overlearned response would facilitate the recovery and regeneration following the painful situation. To develop mastery and be able to apply it under stressful situations requires training and over-learning. Yoga masters overlearned these skills with many years of meditation. With mastery, patients may learn to abort the escalating cycle of pain, worry, exhaustion, more pain, and hopelessness by shifting their attention and psychophysiological responses. In clinical practice, strategies such as hypnotic induction, multisensory distraction, self-healing visualizations, and mindfulness techniques can be employed to manage pain. A foundational principle is that healing is promoted when the participant feels safe and accepted, experiences suffering without blame, and looks forward to life with meaning and purpose.
Acknowledgement
We thank Mitsumasa Kawakami, Sheikh Mohammed Abdul Kareem Kasnazani, and Safaa Saleh for their generous participation in this research and I thank our research collegues Thomas Collura, Howard Hall and Jay Gunkelman for their support and collaboration.
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Fever can save your life
Posted: March 22, 2025 Filed under: attention, cancer, health, Pain/discomfort, Uncategorized | Tags: acetaminophen, books, classical conditioning, fever, food, immune response, lifestyle, mental-health, self-care, travel 3 CommentsErik Peper, PhD and Robert Gorter, MD, PhD
Adapted from: Peper, E. & Gorter, R. (2025). Fever can save your life. Townsend Letter-Innovative Health Perspective. Published March 27, 2025. https://townsendletter.com/fever-can-save-your-life/

My child’s fever was 102 F° and I was worried. I made my daughter comfortable, gave her some liquids and applied a lemon wrap around the calves. Fifteen minutes later the fever was down by a degree and a half to 100.5 F.° I continue to check how my child was doing. I touched her forehead and noted that it became slightly cooler. By the next day the fever had broken, and my daughter felt much better.
Most people are worried when they or their children have a fever, as it may indicates an illness. They quickly rush to take a Tylenol or other medications to reduce the fever and discomfort. We question whether this almost automatic response to inhibit fever is the best approach. It is important to note that fever is seldom the cause of illness; instead, fever is the body’s response to support healing by activating the immune system so that it can fight the infection. In most cases, the fever may last for a day or two and then disappears. Watchful waiting does not mean, not seeking medical help. It means careful monitoring so that the fever does not go too high versus automatically taking medications to suppress the fever.
Although fever can be uncomfortable, in most casest is not something to be feared. Rather than suppressing it, allow the fever to run its course, as fevers can improve clinical outcomes. Research findings indicate that individuals who experience an increase in body temperature (i.e., a fever) have higher survival rates following infection (Repasky et al., 2013). Spontaneous remissions of cancer—altogether a rarer event—have been observed repeatedly in connection with febrile infectious diseases, especially those of bacterial origin (Kienle, 2012). Late in 19th and early 20th century, Prof Coley observed that in patients who had wound fever or fevers that were induced by injecting bacterial toxins, their cancer sometimes disappeared (Kienle, 2012). In the early 20th century, inducing fever with injecting a bacterial toxin became an acceptable and somewhat successful treatment strategy for treating cancer (Karamanou, et al., 2013; Kendell et al, 1969). It was even a fairly successful treatment for neuro-syphilis before advent of antibiotics. Malaria-induced fevers were used as a treatment for neurosyphilis from the 1920s until the 1950s,—the spiking fevers associated with malaria killed the bacteria that caused the syphilitic infection (Gambino, 2015). The fever therapy slowly disappeared as antibiotics (penicillin), chemotherapy and radiation tended to be more effective.
Although suppressing fever with medication may make you feel more comfortable, and in some cases allow a child to go to day care, it may be harmful. Dr. Schulman and colleagues at the University of Miami Leonard M. Miller School of Medicine demonstrated in a randomized controlled study that, among similar patients admitted to the ICU, the risk of death was seven times higher for those who received fever-reducing medication compared to those who did not (Schulman et al., 2005).(Schulman et al., 2005).
Fever reducing medication may in rare cases lead to complications. For example, aspirin may cause stomach irritation and ulcers as well as being cofactor in Reye’s syndrome (Temple, 1981; Schrör 2007). While acetaminophen (also known as paracetamol), often given to young children, may increase the risk of allergic rhinitis and possibly asthma by the age of six (Caballero, et al., 2015; McBride, 2011). As McBride point out, there appears to be a correlation between acetaminophen use and asthma across all groups, ages and location. This correlation even holds up for mothers who took acetaminophen during pregnancy as their children have increased risk for asthma by age six.
As Bauer and colleagues (Bauer et al., 2021) point out: “Paracetamol (N-acetyl-p-aminophenol (APAP), otherwise known as acetaminophen) is the active ingredient in more than 600 medications (Excedrine) used to relieve mild to moderate pain and reduce fever. Research suggests that prenatal exposure to APAP might alter fetal development, which could increase the risks of some neurodevelopmental, reproductive and urogenital disorders. Pregnant women should be cautioned at the beginning of pregnancy to: forego APAP unless its use is medically indicated. This Consensus Statement reflects our concerns and is currently supported by 91 scientists, clinicians and public health professionals from across the globe.”
Finally, we wonder whether active fever suppression during childhood might condition the immune system not to initiate a fever response through the process of classical conditioning, thereby reducing the immune system’s overall competence. This could be a contributing factor to the increasing rates of allergies, immune disorders, and the earlier onset of certain cancers (Gorter & Peper, 2011). Specifically, if a person begins to develop a fever and medication was used to reduce it, over time the fever response may become automatically inhibited through covert classical conditioning.
Simple home remedy when having a fever?
- Practice watchful waiting. This means monitoring the person and only use medication to reduce fever if necessary. When in doubt contact your physician. Remember, in almost all cases, fever is not the illness; it is the body’s response to fight the illness and regain health.
- Hydrate. When having a fever, we perspire and need more fluids. Thus, increase fluid intake. Almost all cultural traditions recommend drinking some fluids such as hot water with lemon juice and honey, chicken soup broth, etc.
- Reframe the experience as a healing experience versus an illness experience. For example, when a fever, reframe it possitively such as, I feel pleased that my body is responding and I trust that my body is fighting the illness well (or even better).
- Implement the following gentle self-care approaches (Schirm, 2018).
Lemon wrap around calves or feet may help reduce fevers by using the cooling properties of lemon and evaporating water. How to make lemon wraps:
• Fill a bowl with water that’s 2–3° C below your fever temperature.
• Add 1–2 lemon halves.
• Score the lemon peel with a knife to release essential oils.
• Mash the lemons in the water.
• Soak a cloth in the lemon water.
• Wrap the cloth around your calves from ankle to knee.
• Cover with a blanket and rest for 10–15 minutes.
• Repeat as needed.
“Tips for using lemon wraps
• Change the wraps when they become warm.
• If your feet get cold, stop using the wraps.
• Don’t over-bundle a child with blankets, as babies can’t regulate their body temperatures as well as adults.
The information in this blog is designed for educational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for informed medical advice or care. This information should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problems or illnesses without consulting a doctor. Consult with a health care practitioner before relying on any information in this article or on this website.
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Use the power of your mind to transform health and aging
Posted: February 18, 2025 Filed under: attention, behavior, cancer, CBT, cognitive behavior therapy, COVID, education, health, meditation, mindfulness, Pain/discomfort, placebo, stress management, Uncategorized | Tags: health, imimune function, longevity, mental-health, mind-body, nutrition, Reframing, wellness Leave a commentMost of the time when I drive or commute by BART, I listen to podcasts (e.g., Freakonomics, Hidden Brain, this podcast will kill you, Science VS, Huberman Lab). although many of the podcasts are highly informative; , rarely do I think that everyone could benefit from it. The recent podcast, Using your mind to control your health and longevity, is an exception. In this podcast, neuroscientist Andrew Huberman interviews Professor Ellen Langer. Although it is three hours and twenty-two minute long, every minute is worth it (just skip the advertisements by Huberman which interrupts the flow). Dr. Langer delves into how our thoughts, perceptions, and mindfulness practices can profoundly influence our physical well-being.
She presents compelling evidence that our mental states are intricately linked to our physical health. She discusses how our perceptions of time and control can significantly impact healing rates, hormonal balance, immune function, and overall longevity. By reframing our understanding of mindfulness—not merely as a meditative practice but as an active, moment-to-moment engagement with our environment—we can harness our mental faculties to foster better health outcomes. The episode also highlights practical applications of Dr. Langer’s research, offering insights into how adopting a mindful approach to daily life can lead to remarkable health benefits. By noticing new things and embracing uncertainty, individuals can break free from mindless routines, reduce stress, and enhance their overall quality of life. This podcast is a must-listen for anyone interested in the profound connection between mind and body. It provides valuable tools and perspectives for those seeking to take an active role in their health and well-being through the power of mindful thinking. It will change your perspective and improve your health. Listen to or watch the interview:
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QYAgf_lfio4

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From Conflict to Calm: Reframing Stress and Finding Peace with Difficult People
Posted: February 6, 2025 Filed under: attention, behavior, Breathing/respiration, CBT, emotions, healing, health, Neck and shoulder discomfort, Pain/discomfort, stress management | Tags: anger, anger management, conflict resolution, Reframing, resentment 8 Comments
Adapted from: Peper, E. (2025, Feb 15). From Conflict to Calm: Reframing Stress and Finding Peace with Difficult People. Townsend Letter-Innovative Health Perspectives. https://townsendletter.com/from-conflict-to-calm-reframing-stress-and-finding-peace-with-difficult-people/
After living in our house for a few years, a new neighbor moved in next door. Within months, she accused us of moving things in her yard, blamed us when there was a leak in her house, dumped her leaves from her property onto other neighbors’ properties, and even screamed at her tenants to the extent that the police were called numerous times.
Just looking at her house through the window was enough to make my shoulders tighten and leave me feeling upset. When I drove home and saw her standing in front of her house, I would drive around the block one more time to avoid her while feeling my body contract. Often, when I woke up in the morning, I would already anticipate conflict with my neighbor. I would share stories of my disturbing neighbor and her antics with my friends. They were very supportive and agreed with me that she was crazy.
However, this did not resolve my anger, indignation, or the anxiety that was triggered whenever I saw her or thought of her. I spent far too much time anticipating and thinking about her, which resulted in tension in my own body—my heart rate would increase, and my neck and shoulders would tighten. I decided to change. I knew I could not change her; however, I could change my reactivity and perspective.
Thus, I practiced the “Pause and Recenter” technique described in the blog. At the first moment of awareness that I was thinking about her or her actions, I would change my posture by sitting up straight and looking upward, breathe lower and slower, and then, in my mind’s eye, send a thought of goodwill streaming to her like an ocean wave flowing through and around her in the distance. I choose to do this because I believe that within every person, no matter how crazy or cruel, there is a part that is good, and it is that part I want to support.
I repeated this many times—whenever I looked in the direction of her house or saw her in her yard. I also reframed her aggressive, negative behavior as her way of coping with her own demons. Three months later, I no longer react defensively. When I see her, I can say hello and discuss the weather without triggering my defensive reaction. I feel so much more at peace living where I am.
When stressed, angry, rejected, frustrated, or hurt, we so often blame the other person. The moment we think about that person or event, our anger, indignation, resentment, and frustration are triggered. We keep rehashing what happened. As we do this, we are unaware that we are reliving the past event and are often unaware of the harm we are doing to ourselves until we experience symptoms such as high blood pressure, gastrointestinal distress, insomnia, anxiety, or muscle tightness. As we think of the event or interact again with that person, our body automatically responds with a defense reaction as if we are actually being threatened. This response activates the defense to protect ourselves from harm— the person is not a threat like the saber-toothed tiger ready to attack. Yet we respond as if the person is the tiger.
This defense reaction activates our “fight or flight” responses and increases sympathetic activation so that we can run faster and fight more ferociously to survive; however, it reduces blood flow through the frontal cortex—a process that reduces our ability to think rationally (Willeumier, et al., 2011; van Dinther et al., 2024). When we become so upset and stressed that our mind is captured by the other person, it contributes to an increase in hypertension, myofascial pain, depression, insomnia, cardiovascular disease, and other chronic disorders (Russel et al., 2015; Suls, 2013; Duan et al., 2022).
Our initial response of sharing our frustrations with others is normal. It feels good to blame the other; however, over time, the only person who gets hurt is yourself (Fast & Tiedens, 2010; Lou et al., 2023). The time spent rehashing and justifying our feelings diminishes our time we are in the present moment or focus on upcoming opportunities.
We may not realize that we have a choice. We can keep living and reacting to past hurt or losses, or we can let go and/or forgive and make space for new opportunities. Although the choice is ours, it is often very challenging to implement—even with the best intentions—as we react automatically when reminded of the past hurt (seeing that person, anticipating meeting or actually meeting that person who caused the hurt, or being triggered by other events that evoke memories of the pain).
What can you do
If choose to change your response and reactivity, it does not mean you condone what happened or agree that the other person was right. You are just choosing to live your life and not continue to be captured and react to the previous triggers. Many people report that after implementing some of the practices described below or others stress management techniques frequently their automatic reactivity was significantly reduced. They report that their symptoms are reduced and have the freedom to live in present instead of being captured by the painful past.
Pause and recenter
Our automatic reaction to the trigger elicits a defense reaction that reduces our ability to think rationally. Therefore, the moment you anticipate or begin to react, take three very slow diaphragmatic breaths. As you inhale, allow your abdomen to expand; then, as you exhale slowlymake your yourself tall and look up. Looking up allows easier access to empowering and positive memories (Peper et al., 2017). Continue looking up and inhale slowly allow the abdomen to expand. Repeat this slow breath again.
On the third breath, while looking up, evoke a memory of someone in whose presence you felt at peace and who loves –you such as your grandmother, aunt or uncle or your dog. Reawaken that feeling associated with that memory. Allow a smile with soft eyes to come to your face as you experience the loving memory. Then, put your hands on your chest, take a breath as your abdomen to expands, and as you exhale, bring your hands away from your chest and stretch them out in front of you. At the same time, in your mind’s eye imagine sending good will to that person or conflict that previously evoked your stress response.
As you do this, you are not condoning what happened; instead, you are sending goodwill to that person’s positive aspect. From this perspective, everyone has an intrinsic component—however small—that some label as Christ nature or Buddha nature.
Why could this be effective? This practice short-circuits the automatic stress response and provides time to recenter. It interrupts ongoing rumination by shifting the mind away from thoughts about the person or event that induces stress and toward a positive memory. Evoking a loving memory from the past facilitates a reduction in arousal, evokes a positive mood, and decreases sympathetic nervous system activation (Speer & Delgado, 2017). Additionally, slower diaphragmatic breathing reduces sympathetic activation (Birdee et al., 2023; Siedlecki et al., 2022). By combining body and mind, we can pause and create the opportunity to respond positively rather than reacting with anger and hurt.
Practice sending goodwill the moment you wake up
So often when we wake up, we already anticipate the challenges and even the prospect of interacting with person or event heightens our defense reaction. Therefore, as soon as you wake up, sit at the edge of the bed, repeat the previous practice, Pause and Center. Then, as you sit at the edge of the bed, slightly smile with soft eyes, look up, inhale as your abdomen expand. Then, stamp your right foot into the floor while saying, “Today is a new day.” Next, inhale allowing your abdomen expand; as you look up, stamp your left foot on the floor while saying, “Today is a new day.” Finally, send goodwill to the person who previously triggered your defensive reaction.
Why could this be effective?
Looking up makes it easier to access positive memories and thoughts. Stamping your foot on the ground is a non-verbal expression of determination and anchors the thought of a new day, thereby focuses on new opportunities (Feldman, 2022).
Discuss your issue from the third-person perspective instead of the first-person perspective
When thinking, ruminating, talking, texting, or writing about the event, discuss it from the third-person perspective. Replace the first-person pronoun “I” with “she” or “he.” For example, instead of saying:
I was really pissed off when my boss criticized my work without giving any positive suggestions for improvement,
Say:
He was really pissed off when his boss criticized his work without offering any positive suggestions for improvement.
Why could this be effective? The act of substituting the third person pronoun for the first-person pronoun interrupts our automatic reactivity because it requires us to observe and change our language, which activating the frontal cortex. This process creates a psychological distance from our feelings, allowing for a more objective and calmer perspective on the situation. It effectively reducing stress by stepping back from the immediate emotional response (Moser et al., 2017). It means that you are no longer fully captured by the emotions, as you are simultaneously the observer of your own inner language and speech.
Compare yourself to others who are suffering more
When you feel sorry for yourself or hurt, take a breath, look upward, and compare yourself to others who are suffering much more. In that moment, consider yourself incredibly lucky compared to people enduring extreme poverty, bombings, or severe disfigurement. Be grateful for what you have.
Why could this be effective? The research data shows that if we have low self-esteem when we compare ourselves to people who are more successful (healthier, richer, or successful), we feel worse in comparison and if we compare ourselves to other who are suffering more we feel better (Aspinwall, & Taylor, 1993). The comparision relativize our suffering. Thus our own suffering become less significant compared to the other people’s severe suffering.
Research shows that when we compare ourselves to people who are more successful (healthier, richer, or more accomplished), we tend to feel worse—especially if we have low self-esteem. However, when we compare ourselves to others who are suffering more, we tend to feel better (Aspinwall, & Taylor, 1993). This comparison relativizes our suffering, making our own hardships and suffering seem less significant compared to the severe suffering of others.
Interrupt the stress response
When overwhelmed by a stress reaction, implement the recue techniques described in the article, Quick rescue techniques when stress (Peper, Oded and Harvey, 2024) and the blog to help reduce stress. https://peperperspective.com/2024/02/04/quick-rescue-techniques-when-stressed/
Conclusion
It is much easier to write and talk about these practices than to actually do them. Remembering and reminding yourself to implement them can be very challenging. It requires significant effort and commitment. In most cases, the benefits are not experienced immediately. However, when practiced many times over weeks and months, many people report feeling less resentment, experience a reduction in symptoms, and improvements in health and relationships.
*This blog was inspired by the podcast, No hard feelings, that featured psychologist Fred Luskin. It is an episode on Hidden Brain, produced by Shankar Vedantam (2025) and the wisdom taught by Dora Kunz (Kunz & Peper, 1983; Kunz and Peper, 1984a; Kunz and Peper, 1984b; Kunz and Peper, 1987).
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Pragmatic techniques for monitoring and coaching breathing
Posted: December 14, 2024 Filed under: attention, behavior, biofeedback, Breathing/respiration, emotions, meditation, mindfulness, neurofeedback, Pain/discomfort, posture, relaxation, self-healing, Uncategorized | Tags: art, books, Breathing rate, coaching, FlowMD app, nasal breathing, personal-development, self-monitoring, writing 4 CommentsDaniella Matto, MA, BCIA BCB-HRV , Erik Peper, PhD, BCB, and Richard Harvey, PhD
Adapted from: Matto, D., Peper, E., & Harvey, R. (2025). Monitoring and coaching breathing patterns and rate. Townsend Letter-Innovative Health Perspectives. https://townsendletter.com/monitoring-and-coaching-breathing-patterns-and-rate/
This blog aims to describe several practical strategies to observe and monitor breathing patterns to promote effortless diaphragmatic breathing. The goal of these strategies is to foster effortless, whole-body diaphragmatic breathing that promote health.

Breathing is usually covert and people are not usually aware of their breathing rate (breaths per minute) or pattern (abdominal or thoracic, breath holding or shallow breathing) unless they have an illness such as asthma, emphysema or are performing physical activity (Boulding et al, 2015)). Observing breathing is challenging; awareness of respiration often leads to unaware changes in the breath pattern or to an attempt to breathe perfectly (van Dixhoorn, 2021). Ideally breathing patterns should be observed/monitored when the person is unaware of their breathing pattern and the whole body participates (van Dixhoorn, 2008). A useful strategy is to have the person perform a task and then ask, “What happened to your breathing?”. For example, ask a person to simulate putting a thread through the eye of a needle or quickly look to the extreme right and left while keeping their head still. In almost all cases, the person holds their breath (Peper et al., 2002).
Teaching effortless slow diaphragmatic breathing is a precursor of Heart rate variability (HRV) biofeedback and is based on slow paced breathing (Lehrer & Gevirtz, 2014; Steffen et al., 2017; Shaffer and Meehan, 2020). Mastering effortless diaphragmatic breathing is a powerful tool in the treatment of a variety of physical, behavioural, and cognitive conditions; however, to integrate this method into clinical or educational practice is easier said than done. Clients with dysfunctional breathing patterns often have difficulty following a breath pacer or mastering effortless breathing at a slower pace.
The purpose of this paper is to describe a few simple strategies that can be used to observe and monitor breathing patterns, provide economic strategies for observation and training, and suggestions to facilitate effortless diaphragmatic breathing.
Strategies to observe and monitor breathing pattern
Observation of the breathing patterns
- Is the breathing through the nose or mouth? Nose is usually better (Watso et al., 2023; Nestor, 2020).
- Does the abdomen expand during inhalation and constricts during exhalation or does the chest expand and rise during inhalation and fall during exhalation? Abdominal movement is usually better.
- Is exhalation flow softly or explosively like a sigh? Slow flow exhalation is preferred.
- Is the breath held or continues during activities? In most cases continued breathing is usually better.
- Does the person gasp before speaking or allows to speak while normally exhaling?
- What is the breathing rate (breaths per minute)? When sitting peacefully less than 14 breaths/minute is usually better and about 6 breaths per minute to optimize HRV
Physiological monitoring.
- Monitoring breathing with strain gauges around the abdomen and chest, and heart rate is the most common approach to identify the location of breath, the breathing pattern and heart rate variability. The strain gauges are placed around the chest and abdomen and heart rate is monitored with a blood volume pulse amplitude sensor from the finger. representative recording shows the effect of thoughts on breathing, heartrate and pulse amplitude of which the participant is totally unaware as shown in Figure 1.
Figure 1. Physiological recording of breathing patterns with strain gauges.
- Monitoring breathing with a thermistor placed at the entrance of the nostril that has the most airflow (nasal patency) (Jovanov et al., 2001; Lerman et al., 2016). When the person exhales through the nose, the thermistor temperature increases and decreases when they inhale. A representative recording of a person being calm, thinking a stressful thought. and being calm. Although there were significant changes as indicated by the change in breathing patterns, the person was unaware of the changes as shown in Figure 2.
Figure 2. Use of a thermistor to monitor breathing from the dominant nostril compared to the abdominal expansion as monitored by a strain gauge around the abdomen.
- Additional physiological monitoring approaches. There are many other physiological measures can be monitored to such as end-tidal carbon dioxide (EtCO2), a non-invasive measurement of the amount of carbon dioxide (CO2) in exhaled breath (Meuret et al., 2008; Meckley, 2013); scalene/trapezius EMG to identify thoracic breathing (Peper & Tibbett, 1992; Peper & Tibbets, 1994); low abdominal EMG to identify transfers and oblique tightening during exhalation and relaxation during inhalation (Peper et al., 2016; and heart rate to monitor cardiorespiratory synchrony (Shaffer & Meehan, 2020). Physiological monitoring is useful; since, the clinician and the participant can observe the actual breathing pattern in real time, how the pattern changes in response the cognitive and physical tasks, and used for feedback training. The recorded data can document breathing problems and evidence of mastery.
The challenges of using physiological monitoring arethat the equipment may be expensive, takes skill to operate and interpret the data, and is usually located in the office and not at home.
Economic strategies for observation and training breathing
To complement the physiological monitoring and allow observations outside the office and at home, some of the following strategies may be used to observe breathing pattern (rate and expansion of the breath in the body), and suggestion to facilitate effortless diaphragmatic breathing. These exercises make excellent homework for the client. Practicing awareness and internal self-regulation by the client outside the clinic contributes enormously to the effect of biofeedback training (Wilson et al., 2023),
Observe breathing rate: Draw the breathing pattern
Take a piece of paper, a pen and a timer, set to 3 minutes. Start the timer. Upon inhalation draw the line up and upon exhalation draw the line down, creating a wave. When the timer stops, after 3 minutes, calculate the breathing rate per minute by dividing the number of waves by 3 as shown in Figure 3.
Figure 3. Drawing the breathing pattern for three minutes during two different days.
From these drawings, the breathing rate become evident. Many individuals are often surprised to discover that their breathing rate increased during periods of stress, such as a busy day with no breaks, compared to their normal days.
Monitoring and training diaphragmatic breathing
The scarf technique for abdominal feedback
Many participants are unaware that they are predominantly breathing in their chest and their abdomen expansion is very limited during inhalation. Before beginning, have participant loosen their belt and or stand upright since sitting collapsed/slouched or having the waist constriction such as a belt of tight constrictive clothing that inhibits abdominal expansion during inhalation.
Place the middle part of a long scarf or shawl on your lower back, take the ends in both hands and cross the ends: your left hand is holding the right part of the scarf, and the right hand is holding the left end of the scarf. Give a bit of a pull, so you can feel any movement of the scarf. When breathing more abdominally you will feel a pull at the ends of the scarf as you lower back, and flanks will expand as shown in Figure 4.

Figure 4. Using a scarf as feedback.
FlowMD app
A recent cellphone app, FlowMD, is unique because it uses the cellphone camera to detect the subtle movements of the chest and abdomen (FlowMD, 2024). It provides real time feedback of the persons breathing pattern. Using this app, the person sits in front of their cellphone camera and after calibration, the breathing pattern is displayed as shown in Figure 5.

Figure 5. Training breathing with FlowMD,.
Suggestions to optimize abdominal breathing that may lead to a slower breath rate when the client practices the technique
Beach pose
By locking the upper chest and sitting up straight it is often easier to breathe so that the abdomen can expand and constrict. Place your hands behind your head and Interlock your finger of both hands, pull your elbows back and up. The person can practice this either laying down on their back or sitting straight up at the edge of the chair as shown in Figure 6.

Figure 6. Sitting erect with the shoulders pulled back and up to allow abdominal expansion and constriction as the breathing pattern.
Observe the effect of posture on breathing
Have the person sit slouched/collapsed like a letter C and take a few slow breath, then have them sit up in a tall and erect position and take a few slow breaths. Usually they will observe that it is easier to breathe slower and lower and tall and erect.
Using your hands for feedback to guide natural breathing
Holding your hands with index fingers and thumbs touching the lower abdomen. When inhaling the fingers and thumbs separate and when exhaling they touch again (ensuring a full exhale and avoiding over breathing). The slight increase in lower abdominal muscle tension during the exhalation and relaxation during inhalation and the abdominal wall expands can also be felt with fingertips as shown in Figure 7.
Figure 7. Using your hands and finger for feedback to guide the natural breathing of expansion and constriction of the abdomen. Reproduced by permission from Peper, E., Booiman, A., Lin, I-M, Harvey, R., & Mitose, J. (2016). Abdominal SEMG Feedback for Diaphragmatic Breathing: A Methodological Note. Biofeedback. 44(1), 42-49.
Coaching suggestions
There are many strategies to observe, teach and implement effortless breathing (Peper et al., 2024).. Even though breathing is natural and babies and young children breathe diaphragmatically as their large belly expands and constricts. Yet, in many cases the natural breathing shifts to dysfunctional breathing for multiple reasons such as chronic triggering defense reactions to avoiding pain following abdominal surgery (Peper et al, 2015). When participants initially attempt to relearn this natural pattern, it can be challenging especially, if the person habitually breathes shallowly, rapidly and predominantly in their chest.
When initially teaching effortless breathing, have the person exhale more air than normal without the upper chest compressing down and instead allow the abdomen comes in and up thereby exhaling all the air. If the person is upright then allow inhalation to occur without effort by letting the abdominal wall relaxes and expands. Initially inhale more than normal by expanding the abdomen without lifting the chest. Then exhale very slowly and continue to breathe so that the abdomen expands in 360 degrees during inhalation and constricts during exhalation. Let the breathing go slower with less and less effort. Usually, the person can feel the anus dropping and relaxing during inhalation.
Another technique is to ask the person to breathe in more air than normal and then breathe in a little extra air to completely fill the lungs, before exhaling fully. Clients often report that it teaches them to use the full capacity of the lungs.
The goal is to breath without effort. Indirectly this can be monitored by finger temperature. If the finger temperature decreases, the participant most likely is over-breathing or breathing with too much effort, creating sympathetic activity; if the finger temperature increases, breathing occurs slower and usually with less effort indicating that the person’s sympathetic activation is reduced.
Conclusion
There are many strategies to monitor and coach breathing. Relearning diaphragmatic breathing can be difficult due to habitual shallow chest breathing or post-surgical adaptations. Initial coaching may involve extended exhalations, conscious abdominal expansion, and gentle inhalation without chest movement. Progress can be monitored through indirect physiological markers like finger temperature, which reflects changes in sympathetic activity. The integration of these techniques into clinical or educational practice enhances self-regulation, contributing significantly to therapeutic outcomes. In this article we provided a few strategies which may be useful for some clients.
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Suggestions for mastering and generalizing breathing skills
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Breathing techniques are commonly employed with complimentary treatments, biofeedback, neurofeedback or adjunctive therapeutic strategies to reduce stress and symptoms associated with excessive sympathetic arousal such as anxiety, high blood pressure, insomnia, or gastrointestinal discomfort. Even though it seems so simple, some participants experience difficulty in mastering effortless breathing and/or transferring slow breathing skills into daily life. The purpose of this article is to describe: 1) factors that may interfere with learning slow diaphragmatic breathing (also called cadence or paced breathing, HRV or resonant frequency breathing along with other names), 2) challenges that may occur when learning diaphragmatic breathing, and 3) strategies to generalize the effortless breathing into daily life.
Background
A simple two-item to-do list could be: ‘Breathe in, breathe out.’ Simple things are not always easy to master. Mastering and implementing effortless ‘diaphragmatic’ or ‘abdominal belly’ breathing may be simple, yet not easy. Breathing is a dynamic process that involves the diaphragm, abdominal, pelvic floor and intercostal muscles that can include synchronizing the functions of the heart and lungs and may result in cardio-respiratory synchrony or coupling, as well as ‘heart-rate variability breathing training (Codrons et al., 2014; Dick et al., 2014; Elstad et al., 2018; Maric et al., 2020; Matic et al., 2020). Improving heart-rate variability is a useful approach to reduce symptoms of stress and promotes health and reduce anxiety, asthma, blood pressure, insomnia, gastrointestinal discomfort and many other symptoms associated with excessive sympathetic activity (Lehrer & Gevirtz, 2014; Xiao et al., 2017; Jerath et al., 2019; Chung et al., 2021; Magnon et al., 2021; Peper et al., 2022).
Breathing can be effortful and In some cases people have dysfunctional breathing patterns such as breath holding, rapid breathing (hyperventilation), shallow breathing and lack of abdominal movement. This usually occurs without awareness and may contribute to illness onset and maintenance. When participants learn and implement effortless breathing, symptoms often are reduced. For example, when college students are asked to practice effortless diaphragmatic breathing twenty-minutes a day for one week, as well as transform during the day dysfunction breathing patterns into diaphragmatic breathing, they report a reduction in shallow breathing, breath holding,, and a decrease of symptoms as shown in Fig 1 (Peper et al, 2022).

Figure 1. Percent of people who reported that their initial symptoms improved after practicing slow diaphragmatic breathing for twenty minutes per day over the course of a week (reproduced from: Peper et al, 2022).
Most students became aware of their dysfunctional breathing and substituted slow, diaphragmatic breathing whenever they realized they were under stress; however, some students had difficulty mastering ‘effortless’ (e.g., automated, non-volitional) slow, diaphragmatic breathing that allowed abdominal expansion during inhalation.
Among those had more difficulty, they tended to have almost no abdominal movement (expansion during inhalation and abdominal constriction during exhalation). They tended to breathe shallowly as well as quickly in their chest using the accessory muscles of breathing (sternocleidomastoid, pectoralis major and minor, serratus anterior, latissimus dorsi, and serratus posterior superior).
The lack of abdominal movement during breathing reduced the movement of lymph as well as venous blood return in the abdomen; since; the movement of the diaphragm (the expansion and constriction of the abdomen) acts a pump. Breathing predominantly in the chest may increase the risk of anxiety, neck, back and shoulder pain as well as increase abdominal discomfort, acid reflux, irritable bowel, dysmenorrhea and pelvic floor pain (Banushi et al., 2023; Salah et al., 2023; Peper & Cohen, 2017; Peper et al., 2017; Peper et al., 2020, Peper et al., 2023). Learning slow, diaphragmatic or effortless breathing at about six breaths per minute (resonant frequency ) is also an ‘active ingredient’ in heartrate variability (HRV) training (Steffen et al., 2017; Shaffer & Meehan, 2020).
1. Factors that interfere with slow, diaphragmatic breathing
Difficulty allowing the skeletal and visceral muscles in the abdomen to expand or constrict in ‘three-dimensions’ (e.g., all around you in 360 degrees) during inhalation or exhalation. Whereas internal factors under volitional control and will mediate breathing practices, external factors can restrict and moderate the movement of the muscles. For example:
Clothing restrictions (designer jeans syndrome). The clothing is too tight around the abdomen; thereby, the abdomen cannot expand (MacHose & Peper, 1991; Peper et al., 2016). An extreme example were the corsets worn in the late 19th century that was correlated with numerous illnesses.
Suggested solutions and recommendations: Explain the physiology of breathing and how breathing occurs by the diaphragmatic movement. Discuss how babies and dogs breathe when they are relaxed; namely, the predominant movement is in the abdomen while the chest is relaxed. This would also be true when a person is sitting or standing tall. Discuss what happens when the person is eating and feels full and how they feel better when they loosen their waist constriction. When their belt is loosened or the waist button of their pants is undone, they usually feel better.
Experiential practice. If the person is wearing a belt, have the person purposely tighten their belt so that the circumference of the stomach is made much smaller. If the person is not wearing a belt, have them circle their waist with their hands and compress it so that the abdomen can not expand. Have them compare breathing with the constricted waist versus when the belt is loosened and then describe what they experienced.
Most participants will feel it is easier to breathe and much more comfortable when the abdomen is not constricted.
Previous abdominal injury. When a person has had abdominal surgery (e.g., Cesarean section, appendectomy, hernia repair, or episiotomy), they unknowingly may have learned to avoid pain by not moving (relaxing or tensing) the abdomen muscles (Peper et al., 2015; Peper et al., 2016). Each time the abdomen expands or constricts, it would have pulled on the injured area or stitches that would have cause pain. The body immediately learns to limit movement in the affected area to avoid pain. The reduction in abdominal movement becomes the new normal ‘feeling’ of abdominal muscle inactivity and is integrated in all daily activities. This is a process known as ‘learned disuse’ (Taub et al., 2006). In some cases, learned disuse may be combined with fear that abdominal movement may cause harm or injury such as after having a kidney transplant. The reduction in abdominal movement induces shallow thoracic breathing which could increase the risk of anxiety and would reduce abdominal venous and lymph circulation that my interfere with the healing.
Suggested solutions and recommendations. Discuss the concept of learned disuse and have participant practice abdominal movement and lower and slower breathing.
Experiential practices: Practicing abdominal movements
Sit straight up and purposely exhale while pulling the abdomen in and upward and inhale while expanding the abdomen. Even with these instructions, some people may continue to breathe in their chest. To limit chest movement, have the person interlock their hands and bring them up to the ceiling while going back as far as possible. This would lock the shoulders and allows the abdomen to elongate and thereby increase the diaphragmatic movement by allowing the abdomen to expand. If people initially have held their abdomen chronically tight then the initial expansion of abdomen by relaxing those muscle occurs with staccato movement. When the person becomes more skilled relaxing the abdominal muscles during inhalation the movement becomes smoother.
Make a “psssssst” sound while exhaling. Sit tall and erect and slightly pull in and up the abdominal wall and feel the anus tightening (pulling the pelvic floor up) while making the sound. Then allow inhalation to occur by relaxing the stomach and feeling the anus go down.
Use your hands as feedback. Sit up straight, placing one hand on the chest and another on the abdomen. While breathing feel the expansion of the abdomen and the contraction of the abdomen during exhalation. Use a mirror to monitor the chest-muscle movement to ensure there is limited rising and falling in this area.
Observe the effect of collapsed sitting. When sitting with the lower back curled, there is limited movement in the lower abdomen (between the pubic region and the umbilicus/belly button) and the breathing movement is shallower without any lower pelvic involvement (Kang et al., 2016). This is a common position of people who are working at their computer or looking at their cellphone.
Experiential practice: looking at your cellphone
Sit in a collapsed position and look down at your cellphone. Look at the screen and text as quickly as possible.
Compare this to sitting up and then lift the cell phone at eye level while looking straight ahead at the cellphone. Look at the screen and text as quickly as possible.
Observe how the position effected your breathing and peripheral awareness. Most likely, your experience is similar those reported by students. Close to 85%% of students who complete this activity reported that their breathing was shallower sitting slouched versus erect and about 85% of the students reported that their peripheral awareness and vision improved when sitting erect (Peper et al., 2024).
Suggested solutions and recommendations. Be aware how posture affect breathing. While sitting, place a rolled-up towel against the lower back so that the person sits more erect which would allow the abdomen to expand when inhaling.
Self-image, self-esteem, and confidence. Participants may hold their abdomen in because they want to look slim (sometimes labeled as the “hourglass syndrome” associate expanding the abdomen as unattractive (PTI, 2023). A flat abdomen is culturally reinforced by social media and fashion models and encouraged in some activities such as ballet. On the other hand, some people purposely puff up their chest to increase size and dominance (Cohen & Leung, 2009).
Suggested solutions and recommendations. Discuss the benefits of diaphragmatic breathing including its ability to reduce anxiety in social settings that may enhance confidence. Similar to an earlier suggestion, have the person explore clothing with a looser waist that still supports feelings of attractiveness and power.
Feeling anxious, fearful or threatened. The normal physiological stress reaction is a slight gasp with the tightening of the abdomen muscles for protection when a stressor occurs (Gilbert, 1998; Ekerholt & Bergland., 2008). The stressor can be an actual physical event, social situation or thoughts and emotions. Shallow breathing is a natural self-protective response. This pattern is often maintained until one feels ‘safe’ enough to relax, which for many can have a duration of the entire day or until finding the relative safety of sleep.
Suggested solutions and recommendations. Discuss how the physiological stress reaction is a normal response pattern that the person most likely learned in early childhood for self-protection. This pattern is often observed in clients who are emotionally sensitive and/or react excessively to a variety of stimuli. Note that some people have learned not to show their reactivity on their face or in the overt behaviors, yet they continue to breathe shallowly as a telltale sign of ‘distress.’ People who breath shallowly may experience this response as burdensome. Discuss with them how to reframe their sensitivity as a gift; namely, they are more aware of other people’s reactions and emotions. They just need to learn how not to respond automatically. Encourage awareness of their breath-holding and shallow breathing. Follow this by teaching them to replace the dysfunctional breathing with slow, diaphragmatic breathing at 6-breaths-per-minute. A possible training sequence is the following:
- Teach slow, diaphragmatic breathing
- Practice evoking a stressor and the moment the client senses the stress response, shallow breaths or holds their breath have them shift to slow, diaphragmatic breathing.
- If the person slouches in response to stress, the moment they become aware of slouching, have then sit erect, look up and then breathe diaphragmatically. (Peper et al., 2019)
Experiential practice: Transform stressful thoughts by looking up, breathing, and changing thoughts.
Evoke a stressor and then attempt to reframe the experience (cognitive behavior therapy or CBT approach).
Compare this to evoking a stressor, then shift to an upright position while looking up, take a few slow, diaphragmatic breaths, and reframe the experience.
In almost all cases, when the client shifts position, looks up and then reframes, the stress reaction is significantly reduced and it is much easier to reframe the experiences positively compared to when only attempting to reframe the experience (Peper et al., 2019).
Diaphragmatic breathing feels abnormal. How you breathe habitually is what feels normal unless there is overt illness such as asthma or emphysema. Any new pattern usually feels abnormal. When the person shifts their breathing pattern, such as in a transition from habitual shallow chest breathing to slower diaphragmatic abdominal breathing, it feels strange and wrong.
Suggested solutions and recommendations. Discuss the concept that habitual patterns are normal (e.g., a person who typically slouches when standing straight may experience that they are going to fall backwards). Emphasize the importance of making a shift in posture and leaning into the discomfort of the new experience. Often after practicing slow diaphragmatic breathing, the person may report feeling much more relaxed (e.g., sensing heaviness and warmth) with their fingers increasing in temperature.
2. Challenges that may occur when learning diaphragmatic breathing
Ideally, breathing is an effortless diaphragmatic process as described by the phrase, “it breathes me” (Luthe & Schultz, 1970; Luthe, 1979); however, some participants struggle to achieve this type of breathing. The following are common challenges and possible solutions:
Distraction and internal dialogue. Many people struggle with thoughts jumping from one area to another. Some people refer to this mental state as “monkey mind.”
Suggested solutions and recommendations. Validate that distraction and internal dialogue are normal and require continual managing and practice to overcome. Experimental Practice: Have the person train focus during diaphragmatic breathing techniques by focusing on 1 item in the room. Remind them that when thoughts arise, note them briefly instead of engaging with them and then refocus on the item. Start with increments of time and increase with practice.
Effect of gravity on breathing. In the vertical position, exhalation occurs when the abdomen constricts (slight tightening of the transverse and oblique abdominal muscles and the pelvic floor) pushes the diaphragm up, allowing the air to go out. It needs to push against gravity.
In the vertical position, inhalation occurs when the abdominal muscles and pelvic floor muscles relax and the abdomen widens in all directions (360 degrees) which causes the diaphragm to descend as it is being pulled down by gravity. This process allows effortless inhalation. The experience is the opposite when lying supine on one’s back. While lying down, gravity pulls on the abdomen that cause the diaphragm to go upward allowing the air to flow out during exhalation. Inhalation takes work because as the diaphragm descends it has to push the abdominal content upward against gravity.
Experiential practice: Erect versus supine
- Vertical position. Begin by exhaling completely by pulling the abdomen in and up while staying erect and not pressing/contracting the chest downward. At the end of exhalation, allow the abdomen to relax (pop out) and feel how the air is sucked in without trying to inhale
- Horizontal position. Begin by lying down, with the face pointing up. Inhale by expanding your abdomen and pushing your abdomen upward against gravity. Then let exhalation occur while totally relaxing as gravity pushes the abdomen downward, which pushes the diaphragm upward into the chest allowing the air to flow out. Optionally, place a small bag of rice/beans (e.g., approximately one to five pound or. One-half to two kilograms) on your lower abdomen while lying down. When you inhale, push the weight upward and away from you by allowing the stomach, but not the chest, to expand. Allow exhalation to occur as the weight pushes your abdomen down and upward into your chest. The weight is useful as it allows the mind to focus more easily on the task of feeling the movement of the abdomen.
Over breathing/hyperventilation. Even breathing at about six breaths per minute can cause hyperventilation can occur. Hyperventilation occurs when a person is breathing in excess of the metabolic needs of the body and thereby eliminating more carbon dioxide. The result is respiratory alkalosis and an elevated blood pH as the dissolved carbon dioxide (pCO2) in the blood is reduced (Folgering, 1999).
The most common symptoms of over breathing are colder sweaty hands and light-headedness. If this starts to occur, focus on decreasing the airflow during exhalation by exhaling through pursed lips making the sound, “Pssssssst.” While making this sound, make the sound softer with less airflow. Alternatively, have them imagine a holding a dandelion flower a few inches from their lips and blow so softly the seeds do not blow away. The blowing away of the seed is the feedback that you are blowing to hard as shown in Figure 2.

Figure 2. Dandelion seeds as feedback when the person is blowing with too much effort. Alternatively, we recommend that the client imagine smelling the scent/fragrance of a flower that usually causes nose inhalation and then exhale gently through pursed lips ast if the air flows over a candle and, the flame does not move back and forth.
Mouth breathing. Mouth breathing contributes to disturbed sleep, snoring, sleep apnea, dry mouth upon waking, fatigue, allergies, ear infections, attention deficit disorders, crowded miss-aligned teeth, and poorer quality of life (Kahn & Ehrlich, 2018). Even the risk of ear infections in children is 2.4 time higher for mouth breathers than nasal breathers (van Bon et al, 1989) and nine and ten year old children who mouth breath have significantly poorer quality of life and have higher use of medications (Leal et al, 2016).
Breathing through the nose is associated with deeper and slower breathing rate than mouth breathing. Nose breathing reduces airway irritation since the nose filters, humidifies, warms/cools the inhaled air as well as reduces the air turbulence in the upper airways. The epithelial cells of the nasal cavities produce nitric oxide that are carried into the lungs when inhaling during nasal breathing (Lundberg & Weitzberg, 1999). The nitric oxide contributes to healthy respiratory function by promoting vasodilation, aiding in airway clearance, exerting antimicrobial effects, and regulating inflammation (McKeown, 2019; Allen, 2024). Note that alternate nostril breathing, such as breathing in one nostril for 5-seconds and out of the other for 5-seconds is another technique which some people find beneficial.
Slower breathing approaches also facilitates sympathetic parasympathetic balance and reduces airway irritation. If the person breathes habitually through their mouth, refer them to health care provider to explore factors that may contribute to mouth breathing such as enlarged tonsils and adenoids or deviated septum. In addition, explore environmental factors that could contribute nasal inflammation such as allergies or foods such as dairy (Al-Raby, 2016).
Performance anxiety. Many participants are concerned about their performance. The direct instructions such as “follow the graphic” causes the person to try hard to breathe with too much effort. Explore some of the following indirect strategies to interrupt ongoing cognitive judgements and self-talk.
- Toning or humming (Peper et al., 2019a). While exhaling, have the person hum a sound with their mouth closed. Let the sound go for about 6 seconds, relax, inhale and hum again. Toning is very similar except you verbalize a tone such as “Oammm.” (For detailed instructions on toning, see: Anziani & Peper (2021)).
- Stroking down arms and legs during exhalation. Have a partner gently stroke down your arms from your shoulder past your fingertips as you are exhaling. The downward stroking is in rhythm with the exhalation. As the arm is being stroked, attend to the sensations going down the arms. Be sure that the toucher exhales at the same time and the stroking down the arm takes about six seconds. After being stroked for a few times, have the person imagine that each time they exhale they feel a flow down through their arms and out their fingers.
- Repeat the same process while stroking down the legs from the side of their hips to their toes.
- Finally, have the person imagine/feel the sensation streaming down their legs with each exhalation.
- Many participants will report that they sense a steaming going down their arms, that they hands warm up, and their thought have stopped.
- Integrated body movement with breathing especially flexion and contraction (Meehan & Shaffer, 2023). Integrate the normal response of flexion that induces exhalation and extension evokes inhalation. Be careful that the flexion movement does not encourage participants to compress their chest during exhalation, which tends to encourage chest breathing. Have the person focus on their head staying tall and erect. Have the person sit straight up with their feet slight apart and their hands palm down on their lap. Allow inhaling to initiate as the person simultaneously arches their lower back expanding the stomach, separating the knees and turning the hands palm up. Initiate exhalation while simultaneously bringing the knees together, turning the palms face down on the thighs and rolling the pelvic back slightly rounding the lower back. Do the movements smoothly while keeping the legs and shoulders relaxed.
Flooded by emotions. Although very rare, at times when the person allows the abdomen to relax, they may experience by the emotions from a past trauma as the habitual bracing patterns are relaxed.
Suggested solutions and recommendations. Validate these emotions for the person. Explain that this is a normal process that may occur if past trauma has occurred. Clients who have had past trauma often experience hypervigilance, which may interfere with the relaxation response that occurs during more optimal states of breathing. Transitioning to a more optimal rest state may be uncomfortable for a person who has experienced trauma because it reduces hypervigilance. This can feel uncomfortable as hypervigilance in these cases serves a protective role, even if it is an illusory feeling of protection from future harm. Since persistent hypervigilance can interfere with the relaxation response, the benefits of allowing a relaxation response to occur through slower breathing should be highlighted. Grounding techniques as described by Peper et al (2024a) can be useful to become centered.
3. Strategies to generalize the effortless breathing into daily life.
Generalizing the skill occurs after having mastered diaphragmatic breathing in different positions (sitting, standing, lying down, and while performing tasks). It is important to remember that our breathing patterns are conditioned with our behavior. Become aware how breathing affects cognitions and emotions and how emotions and cognitions affects breathing. The following are some strategies that may facilitate learning and generalizing the slower breathing skills.
Observing how our behavior affects our breathing: Anything that may evoke the alarm or defense reaction tends to cause the person gasp and/or hold their breath. For example, when a person is sitting peacefully, make an unexpected noise behind their back or movement in their periphery of vision. In most cases they will gasp or hold their breath. Usually, they are unaware of this process unless they are asked what happened to their breathing. The major reason for the breath holding is that the stimuli triggers an alarm/defense reaction and when we hold our breath our hearing is more acute (we can hear approaching danger earlier). The problem is that we give this response when there is no actual, immediate or present threat.
Experiential practice. Sit comfortably. Now as quickly as possible without rotating the head, look with your eyes to the extreme right and then left and back and forth as if trying to identify danger at the periphery. Do this for a few eye movements. Almost everyone holds their breath when doing this exercise. For generalizing the skill, ask the person to observe during the day situations in which they hold their breath, ask them if it was necessary and encourage them to start diaphragmatic breathing.
Observing how breathing affects our thoughts and emotions. Breathing patterns are intrinsically linked to our emotions and thoughts as illustrated in the many language phrases such as sigh of relief, full of hot air, waiting with bated breath. At the same time, our breathing patterns also affect our thoughts. For instance, when we breathe shallowly and more rapidly, we can induce feelings of fear or anxiety. If we gasp, we can experience thought stopping.
Experiential practices: Incomplete exhalation: Observe what happens when you exhale less than you inhale. Begin by exhaling only 70% of the air you inhaled, then inhale and exhale again only 70% of the air you just inhaled continue this for 30 seconds. Many people will experience the onset of anxiety symptoms, lightheadedness, dizziness, neck and shoulder tension, etc. (Peper & MacHose, 1993). If you experience symptoms during this exercise and you have experienced these symptoms in the past, it is likely that unknowingly breathing in a dysfunctional pattern could have evoked them. Therefore, practicing effortless breathing may interrupt and reduce the symptoms. Do this practice while observing the person carefully and immediately interrupt and distract the person if they start feeling dizzy, too anxious, or trigger the beginning of a panic attack or PTSD symptoms.
Experiential practice: Gasp or sniff-hold sniff. Observe what happens when you are performing a cognitive task and you rapidly gasp or do sniff-hold-sniff again before exhaling. Begin by sequentially subtracting mentally, the number 7 from 146 (e.g., 146, 139, 132….). Do this as rapidly as possible and do not make a mistake. While doing the subtracting, take a rapid gasp (such as one is triggered by surprise or fear), alternatively, take a quick sniff through your nose, hold your breath and take another sniff on top of the first one, then exhale. Whereas subtrating numbers is a skill most adults can perform, the ‘time pressure’ along with the direction to avoid mistakes may be the ‘immediate’ source of strain. Whether it was the time pressure, the direction to avoid mistakes or the direction to gasp, observe what happened to your thinking process. In almost all cases, your higher-order thoughts (doing the sequential subtraction under time pressure while gasping) have disappeared, replaced by the immediate thoughts of ‘performance anxiety.’
If you blank out on exams or experience anxiety, gasping and breath holding may be one of the factors that increases symptoms and affects your performance. If you are aware that you are holding your breath or gasped, use that as the cue to shift to slow diaphragmatic breathing and you may find that your performance improves. Therefore, observe when and where you were blanking out, gasping and/or holding your breathing then substitute slow, effortless diaphragmatic breathing.
How to develop awareness and interrupting of dysfunctional breathing response. Most participants are unaware of their somatic responses until symptoms occur. Being aware of the initiation of a somatic response may assist you in identifying triggers and interrupting the developing process. A significant component of the training is symptom prescription rehearsal.
Symptom prescription is a practice in which the participant simulates/acts out the psychophysiological pattern associated with their symptoms. They amplify the body pattern until they feel the onset of the actual symptoms. The moment the person feels the beginning of the symptom, they stop the practice and initiate slow breathing and relaxation. After practicing the symptom rehearsal, they are instructed to become aware of the onset of the symptom and then use that signal to trigger the effortless breathing while looking up and shifting the body into an upright sitting position (Peper et al., 2019). Gasping and breath holding are normal responses to unexpected stimuli; however, they may trigger sympathetic activation even when there is no actual danger.
Experiential practice: Developing awareness on neck and shoulder tension:
Sit comfortably and practice effortless breathing for a minute. Take a fearful gasp and observe what happens in your body (e.g., slight neck and upper chest tension, light headedness, slight radiating pain into the eye, etc.). Shift back to effortless breathing until all symptoms /sensations have disappeared.
- Now gasp with less effort and observe the first sensations, use the awareness of first sensations to trigger the effortless breathing and continue to breathe until symptoms have disappeared
- Continue this practice. Reduce the gasping effort each time.
- After having developed the initial somatic sensation then during the day observe what triggers this response and immediately shift to slower diaphragmatic breathing. After you have shifted to effortless breathing, reflect on the trigger. Was it necessary to react? If yes, explore strategies to resolve the issue.
The same process can be done to assist with desensitization to painful memories or stressful events. Each time the person becomes aware of their somatic reaction to an evoked memory or stressful event, they shift to effortless diaphragmatic breathing. If they find that it is difficult to interrupt the emotional memories and it triggers more and more negative thoughts and associations, use the sniff-hold-sniff technique and follow that with box-breathing or any of the other quick somatic rescue techniques (Peper et al., 2024a). Box-breathing in this context could include a brief breath-holding. A typical box-breathing technique is to breath in for a count of four, hold for a count of four, breath out for a count of four, then breath in again for a count of four, continuing the figurative 4-4-4-4 count of breathing.
Practice slower diaphragmatic breathing during the day. Implement effortless diaphragmatic breathing through regeneration and interrupting the stress response.
- Support regeneration. Each day set aside 10 to 20 minutes to practice slow effortless diaphragmatic breathing at about 6-breaths-per-minute. In the beginning 10 to 20 minutes may be too long, thus in some cases have the person practice a few times a day for two minutes and slowly build up to 10 or more minutes. The practice is not just a mechanical process of breathing it includes mindfulness training. Namely, as you are breathing each time you exhale imagine a flow doing down your arms and legs and as you inhale an energy coming into you. Whenever your attention drifts bring it back to the breathing.
- Integrate breathing with daily activities. Practice slower breather before eating, after putting the seat belt on in the car, or whenever a notification pops up on the cell phone.
- Set reminders and alarms on your phone to check how you are feeling and breathing. Leave notes on nearby furniture such as a nightstand, on the shower door, and/or on the kitchen table as reminders to be mindful of your breath. If stressed or breathing shallowly, take a moment to breathe slowly.
- Interrupt the stress response. During the day when you are aware that you shallow breathe, are holding your breath, feel anxious, experience neck and shoulder tightness, or worry and use that as a cue to shift position by sitting or standing more erect, looking upward and take a few slow diaphragmatic breaths.
- Use cue condition to facilitate this process. Each time you begin the practice smell a specific aroma or do some behavioral movement and then do the breathing. After a while the aroma or behavioral movement will become the classically conditioned cue to trigger the effortless breathing.
- Use role rehearsal and conditioning to generalize the skill. Generalizing the skills often takes more time than what may be expected. In a culture where instant relief is expected— implied message associated with medication— self-mastery techniques are different and challenging as they take time to master the skill and implement them during daily life. The process of mastery is similar to learning to play a musical instrument or sports. Learning to play the violin requires practice as well as practice with failures along the way until one is ready for more challenging musical pieces, recitals, or performances.
A useful strategy to implement the learning is role rehearsal in the office, at home at work, and in real life. It is usually much easier to practice these skills in a safe space such as your own room or, with a therapist compared to with other people or, at work. To generalize the skill most efficiently, it can be helpful to practice in a safe environment while imagining being in the actual stressful location This process is illustrated by the strategy to reduce social anxiety and menstrual cramps.
Social anxiety when seeing my supervisor. Master effortless breathing in a safe environment. Role rehearsal in imagery. If you observed that you held your breath when your supervisor is around, begin with imagery when your supervisor is not present. Sit, comfortably. Let go of muscle tension and breathe effortlessly, evoking a scenario where your supervisor is walking by and continue to breathe slowly as you imagine the scene. Role rehearsal in action. Ask another person to role-play your supervisor. Sit, comfortably. Let go of muscle tension and breathe effortlessly. Have this person walk into the room in a similar way that your supervisor would. Imagine that person is your supervisor while practicing your effortless breathing. Repeat until the effortless breathing is more automatic. Practice many times in real life. Whenever the rehearsed situation occurs, implement slower paced breathing.
Menstrual cramps that causes most women to curl up and breathe shallowly when experiencing menstrual cramps (Peper et al., 2023). Master effortless breathing in a safe environment. Practice breathing lying down. While lying down, breathe diaphragmatically by having a three-to-five-pound weight such as a bag of rice or hot water pad on your abdomen. If you have a partner, have the person stroke your legs from the abdomen to your toes while you exhale. Role rehearse experiencing pain and then practice lower diaphragmatic breathing. Namely, tighten your abdomen as if you have discomfort, then focus on relaxing the buttocks and sensing the air flowing down your legs and out your feet as you exhale. Practice in real life. A few days before you expected menstruation, practice slow diaphragmatic breathing several times for at least 5-10 minutes during the day. When your menstruation starts practice the slower and lower breathing while imagining the air flowing down the abdomen, through the legs and out the feet.
Summary/Conclusion
Breathing is the mind-body bridge. It usually occurs without awareness and breathing changes affect our thought, emotions and body. Mastering and implementing slower breathing during the day takes time and practice. By observing when breathing patterns change, participants may identify internal and external factors that affect breathing which provides an opportunity to implement effortless diaphragmatic breathing to optimize health as well as resolve some of the triggers. As one 20-year-old, female student reported,
The biggest benefit from learning diaphragmatic breathing was that it gave me the feeling of safety in many moments. My anxiety tended to make me feel unsafe in many situations but homing in and mastering diaphragmatic breathing helped tremendously. I shifted from constant chest breathing to acknowledging it and in turn, reminding myself to breathe with my diaphragm.
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