Reduce Interpersonal Stress*

Adapted from: Peper, E. & Harvey, R. Adjunctive techniques to reduce interpersonal stress at home. Biofeedback. 53(3), 54-57. https://rdcu.be/eMJqt

Stress often triggers defensive reactions—manifesting as anger, frustration, or anxiety that may mirror fight-or-flight responses. These reactions can reduce rational thinking, increase long-term health risks, and contribute to psychological and physiological disorders. and complicate the management of specific symptoms. Outlined are some pragmatic techniques that can be implemented during the day to interrupt and reduce stress.

After we had been living in our house for a few years, a new neighbor moved in next door. Within months, she accused us of moving things in her yard, blamed us when there was a leak in her house, claimed we were blowing leaves from her property onto other neighbors’ properties, and even screamed at her tenants to the extent that the police were called numerous times. Just looking at her house through the window was enough to make my shoulders tighten and leave me feeling upset.

When I drove home and saw her standing in front of her house, I would drive around the block one more time to avoid her while . . . feeling my body contract. Often, when I woke up in the morning, I would already anticipate conflict with my neighbor. I would share stories of my disturbing neighbor and her antics with my friends. They were very supportive and agreed with me that she was crazy. However, the acknowledgment and validation from my friends did not resolve my anger or indignation or the anxiety that was triggered whenever I saw my neighbor or thought of her. I spent far too much time anticipating and thinking about her, which resulted in tension in my own body—my heart rate would increase, and my neck and shoulders would tighten.

I decided to change. I knew I could not change her; however, I could change my reactivity and perspective. Thus, I practiced a “pause and recenter” technique. At the first moment of awareness that I was thinking about her or her actions, I would change my posture by sitting up straight, begin looking upward, breathe lower and slower, and then, in my mind’s eye, send a thought of goodwill streaming to her like an ocean wave flowing through and around her in the distance. I chose to do this series of steps because I believe that within every person, no matter how crazy or cruel, there is a part that is good, and it is that part I want to support.

I repeated this pause and recenter technique many times, especially whenever I looked in the direction of her house or saw her in her yard. I also reframed and reappraised her aggressive, negative behavior as her way of coping with her own demons. Three months later, I no longer reacted defensively. When I see her, I can say hello and discuss the weather without triggering my defensive reaction. I feel so much more at peace living where I am.

When stressed, angry, rejected, frustrated, or hurt, we so often blame the other person (Leary, 2015). The moment we think about that person or event, our anger, indignation, resentment, and frustration are triggered. We keep rehashing what happened. As we relive the experiences in our mind, we are unaware that we are also reliving bodily reactions to past events.

We are often unaware of the harm we are doing to ourselves until we experience physical symptoms such as high blood pressure, gastrointestinal distress, and muscle tightness along with behavioral and psychological symptoms such as insomnia, anxiety, or depression (Carney et al., 2006; Gerin et al., 2012). As we think of past events or interact again with a person involved in those past events, our body automatically responds with a defense reaction as if we were being threatened again in the present moment.

This defense reaction to memory of past threats from a “crazy” neighbor activates our fight-or-flight responses and increases sympathetic activation so that we can run faster and fight more ferociously to survive; however, this reaction also reduces blood flow through the frontal cortex—a process that reduces our ability to think rationally (van Dinther et al., 2024; Willeumier, et al., 2011). When we become so upset and stressed that our mind is captured by the other person, this reaction contributes to symptoms of chronic stress such as an increase in hypertension, myofascial pain, depression, insomnia, cardiovascular disease, and other chronic disorders (Duan et al., 2022; Russell et al., 2015; Suls, 2013).

Sharing our frustrations with friends and others is normal. It feels good to blame people for their personal limitations or mental illness; however, over time, blaming others avoids building adaptive capacity in strengthening skills that reduce chronic stress reactions (Fast & Tiedens, 2010; Lou et al., 2023). The time spent rehashing and justifying our feelings diminishes the time we spend in the present moment and our focus on upcoming opportunities.

In the moment of an encounter with a difficult neighbor, we may not realize that we have a choice. Some people keep living and reacting to past hurts or losses perpetually. Some people can learn to let go and/or forgive and make space in favor of considering new opportunities for learning and growth. Although the choice is ours, it is often very challenging to implement—even with the best intentions—because we react automatically when reminded of past hurts (seeing that person, anticipating meeting or actually meeting that person who caused the hurt, or being triggered by other events that evoke memories of the pain).

What Can You Do

Choose to change your response. Choose to reduce reactivity. Choosing adaptive reactions does not mean you condone what happened or agree that the other person was right. You are just choosing to live your life and not continue to be captured by nor react to the previous triggers. Many people report that after implementing some of the practices described below along with many other stress management techniques, their automatic reactivity was noticeably decreased. They report that their chronic stress symptoms were reduced and they have the freedom to live in present instead of being captured by the painful past.

Pause and Recenter by Sending Goodwill

Our automatic reaction to the trigger elicits a defense reaction that reduces our ability to think rationally. Therefore, the moment you anticipate or begin to react, take three very slow diaphragmatic breaths, inhaling for approximately 4–5 seconds and exhaling for about 5–6 seconds, where one in-and-out breath takes about 10 seconds to complete. As you inhale, allow your abdomen to expand; then as you exhale, slowly make yourself tall and look up. Looking up allows easier access to empowering and positive memories (Peper et al., 2017).

Continue looking up, inhaling slowly to allow the abdomen to expand. Repeat this slow breath again. On the third long, slow breath, while looking up, evoke a memory of someone in whose presence you felt at peace and who loves you, such as your grandmother, aunt, uncle, or even a pet. Reawaken positive feelings associated with memories of being loved. Allow a smile inwardly or outwardly and soften your eyes as you experience the loving memory.

Next, put your hands on your chest, take another long slow breath as your abdomen expands, and as you exhale bring your hands away from your chest and stretch them out in front of you. At the same time in your mind’s eye, imagine sending goodwill to that person involved in the interpersonal conflict that previously evoked your stress response. As if you are sending an ocean wave that is streaming outward to the person.

As you do the pause and recenter technique, remember you are not condoning what happened; instead, you are sending goodwill to that person’s positive aspect. From this perspective, everyone has an intrinsic component—however small—that some label as the individual’s human potential, Christ nature or Buddha nature.

Why would this be effective? This practice short-circuits the automatic stress response and provides time to recenter, interrupting ongoing rumination by shifting the mind away from thoughts about the person or event that induced stress toward a positive memory. By evoking a loving memory from the past, we facilitate a reduction in arousal, evoke a positive mood, and decrease sympathetic nervous system activation (Speer & Delgado, 2017). Slower diaphragmatic breathing also reduces sympathetic activation (Birdee et al., 2023; Siedlecki et al., 2022). By combining body-centered and mind-centered techniques, we can pause and create the opportunity to respond positively rather than reacting with anger and hurt.

Practice Sending Goodwill the Moment You Wake Up

So often when we wake up, we anticipate the challenges, and even the prospect of interacting with a person or event heightens our defense reaction. Therefore, as soon as you wake up, sit at the edge of the bed, repeat the previous practice, pause, and center. Then, as you sit at the edge of the bed, slightly smile with soft eyes, look up, and inhale as your abdomen expands. Then, stamp a foot into the floor while saying, “Today is a new day.” Next, inhale, allowing your abdomen to expand; as you look up, stamp the opposite foot on the floor while saying, “Today is a new day.” Finally, send goodwill to the person who previously triggered your defensive reaction.

Why would this be effective? Looking up makes it easier to access positive memories and thoughts. Stamping your foot on the ground is a nonverbal expression of determination and anchors the thought of a new day, thereby focusing on new opportunities (Feldman, 2022).

Interrupt the Stress Response with the ABCs

The moment you notice discomfort, pain, stress, or negative thoughts, interrupt the cycle with a simple ABC strategy (Peper, 2025):

  • Adjust posture and look up
  • Breathe by allowing your abdomen to relax and expand while inhaling
  • Change your internal dialogue, smile and focus on what you want to do

Why would this be effective? By shifting your posture and gently looking upward, you make it easier to access positive and empowering memories and thoughts (Peper et al., 2019).  This simple change in body position can interrupt habitual stress responses and open the doorway to more constructive states.

Slow, diaphragmatic breathing further supports this process by reducing sympathetic arousal and restoring a sense of calm. As your breathing deepens, clarity of mind increases, allowing you to respond rather than react (Peper et al, 2024b; Matto et al, 2025).

Equally important is transforming critical, judgmental, or negative self-talk into affirmative, supportive statements. Describe what you want to do—rather than what you want to avoid. This reframing creates a clear internal guide and significantly increases the likelihood that you will achieve your desired goals.

Complete the Alarm Reaction a Burst of Physical Activity

When you feel overwhelmed and fully captured by a stress reaction, one of the most effective strategies is to complete the fight-flight response with a brief burst of intense physical activity. This momentary action such as running in place, vigorously shaking your arms, or doing a few rapid push-offs from a wall (Peper et al., 2024a). After completing the physical activity implement your stress management strategies such as breathing, cognitive reframing, meditation, etc.

Why would this be effective? The intense physical activity discharges the excessive physiological arousal and interrupts the cycle of rumination.  For practical examples and step-by-step guidance, see the article Quick Rescue Techniques When Stressed (Peper et al., 2024a) or the accompanying blog post: https://peperperspective.com/2024/02/04/quick-rescue-techniques-when-stressed/

Discuss Your Issue from the Third-Person Perspective

When thinking, ruminating, talking, texting, or writing about the event, discuss it from the third-person perspective. Replace the first-person pronoun “I” with “she” or “he.” For example, instead of saying “I was really pissed off when my boss criticized my work without giving any positive suggestions for improvement,” say “He was really pissed off when his boss criticized his work without offering any positive suggestions for improvement.”

Why would this be effective? The act of substituting the third-person pronoun for the first-person pronoun interrupts our automatic reactivity because it requires us to observe and change our language, which activates parts of the frontal cortex. This third-person/first-person process creates a psychological distance from our feelings, allowing for a more objective and calmer perspective on the situation, effectively reducing stress by stepping back from the immediate emotional response (Moser et al., 2017). This process can be interpreted as meaning that you are no longer fully captured by the emotions, as you are simultaneously the observer of your own inner language and speech.

Compare Yourself with Others Who are less Fortunate

When you feel sorry for yourself or hurt, take a breath, look upward, and compare yourself with others who are suffering much more. In that moment, consider yourself incredibly lucky compared with people enduring extreme poverty, bombings, or severe disfigurement. Be grateful for what you have.

Why would this be effective? Research shows that when we compare ourselves with people who are more successful, we tend to feel worse—especially when we have low self-esteem. However, when we compare ourselves with others who are suffering more, we tend to feel better (Aspinwall, & Taylor, 1993). This comparison relativizes our perspective on suffering, making our own hardships and suffering seem less significant compared with the severe suffering of others.

Conclusion

It is much easier to write and talk about these practices than to implement them. Reminding yourself to implement them can be very challenging. It requires significant effort and commitment. In some cases, the benefits are not experienced immediately; however, when practiced many times during the day for six to eight weeks, many people report feeling less resentment and experience a reduction in symptoms and improvements in health and relationships.

*This blog was inspired by the podcast “No Hard Feelings,” an episode on Hidden Brain produced by Shankar Vedantam (2025) that featured psychologist Fred Luskin, and the wisdom taught by Dora Kunz (Kunz & Peper, 1983, 1984a, 1984b, 1987).

See the following posts for more relevant information

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Breathe Away Menstrual Pain- A Simple Practice That Brings Relief *

Adapted from: Peper, E. Harvey, R., Chen, & Heinz, N. (2025). Practicing diaphragmatic breathing reduces menstrual symptoms both during in-person and synchronous online teaching. Applied Psychophysiology and Biofeedback, Published online: 25 October 2025.  https://rdcu.be/eMJqt  https://doi.org/10.1007/s10484-025-09745-7

“Once again, the pain starts—sharp, deep, and overwhelming—until all I can do is curl up and wait for it to pass. There’s no way I can function like this, so I call in sick. The meds take the edge off, but they don’t really fix anything—they just mask it for a little while. I usually don’t tell anyone it’s menstrual pain; I just say I’m not feeling well. For the next couple of days, I’m completely drained, struggling just to make it through.

Many women experience discomfort during menstruation, from mild cramps to intense, even disabling pain. When the pain becomes severe, the body instinctively responds by slowing down—encouraging rest, curling up to protect the abdomen, and often reaching for medication in hopes of relief. For most, the symptoms ease within a day or two, occasionally stretching into three, before the body gradually returns to balance.

Another helpful approach is to practice slow abdominal breathing, guided by a breathing app FlowMD. In our study led by Mattia Nesse, PhD, in Italy, the response of one 22-year-old woman illustrated the power of this simple practice.

“Last night my period started, so I was a bit discouraged because I knew I’d get stomach pain, etc. On the other hand, I said, “Okay, let’s see if the breathing works,” and it was like magic — incredible. I’ll need to try it more times to understand whether it consistently has the same effect, but right now it truly felt magical. Just 3 minutes of deep breathing with the app were enough, and I’m not saying I don’t feel any pain anymore, but it has decreased a lot, so thank you! Thank you again for this tool… I’m really happy!”

The Silent Burden of Menstrual Pain

Menstrual pain, or dysmenorrhea, affects most women at some point in their lives — often silently. For many, the monthly cycle brings not only physical discomfort but also shame, fatigue, and interruptions to work or school. It is one of the leading causes of absenteeism and reduced productivity worldwide (Itani et al., 2022; Thakur & Pathania, 2022).  In addition, the estimated health cost ranged from US $1367 to US$ 7043 per year (Huang et al., 2021). Yet, despite its prevalence, most women are never taught how to use their own physiology to ease these symptoms.

The Study (Peper et al, 2025)

Seventy-five university women participated across two upper-division Holistic Health courses. Forty-nine practiced 30 minutes per day of breathing and relaxation over five weeks as well as practicing the moment they anticipated or felt discomfort; twenty-six served as a comparison group without a specific daily self-care routine. Students rated change in menstrual symptoms on a scale from –5 (“much worse”) to +5 (“much better”). For the detailed steps in training,  see the blog: https://peperperspective.com/2023/04/22/hope-for-menstrual-cramps-dysmenorrhea-with-breathing/ (Peper et al., 2023).

 What changed

The results were striking. Women who practiced breathing and relaxation showed significant decrease in menstrual symptoms compared to the non-intervention group (p = 0.0008) as shown in Figure 1.

Figure 1. Decrease in menstrual symptoms as compared to the control group after implementing slow diaphragmatic breathing.

Why does breathing and posture change have a beneficial effect?

When you stay curled up, your abdomen becomes compressed, leaving little room for the lower belly to relax or for the diaphragm to move freely. The result? Tension builds, and pain often increases.

To reverse this, create space for relaxation. Gently loosen your waist and let your abdomen expand as you inhale. Uncurl your body—lengthen your spine and open your chest, as shown in Figure 2. With each easy breath, you invite calm and allow your body to shift from tension to ease.

Figure 2. Curling up compresses the abdomen and prevents relaxation of the lower belly. In contrast, lying flat with the body gently expanded allows the abdomen to move freely with each breath, which can help reduce menstrual discomfort.

In contrast, slow abdominal or diaphragmatic breathing activates the body’s natural relaxation response. It quiets the stress-driven sympathetic nervous system, calms the mind, and improves circulation in the abdominal area. With each slow breath in, the abdomen gently expands while the pelvic floor and abdominal muscles relax. As you exhale, these muscles naturally tighten slightly, helping to massage and move blood and lymph through the abdominal region. This rhythmic movement supports healing and ease, as illustrated in Figure 3.

Figure 3. The dynamic process of diaphragmatic breathing.

The process of slower, lower diaphragmatic breathing

When lying down, rest comfortably on your back with your legs slightly apart. Allow your abdomen to rise naturally as you inhale and fall as you exhale. As you breathe out, imagine the air flowing through your abdomen, down your legs, and out through your feet. To deepen this sensation, you can ask a partner to gently stroke from your abdomen down your legs as you exhale—helping you sense the flow of release through your body.

Gently focus on slow, effortless diaphragmatic breathing. With each inhalation, your abdomen expands, and the lower belly softens. As you exhale, the abdomen gently goes down pushing the diaphragm upward and allowing the air to leave easily. Breathing slowly—about six breaths per minute—helps engage the body’s natural relaxation response.

If you notice that your breath is staying high in your chest instead of expanding through the abdomen, your symptoms may not improve and can even increase. One participant experienced this at first. After learning to let her abdomen expand with each inhalation while keeping her shoulders and chest relaxed, her next menstrual cycle was markedly easier and far less uncomfortable. The lesson is clear: technique matters.

“During times of pain, I practiced lying down and breathing through my stomach… and my cramps went away within ten minutes. It was awesome.” — 22-year-old college student

“Whenever I felt my cramps worsening, I practiced slow deep breathing for five to ten minutes. The pain became less debilitating, and I didn’t need as many painkillers.” — 18-year-old college student

These successes point out that it’s not just breathing — it’s how you breathe by providing space for the abdomen to expand during inhalation.

Practice: How to Do Diaphragmatic Breathing

  1. Find a quiet space. Lie on your back or sit comfortably erect with your shoulders relaxed.
  2. Place one hand on your chest and one on your abdomen.
  3. Inhale slowly through your nose for about 3–4 seconds. Let your abdomen expand as you breathe in — your chest should remain relaxed.
  4. Exhale gently through your mouth for 4—6 seconds, allowing the abdomen to fall or constrict naturally.
  5. As you exhale imagine the air moving down your arms, through your abdomen, down your legs, and out your feet
  6. Practice daily for 20 minutes and also for 5–10 minutes during the day when menstrual discomfort begins.
  7. Add warmth. Placing a warm towel or heating pad over your abdomen can enhance relaxation while lying on your back and breathing slowly.

With regular practice and implementing it during the day when stressed, this simple method can reduce cramps, promote calm, and reconnect you with your body’s natural rhythm.

Implement the ABCs during the day

The ABC sequence—adapted from the work of Dr. Charles Stroebel, who developed The Quieting Reflex (Stroebel, 1982)—teaches a simple way to interrupt stress reactions in real time. The moment you notice discomfort, pain, stress, or negative thoughts, interrupt the cycle with a simple ABC strategy:

A — Adjust your posture

Sit or stand tall, slightly arch your lower back and allowing the abdomen to expand while you inhale and look up. This immediately shifts your body out of the collapsed “defense posture’ and increases access to positive thoughts (Tsai et all, 2016; Peper et al., 2019)

B — Breathe

Allow your abdomen to expand as you inhale slowly and deeply. Let it get smaller as you exhale. Gently make a soft hissing sound as you exhale while helps the abdomen and pelvic floor to tighten.  Then allow the abdomen to relax and widen which without effort draws the air in during inhalation. As you exhale, stay tall and imagine the air flowing  through you and down your legs and out your feet.

C — Concentrate

Refocus your attention on what you want to do and add a gentle smile. This engages positive emotions, the smile helps downshift tension.

The video clip guides you through the ABCs process.

Integrate the breathing during the day by implementing your ABCs

When students practice relaxation technique and this method, they reported greater reductions in symptoms compared with a control group. By learning to notice tension and apply the ABC steps as soon as stress arises, they could shift their bodies and minds toward calm more quickly, as shown in Figure 4.

Figure 4. Change in symptoms after practicing a sequential relaxation and breathing techniques for four weeks.

Takeaway

Menstrual pain doesn’t have to be endured in silence or masked by medication alone. By practicing 30 minutes of slow diaphragmatic breathing daily and many times during the day, women may be able to reduce pain, stress, and discomfort — while building self-awareness and confidence in their body’s natural rhythms thereby having the opportunity to be more productive.

See the following blogs for more in-depth information and practical tips on how to learn and apply diaphragmatic breathing:

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*Edited with the help of ChatGPT 5


Addicted to Your Phone? How to Separate from Your Phone for a Healthy Lifestyle

From: Peper, E. (2025 April 15). Addicted to your phone? How to separate you’re your phone for a healthy lifestyle. Townsend Letter-Innovative Health Perspectives. https://townsendletter.com/addicted-to-your-phone-how-to-separate-from-your-phone-for-a-healthy-lifestyle/; Adapted from the book by Erik Peper, Richard Harvey and Nancy Faass, TechStress-How Technology is Hijacking our Lives, Strategies for Coping and Pragmatic Ergonomics, North Atlantic Press. https://www.amazon.com/Beyond-Ergonomics-Prevent-Fatigue-Burnout/dp/158394768X/

Abstract

In today’s hyper-connected world, technology has subtly ensnared us in evolutionary traps, exploiting innate survival instincts to capture and fragment our attention. Although digital devices offer unprecedented convenience, they simultaneously may harm our mental, physical, and emotional well-being through prolonged screen exposure, digital distraction, and sedentary behavior. The unintended consequences of constant connectivity may increase anxiety, loneliness, and cognitive overload. Social media, Zoom fatigue, and media multitasking reinforce a cycle of passivity and diminished memory retention and attention span, while also reshaping our posture, behavior, and social interactions. The evidence suggests a growing mental health crisis. Yet, with conscious interventions such as digital detoxes, posture awareness, scheduled breaks, and sleep hygiene, we can reclaim our well-being. Rather than reject technology, we must learn to engage with it mindfully, respecting both our evolutionary design and the need for balance in a digital age.

Our Evolutionary Traps with Technology

Maintaining and optimizing health at the computer means re-envisioning our relationship with technology—and reclaiming health, happiness, and sanity in a plugged-in world. We have the ability to control everything from our mobile phones without needing to get up from our seat. Work, social life, and online learning all involve the mobile phone or some type of smart devices.

A convenient little device that is supposed to simplify our lives has actually trapped us into a vicious cycle of relying on it for every single thing we must do. We spend most of our day being exposed to digital displays on our smartphones, computers, gaming consoles, and other digital devices, immersing ourselves in the content we are viewing. From work related emails or tasks, to spending our free time looking at the screen for texting, playing games, and updating social media sites on a play-by-play of what we are eating, wearing, and doing. We click on one hyperlink after the other and create a vicious cycle trapped for hours until we realize we need to move. We are unaware how much time has frittered away without actually doing anything productive and then, we realize we have wasted another day.

Below are some recent estimates of ‘daily active user’ minutes per day that use a screen

• Facebook about an hour per day
• Instagram just under an hour per day
• Texting about 45 minutes per day
• Internet browsing, about 45 minutes per day
• Snapchat, about 30 minutes per day
• Twitter, about 25 minutes per day

Adolescents and college students interact with media for over 40 hours per week, or around six hours per day. That is a lot of hours spent on staring at the screen, which makes it almost impossible not to be distracted by the digital screen. In time, we rehearse a variety of physical body postures as well as a variety of cognitive and behavioral states that impact our physical, mental, emotional, and social health. The powerful audiovisual formats override our desires to do something different, that some of us become enslaved to streaming videos, playing virtual games, or texting. We then tell ourselves that the task that needs to be done, will be finished later. That later becomes never by the end of the day, since the ongoing visual and auditory notifications from our apps interrupt and/or capture our attention. This difficulty to turn away from visual or auditory stimuli roots in our survival instincts.

Each time visual or auditory stimuli occur, we automatically check it out and see if it is a friend or foe, safety or danger. It is such an automatic response that we are unaware we are reacting. The good news is that we all have experienced this compelling effect. Even when we are waiting for a response and the notification has not arrived, we may anticipate or project that there may be new information on our social media accounts, and sometimes we become disappointed when the interval between notifications is long. As one student said, “Don’t worry, they’ll respond. It’s only been 30 seconds.” Anticipating responses from the media can interrupt what we are otherwise doing. Rather than finishing our work or task, we continuously check for updates on social media, even though we probably know that there are no new important messages to which we would have to respond right away. As a result our attention span has decreased from 150 seconds in 2004 to 44 seconds in 2021 (Mark, 2023).

Unfortunately, some forms of social media interactions also lead to a form of social isolation, loneliness–sometimes called phoneliness (Christodoulou, G., Majmundar, A., Chou, C-P, & Pentz, M.A., 2020; Kardaras, 2017). Digital content requires the individual to respond to the digital stimuli, without being aware of the many verbal and nonverbal communication cues (facial expressions, gestures, tone of voice, eye contact, body language, posture, touch, etc.) that are part of social communication (Remland, 2016).

It is no wonder that more and more adolescents are experiencing anxiety, depression, loneliness, and attention deficit disorders due to a constant “digital diet,” which some have argued includes not only media but also junk food. Mental health trends have significantly worsened, particularly since 2013. Pediatric mental health–related emergency department visits increased by 70% from 2011 to 2020, rising from 4.8 million to 7.5 million—a shift from 7.7% to 13.1% of all pediatric emergency visits. The greatest increases were observed among adolescents and across all sexes, races, and ethnicities. Suicide-related visits nearly quintupled from 2011 to 2023, increasing from 0.9% to 4.2% of all pediatric emergency department visits (Bommersbach et al., 2023).

In my class survey of 99 college students, 85% reported experiencing anxiety, 48% neck and shoulder tension, and 41% abdominal discomfort.

For the age groups 18–23 and 24–29—but not for those over 30—the rates of serious psychological distress and major depressive episodes nearly doubled from 2013 to 2019 (Braghieri et al, 2022). During this same period, there was also a significant decline in academic performance, with math scores for 8th graders and reading scores for 4th graders dropping from around 2013 to 2024, except among top-performing students (Mervosh, 2025).
We are not saying to avoid the beneficial parts of the digital age. Instead, it should be used in moderation and to be aware of how some material and digital platforms prey upon our evolutionary survival mechanisms. Unfortunately, most people – especially children – have not evolved skills to counter the negative impacts of some types of media exposure. Parental control and societal policies may be needed to mitigate the damage and enhance the benefits of the digital age.

Zoom Fatigue – How to Reduce it and Configure your Brain for Better Learning

Zoom became the preferred platform for academic teaching and learning for synchronous education during the pandemic. Thus, students and faculty have been sitting and looking at the screen for hours on end. While looking at the screen, the viewers were often distracted by events in their environment, notifications from their mobile phones, social media triggers, and emails; which promoted multitasking (Solis, 2019). These digital distractions cause people to respond to twice as many devices with half of our attention – a process labeled semi-tasking’– meaning getting twice as much done and half as well.

We now check our phones an average of 96 times a day – that is once every 10 minutes and an increase of 20% as compared to two years ago (Asurion Research, 2019). Those who do media multitasking such as texting while doing a task perform significantly worse on memory tasks than those who are not multitasking (Madore et al., 2020). Multitasking is negatively correlated with school performance (Giunchiglia et al, 2018). The best way to reduce multitasking is to turn off all notifications (e.g., email, texts, and social media) and let people know that you will look at the notifications and then respond in a predetermined time, so that you will not be interrupted while working or studying.

When students in my class chose to implement a behavior change to monitor mobile phone and media use and reduce the addictive behavior during a five-week self-healing project, many reported a significant improvement of health and performance. For example one student reported that when she reduced her mobile phone use, her stress level equally decreased as shown in Figure 1 (Peper et al, 2021).

Figure 1. Example of student changing mobile phone use and corresponding decrease in subjective stress level. Reproduced by permission from Peper et al. (2021).

During this class project, many students observed that the continuous responding to notifications and social media affected their health and productivity. As one student reported: The discovery of the time I wasted giving into distractions was increasing my anxiety, increasing my depression and making me feel completely inadequate. In the five-week period, I cut my cell phone usage by over half, from 32.5 hours to exactly 15 hours and used some of the time to do an early morning run in the park. Rediscovering this time makes me feel like my possibilities are endless. I can go to work full time, take online night courses reaching towards my goal of a higher degree, plus complete all my homework, take care of the house and chores, cook all my meals, and add reading a book for fun! –22-year-old College Student

Numerous students reported that it was much easier to be distracted and multitask, check social media accounts or respond to emails and texts than during face-to-face classroom sessions as illustrated by two student comments from San Francisco State University.
“Now that we are forced to stay at home, it’s hard to find time by myself/for myself, time to study, and or time to get away. It’s easy to get distracted and go a bit stir-crazy.”
“I find that online learning is more difficult for me because it’s harder for me to stay concentrated all day just looking at the screen.”

Students often reported that they had more difficulty remembering the material presented during synchronous presentations. Most likely, the passivity while watching Zoom presentations affected the encoding and consolidation of new material into retrievable long-term memory. The presented material was rapidly forgotten when the next screen image or advertisement appeared and competed with the course instructor for the student’s attention. We hypothesize that the many hours of watching TV and streaming videos have conditioned people to sit and take in information passively, while discouraging them to respond or initiate action (Mander, 1978; Mărchidan, 2019).

To reduce the deleterious impact of media use, China has placed time limits on cellphone use, gaming, and social media use for children. On February 2021 Chinese children were banned from taking their mobile phones into school (Wakefield, 2021), on August 2021 Children under 18 were banned from playing video games during the week and their play was restricted to just one hour on Fridays, weekends and holidays (McDonell, 2021) and beginning on September 20, 2021 children under 14 who have been authenticated using their real name can access Douyin, the Chinese version of Tik Tok, for maximum of 40 minutes a day between the hours of 6:00 and 22:00 (BBC, 2021).

Maintaining a healthy vision: We increase near visual stress and the risk of developing myopia when we predominantly look at nearby surfaces. We do not realize that eye muscles can only relax when looking at the far distance. For young children, the constant near vision remodels the shape of the eye and the child will likely develop near sightedness. The solutions are remarkably simple. Respect your evolutionary background and allow your eyes to spontaneously alternate between looking at near and far objects while being upright (Schneider, 2016; Peper, 2021; Peper, Harvey & Faass, 2020).

Interrupt sitting disease: We sit for the majority of the day while looking at screens that is a significant risk factor for diabetes, cardiovascular disease, depression and anxiety (Matthews et al., 2012; Smith et al., 2020). Interrupt sitting by getting up every 30 minutes and do a few stretches. You will tend to feel less sleepy, less discomfort and more productive. As one of our participants reported that when he got up, moved and exercised every 30 minutes at the end of the day he felt less tired. As he stated, “There is life after five,” which meant he had energy to do other activities after working at the computer the whole day. While working time flies and it is challenging to get up every 30 minutes. Thus, install a free app on your computer that reminds you to get up and move such as StretchBreak (www.stretchbreak.com).

Use slouching as a cue to change: Posture affects thoughts and emotions as well as, vice versa. When stressed or worried (e.g., school performance, job security, family conflict, undefined symptoms, or financial insecurity), our bodies tend to respond by slightly collapsing and shifting into a protective position.

When we are upright and look up, we are more likely to:
• Have more energy (Peper & Lin, 2012).
• Feel stronger (Peper, Booiman, Lin, & Harvey, 2016).
• Find it easier to do cognitive activity (Peper, Harvey, Mason, & Lin, 2018).
• Feel more confident and empowered (Cuddy, 2012).
• Recall more positive autobiographical memories (Michalak, Mischnat,& Teismann, 2014).

The challenge is that we are usually unaware we have begun to slouch. A very useful solution is to use a posture feedback device to remind us, such as the UpRight Go (https://www.uprightpose.com/). This simple device and app signals you when you slouch. The device attaches to your neck and connects with blue tooth to your cellphone. After calibrating, it provides vibrational feedback on your neck each time you slouch. When participants use the vibration feedback to become aware of what is going on and interrupt their slouch by stretching and sitting up, they report a significant decrease in symptoms and an increase in productivity. As one student reported: “Having immediate feedback on my posture helped me to be more aware of my body and helped me to link my posture to my emotions. Before using the tracker, doing this was very difficult for me. It not only helped my posture but my awareness of my mental state as well.”

Additional blogs
https://peperperspective.com/2023/07/04/reflections-on-the-increase-in-autism-adhd-anxiety-and-depression-part-1-bonding-screen-time-and-circadian-rhythms/

https://peperperspective.com/2023/08/30/techstress-building-healthier-computer-habits/
https://peperperspective.com/2024/09/04/cellphones-affects-social-communication-vision-breathing-and-health-what-to-do/

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The Power of No

Brenda Stockdale, PhD and Erik Peper, PhD

Adapted from: Stockdale, B. & Peper, E. (2025). How the Power of No Supports Health and Healing. Townsend Letter-Innovative Health Perspectives, March15, 2025 https://townsendletter.com/the-power-of-no/

I felt exhausted and just wanted to withdraw to recharge. Just then, my partner asked me to go to the store to get some olive oil. I paused, took a deep breath, and checked in with myself. I realized that I needed to take care of myself. After a few seconds, I responded, “No, I cannot do it at this time.”
It was challenging to say this because, in the past, I would have automatically said “yes” to avoid disappointing my partner. However, by saying “yes” and ignoring my own needs, I would have become even more exhausted, hindering my recovery. I felt proud that I had said “no.” By listening to myself, I took charge and prioritized my own healing.

For many people, saying “no” feels unkind, and we want to be kind while avoiding burdening others. Nevertheless, how you answer this question may have implications for your health! Consider the following question and rate it on a scale from 1 (never) to 5 (always):

In analysis of numerous studies, Prof. George Solomon and Dr. Lydia Temoshok reported that a low score on this question (indicating the ability to say No) was the best predictor of related outcomes across studies, such as survivorship with AIDS as well as more favorable HIV immune measures (Solomon, et al, 1987). This aligns with research suggesting that excessive compliance, self-sacrifice, and conflict avoidance (i.e., people-pleasing) in individuals with cancer and chronic illness may weaken, rather than strengthen, their immune systems (Temoshok, & Dreher, 1992).

Unconsciously avoiding or suppressing distressing thoughts, emotions, or memories instead of dealing with them––a process known as repressive coping–– may even contribute to an increased risk of cancer and cardiovascular disease (Mund & Mitte, 2012). Avoiding emotional cues or dismissing feelings may seem self-protective but can lead to reflexive or automatic behavior such as saying “yes” when individuals would rather say “no.” Although the conflict may not be consciously recognized, it can manifest physiologically (Mund & Mitte, 2012). Paying attention to states of tension, or symptoms such as headache or loss of appetite can serve as a doorway to exploring unacknowledged feelings.

Automatically saying “yes” and sacrificing yourself may contribute to poor boundaries, leading to chronic stress which is linked to numerous health issues, including hypertension and immune dysfunction (Dai et al., 2020; Segerstrom et al., 2004; Deci & Ryan, 2008). Conversely, research indicates that individuals who assertively manage stress—rather than suppress emotions and avoid conflict—demonstrate stronger immune resilience (Ironson et al., 2005; Dantzer et al, 2018) and are better protected against burnout and prolonged emotional distress (Deci & Ryan, 2018).

When faced with illness––or even the possibly death––ask yourself: “Do I really want to do this, or am I doing it just to please my partner, children, parents, doctors, or society? By doing what truly brings me joy and meaning, what do I have to lose?” Altruism is valuable and an important part of maintaining health. At the same time boundaries and assertiveness are essential.

Psychologist Lawrence LeShan (1994) reported that when cancer patients began to seek and start singing their “own song,” their cancer regressed in numerous cases, and some experienced total remission. Living your own song means doing what you truly desire rather than following the expectations of parents, society, or economic pressures. It is important to keep in mind that while psychological factors can influence overall health, the development of cancer is a multifaceted process involving genetic, lifestyle and environmental factors.

The Key Question: When and How to Say “No”?

The answer lies in emotional awareness and acting on it. One woman with cancer confided, “I’ve operated in the realm of expected behavior for so long that I no longer know what I want or feel” (Stockdale, 2009). Teasing out our true feelings—hour by hour, as Bernie Siegel, M.D., recommends—helps us recognize where we stand (Siegel, 1986; Siegel & August, 2004). This practice fosters a sense of agency, a cornerstone of resilience that directly contributes to well-being.

For those accustomed to prioritizing others’ needs over their own, learning to say “No” takes practice. Although one may have feelings of vulnerability and even guilt by disappointing someone, one person shared that only after he stopped exclusively prioritizing others–and instead learned to love himself as well as his neighbor–did he realize how much people genuinely cared for him. Authentic connection is essential for well-being, but trust cannot develop without agency and the freedom to say “no.”

What to Do Before Automatically Saying Yes

When someone asks you for help or a favor, pause. Look up, take a slow, diaphragmatic breath, and ask yourself, “Do I want to do this? What would I recommend to another person to do in this situation?”
(In cases where you are asked or ordered to harm another person or do something illegally, ask yourself, “What would a moral person do?”)

If you feel that you would rather not—whether because you are tired or it interferes with your own priorities—say “No.” Saying “No” does not mean you are unwilling to help; it simply means that, at this moment, you are listening to yourself. When we listen to ourselves and act accordingly, we enhance our immune competence and self-healing.

Obviously, if saying “No” would put another person in danger or in crisis, then say “Yes,” if possible. However, true crises are rare. If emergencies happen frequently, they are not true crises or emergencies but rather a result of poor planning.

Saying “No” can be challenging, but if you constantly say “Yes,” you may eventually become resentful and exhausted, increasing your stress and decreasing your ability to heal. You may even notice that when your own well-being is appropriately prioritized you will be in a better position to show up for others in a whole-hearted way, when it is right for them and for you.

Saying “No” Can Be Life-Saving

Beyond personal relationships, saying “No” can be crucial in medical settings. Anthony Kaveh, M.D., a Stanford- and Harvard-trained anesthesiologist and integrative medicine specialist, asserts, “Nice patients come out last” (Kaveh, 2024). Kaveh emphasizes that trusting our instincts is crucial, as the fear of displeasing others can lead to dangerous “fake nice” behavior.
See the YouTube video #1 Mistake You Make with Doctors: Medical Secrets (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9-E3CHHX05c)

A case example is illustrated by Tracy who was hospitalized with complex fractures of the tibia and fibula. After five surgeries, she felt something was terribly wrong–she knew she was dying. However, the nurses dismissed her concerns. Taking control, she infuriated the staff by calling 911, which prompted a doctor to check on her. It was discovered that excessive negative pressure applied to the drain caused five pints of her blood to flow into her leg causing compartment syndrome.

She was bleeding to death. Tracy’s intuition, resilience, and refusal to comply saved her life. Kaveh argues that those who don’t trust their instincts are more likely to err on the side of “nice” and suffer as a result.
Learning to say “No” is empowering as illustrated by one woman who discovered its importance in a cancer educational group she attended. She shared her success in saying “No” with humor, explaining, “I just tell people it’s this group’s fault because I used to be a nice person.”

Learning to listen to yourself before agreeing or disagreeing to do something, may also help you maintain your integrity when faced with pressure to follow an immoral suggestion or order. So often due to social, economic, corporate, or political pressure, people may be asked to do something they later regret (Sah, 2025). The courage to disagree and act according to your moral consciousness is the bases of the Nuremberg Code, established by the American judges in 1947 at the Nuremberg trials for Nazi doctors (Shuster, 1997).

Finally, learning to say “No” and listen to your needs takes practice and time. Explore the following Body Dialogue technique to tap into your intuitive wisdom. You can use it anytime you need clarity about your feelings and responses to life’s challenges.

Body Dialogue (adapted from You Can Beat the Odds: Surprising Factors Behind Chronic Illness & Cancer—the 6-week Program for Optimal Immunity by Brenda Stockdale (2009).

Breathe in deeply and engage all your senses. When you are ready, focus on the sensation of breathing. You don’t have to make anything happen, just feel the air moving in and out. Your lungs, vital to energy production, obtain oxygen from the atmosphere and bring it to millions of specialized cells. All without your conscious awareness, your breath moves in and out, removing toxins and waste from your body and bringing oxygen in.

The beautiful filtering process even protects your heart. That great organ, pumping rhythmically, picks up the oxygen and delivers it to all the vessels of your body, contracting more than two billion times during a normal lifespan. With deep appreciation for this magnificent pump, move your attention down into your abdomen. On the right side is the largest organ in your body, your liver. This amazing organ filters toxins and chemicals, and aids in digestion. This powerhouse of function can even regenerate itself after losing as much as three quarters of its tissue. With a sense of admiration, imagine all that these great and vital organs accomplish. With gratitude, slowly move on to your spleen, your pancreas and all the other organs and systems of your body, taking your time to appreciate and acknowledge all that they do for you.

Consider the multitude of vital functions that take place every minute of every day and thank your body for all that is right with you. All of these complex functions take place without effort or even awareness on your behalf––they just happen. Ask now if there something you can do for your body to help it heal, repair or regenerate more completely. Listen closely to your own intuitive awareness. Is there anything you can do to make your body’s job easier or reduce a burden of some kind? Gently notice if there are any thoughts or behaviors that make some symptoms worse or better. What feels heavy or burdensome? Who or what in your life feels supportive? As you review the past few days or weeks what would you like to adjust? When might saying ‘no’ would bring a sense of relief? Imagine what it would be like to operate in your own best interest. What might that include?

Are there positive feelings you would like to experience more often? If you had to choose just one, what would it be? In what way could you bring more of that quality into your life? In your mind’s eye, see that happening now. Feel the peace or the joy or whatever it is you have chosen radiate throughout your being. And if it seems good to you, carry it with you, back to the present moment and enjoy the fullness of that sensation. When it seems right to you, again focus gently on your body, bringing your attention back to the chair or the place you happen to be. And filled with gratitude, stretch your arms wide with appreciation for all that is right with you.

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References

Dai, S., Mo, Y., Wang, Y., Xiang, B., Liao, Q., Zhou, M., Li, X., Li, Y., Xiong, W., Li, G., Guo, C., & Zeng, Z. (2020). Chronic Stress Promotes Cancer Development. Frontiers in oncology, 10, 1492. https://doi.org/10.3389/fonc.2020.01492

Dantzer, R., Cohen, S., Russo, S. J., & Dinan, T. G. (2018). Resilience and immunity. Brain, behavior, and immunity, 74, 28–42. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.bbi.2018.08.010

Deci, E. L., & Ryan, R. M. (2008). Self-determination theory: A macrotheory of human motivation, development, and health. Canadian Psychology / Psychologie canadienne, 49(3), 182–185. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0012801

Deci, E. L., & Ryan, R. M. (2018). Self-determination theory: Basic psychological needs in motivation, development, and wellness. New York: Guilford Publications. https://www.amazon.com/Self-Determination-Theory-Psychological-Motivation-Development/dp/1462538967

Ironson, G., O’Cleirigh, C., Fletcher, M. A., Laurenceau, J. P., Balbin, E., Klimas, N., Schneiderman, N., & Solomon, G. (2005). Psychosocial factors predict CD4 and viral load change in men and women with human immunodeficiency virus in the era of highly active antiretroviral treatment. Psychosomatic medicine, 67(6), 1013–1021. https://doi.org/10.1097/01.psy.0000188569.58998.c8

Kaveh, A. (2024). #1 Mistake You Make With Doctors. Medical Secrets, YouTube, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9-E3CHHX05c

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Sah, S. (2025. Defy: The power of no in a world that demands yes. London: One World Publications. https://www.amazon.com/Defy-Power-World-That-Demands/dp/0593445775

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Use the power of your mind to transform health and aging

Most of the time when I drive or commute  by BART, I listen to podcasts (e.g., Freakonomics, Hidden Brain, this podcast will kill youScience VS, Huberman Lab). although many of the podcasts are highly informative; , rarely do I think that everyone could benefit from it.  The recent podcast, Using your mind to control your health and longevity, is an exception. In this podcast, neuroscientist Andrew Huberman interviews Professor Ellen Langer. Although it is three hours and twenty-two minute long, every minute is worth it (just skip the advertisements by Huberman which interrupts the flow). Dr. Langer delves into how our thoughts, perceptions, and mindfulness practices can profoundly influence our physical well-being.

She presents compelling evidence that our mental states are intricately linked to our physical health. She discusses how our perceptions of time and control can significantly impact healing rates, hormonal balance, immune function, and overall longevity. By reframing our understanding of mindfulness—not merely as a meditative practice but as an active, moment-to-moment engagement with our environment—we can harness our mental faculties to foster better health outcomes. The episode also highlights practical applications of Dr. Langer’s research, offering insights into how adopting a mindful approach to daily life can lead to remarkable health benefits. By noticing new things and embracing uncertainty, individuals can break free from mindless routines, reduce stress, and enhance their overall quality of life. This podcast is a must-listen for anyone interested in the profound connection between mind and body. It provides valuable tools and perspectives for those seeking to take an active role in their health and well-being through the power of mindful thinking. It will change your perspective and improve your health. Listen to or watch the interview:

Podcast: https://www.hubermanlab.com/episode/dr-ellen-langer-using-your-mind-to-control-your-physical-health-longevity

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QYAgf_lfio4

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From Conflict to Calm: Reframing Stress and Finding Peace with Difficult People

Adapted from: Peper, E. (2025, Feb 15). From Conflict to Calm: Reframing Stress and Finding Peace with Difficult People. Townsend Letter-Innovative Health Perspectives. https://townsendletter.com/from-conflict-to-calm-reframing-stress-and-finding-peace-with-difficult-people/

After living in our house for a few years, a new neighbor moved in next door. Within months, she accused us of moving things in her yard, blamed us when there was a leak in her house, dumped her leaves from her property onto other neighbors’ properties, and even screamed at her tenants to the extent that the police were called numerous times.

Just looking at her house through the window was enough to make my shoulders tighten and leave me feeling upset. When I drove home and saw her standing  in front of her house, I would drive around the block one more time to avoid her while feeling my body contract. Often, when I woke up in the morning, I would already anticipate conflict with my neighbor. I would share stories of my disturbing neighbor and her antics with my friends. They were very supportive and agreed with me that she was crazy.

However, this did not resolve my anger, indignation, or the anxiety that was triggered whenever I saw her or thought of her. I spent far too much time anticipating and thinking about her, which resulted in tension in my own body—my heart rate would increase, and my neck and shoulders would tighten. I decided to change. I knew I could not change her; however, I could change my reactivity and perspective.

Thus, I practiced the “Pause and Recenter” technique described in the blog. At the first moment of awareness that I was thinking about her or her actions, I would change my posture by sitting up straight and looking upward, breathe lower and slower, and then, in my mind’s eye, send a thought of goodwill streaming to her like an ocean wave flowing through and around her in the distance. I choose to  do this because I believe that within every person, no matter how crazy or cruel, there is a part that is good, and it is that part I want to support.

I repeated this many times—whenever I looked in the direction of her house or saw her in her yard. I also reframed her aggressive, negative behavior as her way of coping with her own demons. Three months later, I no longer react defensively. When I see her, I can say hello and discuss the weather without triggering my defensive reaction. I feel so much more at peace living where I am.

When stressed, angry, rejected, frustrated, or hurt, we so often blame the other person. The moment we think about that person or event, our anger, indignation, resentment, and frustration are triggered. We keep rehashing what happened. As we do this, we are unaware that we are reliving the past event and are often unaware of the harm we are doing to ourselves until we experience symptoms such as high blood pressure, gastrointestinal distress, insomnia, anxiety, or muscle tightness. As we think of the event or interact again with that person, our body automatically responds with a defense reaction as if we are actually being threatened. This response activates the defense to protect ourselves from harm— the person is not a threat like the saber-toothed tiger ready to attack. Yet we respond as if the person is the tiger.

This defense reaction activates our “fight or flight” responses and increases sympathetic activation so that we can run faster and fight more ferociously to survive; however, it reduces blood flow through the frontal cortex—a process that reduces our ability to think rationally (Willeumier, et al., 2011; van Dinther et al., 2024). When we become so upset and stressed that our mind is captured by the other person, it contributes to an increase in hypertension, myofascial pain, depression, insomnia, cardiovascular disease, and other chronic disorders (Russel et al., 2015Suls, 2013; Duan et al., 2022). 

Our initial response of sharing our frustrations with others is normal. It feels good to blame the other; however, over time, the only person who gets hurt is yourself (Fast & Tiedens, 2010; Lou et al., 2023). The time spent rehashing and justifying our feelings diminishes our time we are in the present moment or focus on upcoming opportunities.

We may not realize that we have a choice. We can keep living and reacting to past hurt or losses, or we can let go and/or forgive and make space for new opportunities. Although the choice is ours, it is often very challenging to implement—even with the best intentions—as we react automatically when reminded of the past hurt (seeing that person, anticipating meeting or actually meeting that person who caused the hurt, or being triggered by other events that evoke memories of the pain).  

What can you do

If choose to change your response and reactivity, it does not mean you condone what happened or agree that the other person was right.  You are just choosing to live your life and not continue to be captured and react to the previous triggers. Many people report that after implementing some of the practices described below or others stress management techniques frequently their automatic reactivity was significantly reduced. They report that their symptoms are reduced and have the freedom to live in present instead of being captured by the painful past.

Pause and recenter

Our automatic reaction to the trigger elicits a defense reaction that reduces our ability to think rationally. Therefore, the moment you anticipate or begin to react, take three very slow diaphragmatic breaths.  As you inhale, allow your abdomen to expand; then, as you exhale slowlymake your yourself tall and look up. Looking up allows easier access to empowering and positive memories (Peper et al., 2017). Continue looking up and inhale slowly allow the abdomen to expand. Repeat this slow breath again.

On the third breath, while looking up, evoke a memory of someone in whose presence you felt at peace and who loves –you such as your grandmother, aunt or uncle or your dog. Reawaken that feeling associated with that memory.  Allow a smile with soft eyes to come to your face as you experience the loving memory. Then, put your hands on your chest, take a  breath as your abdomen to expands, and as you exhale, bring  your hands away from your chest and stretch them out in front of you. At the same time,  in your mind’s eye imagine sending good will to that person or conflict that previously evoked your stress response.

As you do this, you are not condoning what happened; instead, you are sending goodwill to that person’s positive aspect. From this perspective, everyone has an intrinsic component—however small—that some label as Christ nature or Buddha nature.

Why could this be effective?  This practice short-circuits the automatic stress response and provides time to recenter. It interrupts ongoing rumination by shifting the mind away from thoughts about the person or event that induces stress and toward a positive memory. Evoking a loving memory from the past facilitates a reduction in arousal, evokes a positive mood, and decreases sympathetic nervous system activation (Speer & Delgado, 2017).  Additionally, slower diaphragmatic breathing reduces sympathetic activation (Birdee et al., 2023; Siedlecki et al., 2022). By combining body and mind, we can pause and create the opportunity to respond positively rather than reacting with anger and hurt.

Practice sending goodwill the moment you wake up

So often when we wake up, we already anticipate the challenges and even the prospect of interacting with person or event heightens our defense reaction. Therefore, as soon as you wake up, sit at the edge of the bed, repeat the previous practice, Pause and Center. Then,  as you sit at the edge of the bed, slightly smile with soft eyes, look up, inhale as your abdomen  expand. Then, stamp your right foot into the floor while saying, “Today is a new day.” Next, inhale allowing your abdomen expand; as you look up,  stamp your left foot on the floor while saying, “Today is a new day.” Finally, send goodwill to the person who previously triggered your defensive reaction.

Why could this be effective?

Looking up makes it easier to access positive memories and thoughts. Stamping your foot on the ground is a non-verbal expression of determination and anchors the thought of a new day, thereby focuses on new opportunities (Feldman, 2022).

Discuss your issue from the third-person perspective instead of the first-person perspective

When thinking, ruminating, talking, texting, or writing about the event, discuss it from the third-person perspective. Replace the first-person pronoun “I” with “she” or “he.” For example, instead of saying:

I was really pissed off when my boss criticized my work without giving any positive suggestions for improvement,

Say:

He was really pissed off when his boss criticized his work without offering any positive suggestions for improvement.

Why could this be effective? The act of substituting the third person pronoun for the first-person pronoun interrupts our automatic reactivity because it requires us to observe and change our language, which activating the frontal cortex. This process creates a psychological distance from our feelings, allowing for a more objective and calmer perspective on the situation. It  effectively reducing stress by stepping back from the immediate emotional response (Moser et al., 2017).  It means that you are no longer fully captured by the emotions, as you are simultaneously the observer of your own inner language and speech.

Compare yourself to others who are suffering more

When you feel sorry for yourself or hurt, take a breath, look upward, and compare yourself to others who are suffering much more. In that moment, consider yourself incredibly lucky compared to people enduring extreme poverty, bombings, or severe disfigurement. Be grateful for what you have.

Why could this be effective?  The research data shows that if we have low self-esteem when we compare ourselves to people who are more successful (healthier, richer, or successful), we feel worse in comparison  and if we compare ourselves to other who are suffering more we feel better (Aspinwall, & Taylor, 1993). The comparision relativize our suffering. Thus our own suffering become less significant compared to the other people’s severe suffering.

Research shows that when we compare ourselves to people who are more successful (healthier, richer, or more accomplished), we tend to feel worse—especially if we have low self-esteem. However, when we compare ourselves to others who are suffering more, we tend to feel better (Aspinwall, & Taylor, 1993). This comparison relativizes our suffering, making our own hardships and suffering seem less significant compared to the severe suffering of others.

Interrupt the stress response   

When overwhelmed by a stress reaction, implement the recue techniques described in the article, Quick rescue techniques when stress  (Peper, Oded and Harvey, 2024) and the blog to help reduce stress.  https://peperperspective.com/2024/02/04/quick-rescue-techniques-when-stressed/

Conclusion

It is much easier to write and talk about these practices than to actually do them. Remembering and reminding yourself to implement them can be very challenging. It requires significant effort and commitment. In most cases, the benefits are not experienced immediately. However, when practiced many times over weeks and months, many people report feeling less resentment, experience a reduction in symptoms, and improvements in health and relationships.

*This blog was inspired by the podcast, No hard feelings, that featured psychologist Fred Luskin. It is an episode on Hidden Brain, produced by Shankar Vedantam (2025) and the wisdom  taught  by Dora Kunz (Kunz & Peper, 1983; Kunz and Peper, 1984a; Kunz and Peper, 1984b; Kunz and Peper, 1987).

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References

Aspinwall, L. G., & Taylor, S. E. (1993). Effects of social comparison direction, threat, and self-esteem on affect, self-evaluation, and expected success. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 64(5), 708–722. https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.64.5.708

Birdee, G.,  Nelson, K., Wallston, K., Nian, H., Diedrich, A.,  Paranjape, S., Abraham, R., & Gamboa, A. (2023). Slow breathing for reducing stress: The effect of extending exhale. Complementary Therapies in Medicine, 73. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ctim.2023.102937

Duan, S., Lawrence, A., Valmaggia, L., Moll, J. & Zahn, R. (2022). Maladaptive blame-related action tendencies are associated with vulnerability to major depressive disorder. Journal of Psychiatric Research, 145, 70-76. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jpsychires.2021.11.043

Fast, N.J. & Tiedens, L.Z. (2010). Blame contagion: The automatic transmission of self-serving attributions. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 46(1), 97-106. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jesp.2009.10.007

Feldman, Y. (2022). The Dialogical Dance-A Relational Embodied Approach to Supervision.  In Butte, C. & Colbert, T. (Eds).   Embodied Approaches to Supervision-The Listening Body. London: Routledge. https://www.amazon.com/Embodied-Approaches-Supervision-C%C3%A9line-Butt%C3%A9/dp/0367473348

Kunz, D. & Peper, E. (1983). Fields and Their Clinical Implica­tions-Part III:  Anger and How It Affects Human Interactions.  The American Theosophist, 71(6), 199-203. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/280777019_Fields_and_their_clinical_implications-Part_III_Anger_and_how_it_affects_human_interactions

Kunz, D. & Peper, E. (1984a).  Fields and Their Clinical Impli­cations IV:  Depression from the Energetic Perspective: Etiologi­cal Underpinnings.  The American Theosophist, 72(8), 268-275. https://biofeedbackhealth.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/fields-and-their-clinical-implications-iv-depression-from-the-energetic-perspectivive.pdf

Kunz, D. & Peper, E. (1984b).  Fields and Their Clinical Impli­cations V:  Depression from the Energetic Perspective:  Treatment Strategies. The American Theosophist, 72(9), 299-306. https://biofeedbackhealth.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/fields-and-their-clinical-implications-part-v-depression-treatment-strategies.pdf

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Lou, Y., Wang, T., Li, H., Hu, T. Y., & Xie, X. (2023). Blame others but hurt yourself: blaming or sympathetic attitudes toward victims of COVID-19 and how it alters one’s health status. Psychology & Health39(13), 1877–1898. https://doi.org/10.1080/08870446.2023.2269400

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Suggestions for mastering and generalizing breathing skills

Adapted from: Peper, E., Oded, Y., Harvey, R., Hughes, P., Ingram, H., & Martinez, E. (2024). Breathing for health: Mastering and generalizing breathing skills. Townsend Letter-Innovative Health Perspectives. November 15, 2024.   https://townsendletter.com/suggestions-for-mastering-and-generalizing-breathing-skills/

Breathing techniques are commonly employed with complimentary treatments, biofeedback, neurofeedback or adjunctive therapeutic strategies to reduce stress and symptoms associated with excessive sympathetic arousal such as anxiety, high blood pressure, insomnia, or gastrointestinal discomfort. Even though it seems so simple, some participants experience difficulty in mastering effortless breathing and/or transferring slow breathing skills into daily life. The purpose of this article is to describe: 1) factors that may interfere with learning slow diaphragmatic breathing (also called cadence or paced breathing, HRV or resonant frequency breathing along with other names), 2) challenges that may occur when learning diaphragmatic breathing, and 3) strategies to generalize the effortless breathing into daily life.

A simple two-item to-do list could be: ‘Breathe in, breathe out.’ Simple things are not always easy to master. Mastering and implementing effortless ‘diaphragmatic’ or ‘abdominal belly’ breathing may be simple, yet not easy. Breathing is a dynamic process that involves the diaphragm, abdominal, pelvic floor and intercostal muscles that can  include synchronizing the functions of the heart and lungs and may result in cardio-respiratory synchrony or coupling, as well as ‘heart-rate variability breathing training (Codrons et al., 2014Dick et al., 2014Elstad et al., 2018Maric et al., 2020Matic et al., 2020).  Improving heart-rate variability is a useful approach to reduce symptoms of stress and promotes health and reduce anxiety, asthma, blood pressure, insomnia, gastrointestinal discomfort and many other symptoms associated with excessive sympathetic activity (Lehrer & Gevirtz, 2014Xiao et al., 2017Jerath et al., 2019Chung et al., 2021Magnon et al., 2021Peper et al., 2022).  

Breathing can be effortful and In some cases people have dysfunctional breathing patterns such as breath holding, rapid breathing (hyperventilation), shallow breathing and lack of abdominal movement. This usually occurs without awareness and may contribute to illness onset and maintenance. When participants learn and implement effortless breathing, symptoms often are reduced. For example, when college students are asked to practice effortless diaphragmatic breathing twenty-minutes a day for one week, as well as transform during the day dysfunction breathing patterns into diaphragmatic breathing, they report a reduction in shallow breathing, breath holding,, and a decrease of symptoms as shown in Fig 1 (Peper et al, 2022).

Figure 1. Percent of people who reported that their initial symptoms improved after practicing slow diaphragmatic breathing for twenty minutes per day over the course of a week (reproduced from: Peper et al, 2022).

Most students became aware of their dysfunctional breathing and substituted slow, diaphragmatic breathing whenever they realized they were under stress; however, some students had difficulty mastering ‘effortless’ (e.g., automated, non-volitional) slow, diaphragmatic breathing that allowed abdominal expansion during inhalation.

Among those had more difficulty, they tended to have almost no abdominal movement (expansion during inhalation and abdominal constriction during exhalation). They tended to breathe shallowly as well as quickly in their chest using the accessory muscles of breathing (sternocleidomastoid, pectoralis major and minor, serratus anterior, latissimus dorsi, and serratus posterior superior).

The lack of abdominal movement during breathing reduced the movement of lymph as well as venous blood return in the abdomen; since; the movement of the diaphragm (the expansion and constriction of the abdomen) acts a pump. Breathing predominantly in the chest may increase the risk of anxiety, neck, back and shoulder pain as well as increase abdominal discomfort, acid reflux, irritable bowel, dysmenorrhea and pelvic floor pain (Banushi et al., 2023Salah et al., 2023Peper & Cohen, 2017Peper et al., 2017Peper et al., 2020Peper et al., 2023). Learning slow, diaphragmatic or effortless breathing at about six breaths per minute (resonant frequency ) is also an ‘active ingredient’ in heartrate variability (HRV) training (Steffen et al., 2017Shaffer & Meehan, 2020).

Difficulty allowing the skeletal and visceral muscles in the abdomen to expand or constrict in ‘three-dimensions’ (e.g., all around you in 360 degrees) during inhalation or exhalation. Whereas internal factors under volitional control and will mediate breathing practices, external factors can restrict and moderate the movement of the muscles. For example:

Clothing restrictions (designer jeans syndrome).  The clothing is too tight around the abdomen; thereby, the abdomen cannot expand (MacHose & Peper, 1991Peper et al., 2016). An extreme example were the corsets worn in the late 19th century that was correlated with numerous illnesses.

Suggested solutions and recommendations: Explain the physiology of breathing and how breathing occurs by the diaphragmatic movement. Discuss how babies and dogs breathe when they are relaxed; namely, the predominant movement is in the abdomen while the chest is relaxed. This would also be true when a person is sitting or standing tall.  Discuss what happens when the person is eating and feels full and how they feel better when they loosen their waist constriction. When their belt is loosened or the waist button of their pants is undone, they usually feel better.

Experiential practice. If the person is wearing a belt, have the person purposely tighten their belt so that the circumference of the stomach is made much smaller. If the person is not wearing a belt, have them circle their waist with their hands and compress it so that the abdomen can not expand. Have them compare breathing with the constricted waist versus when the belt is loosened and then describe what they experienced.

Most participants will feel it is easier to breathe and much more comfortable when the abdomen is not constricted.

Previous abdominal injury.  When a person has had abdominal surgery (e.g., Cesarean section, appendectomy, hernia repair, or episiotomy), they unknowingly may have learned to avoid pain by not moving (relaxing or tensing) the abdomen muscles (Peper et al., 2015Peper et al., 2016). Each time the abdomen expands or constricts, it would have pulled on the injured area or stitches that would have cause pain. The body immediately learns to limit movement in the affected area to avoid pain. The reduction in abdominal movement becomes the new normal ‘feeling’ of abdominal muscle inactivity and is integrated in all daily activities. This is a process known as ‘learned disuse’ (Taub et al., 2006).  In some cases, learned disuse may be combined with fear that abdominal movement may cause harm or injury such as after having a kidney transplant. The reduction in abdominal movement induces shallow thoracic breathing which could increase the risk of anxiety and would reduce abdominal venous and lymph circulation that my interfere with the healing.

Suggested solutions and recommendations.  Discuss the concept of learned disuse and have participant practice abdominal movement and lower and slower breathing. 

Experiential practices: Practicing abdominal movements

Sit straight up and purposely exhale while pulling the abdomen in and upward and inhale while expanding the abdomen.  Even with these instructions, some people may continue to breathe in their chest. To limit chest movement, have the person interlock their hands and bring them up to the ceiling while going back as far as possible. This would lock the shoulders and allows the abdomen to elongate and thereby increase the diaphragmatic movement by allowing the abdomen to expand.  If people initially have held their abdomen chronically tight then the initial expansion of abdomen by relaxing those muscle occurs with staccato movement.  When the person becomes more skilled relaxing the abdominal muscles during inhalation the movement becomes smoother.

Make a “psssssst” sound while exhaling.  Sit tall and erect and slightly pull in and up the abdominal wall and feel the anus tightening (pulling the pelvic floor up) while making the sound. Then allow inhalation to occur by relaxing the stomach and feeling the anus go down.

Use your hands as feedback. Sit up straight, placing one hand on the chest and another on the abdomen. While breathing feel the expansion of the abdomen and the contraction of the abdomen during exhalation. Use a mirror to monitor the chest-muscle movement to ensure there is limited rising and falling in this area.  

Observe the effect of collapsed sitting.  When sitting with the lower back curled, there is limited movement in the lower abdomen (between the pubic region and the umbilicus/belly button) and the breathing movement is shallower without any lower pelvic involvement (Kang et al., 2016). This is a common position of people who are working at their computer or looking at their cellphone.

Experiential practice: looking at your cellphone 

Sit in a collapsed position and look down at your cellphone. Look at the screen and text as quickly as possible.

Compare this to sitting up and then lift the cell phone at eye level while looking straight ahead at the cellphone. Look at the screen and text as quickly as possible.

Observe how the position effected your breathing and peripheral awareness. Most likely, your experience is similar those reported by students.  Close to 85%% of students who complete this activity reported that their breathing was  shallower sitting slouched versus erect and about 85% of the students reported that their peripheral awareness and vision improved when sitting erect (Peper et al., 2024).

Suggested solutions and recommendations.  Be aware how posture affect breathing. While sitting, place a rolled-up towel against the lower back so that the person sits more erect which would allow the abdomen to expand when inhaling.

Self-image, self-esteem, and confidence. Participants may hold their abdomen in because they want to look slim (sometimes labeled as the “hourglass syndrome” associate expanding the abdomen as unattractive (PTI, 2023).  A flat abdomen is culturally reinforced by social media and fashion models and encouraged in some activities such as ballet. On the other hand, some people purposely puff up their chest to increase size and dominance (Cohen & Leung, 2009).

Suggested solutions and recommendations.  Discuss the benefits of diaphragmatic breathing including its ability to reduce anxiety in social settings that may enhance confidence. Similar to an earlier suggestion, have the person explore clothing with a looser waist that still supports feelings of attractiveness and power.

Feeling anxious, fearful or threatenedThe normal physiological stress reaction is a slight gasp with the tightening of the abdomen muscles for protection when a stressor occurs (Gilbert, 1998Ekerholt & Bergland., 2008). The stressor can be an actual physical event, social situation or thoughts and emotions.  Shallow breathing is a natural self-protective response.  This pattern is often maintained until one feels ‘safe’ enough to relax, which for many can have a duration of the entire day or until finding the relative safety of sleep.  

Suggested solutions and recommendations. Discuss how the physiological stress reaction is a normal response pattern that the person most likely learned in early childhood for self-protection.  This pattern is often observed in clients who are emotionally sensitive and/or react excessively to a variety of stimuli. Note that some people have learned not to show their reactivity on their face or in the overt behaviors, yet they continue to breathe shallowly as a telltale sign of ‘distress.’ People who breath shallowly may experience this response as burdensome. Discuss with them how to reframe their sensitivity as a gift; namely, they are more aware of other people’s reactions and emotions. They just need to learn how not to respond automatically. Encourage awareness of their breath-holding and shallow breathing. Follow this by teaching them to replace the dysfunctional breathing with slow, diaphragmatic breathing at 6-breaths-per-minute. A possible training sequence is the following:

  • Teach slow, diaphragmatic breathing
  • Practice evoking a stressor and the moment the client senses the stress response, shallow breaths or holds their breath have them shift to slow, diaphragmatic breathing.
  • If the person slouches in response to stress, the moment they become aware of slouching, have then sit erect, look up and then breathe diaphragmatically.  (Peper et al., 2019)

Experiential practice: Transform stressful thoughts by looking up, breathing, and changing thoughts. 

Evoke a stressor and then attempt to reframe the experience (cognitive behavior therapy  or CBT approach).

Compare this to  evoking a stressor, then shift to an upright position while looking up, take a few slow, diaphragmatic breaths, and reframe the experience.

In almost all cases, when the client shifts position, looks up and then reframes, the stress reaction is significantly reduced and it is much easier to reframe the experiences positively compared to when only  attempting to reframe the experience (Peper et al., 2019).

Diaphragmatic breathing feels abnormal. How you breathe habitually is what feels normal unless there is overt illness such as asthma or emphysema. Any new pattern usually feels abnormal. When the person shifts their breathing pattern, such as in a transition from habitual shallow chest breathing to slower diaphragmatic abdominal breathing, it feels strange and wrong.

Suggested solutions and recommendations. Discuss the concept that habitual patterns are normal (e.g., a person who typically slouches when standing straight may experience that they are going to fall backwards). Emphasize the importance of making a shift in posture and leaning into the discomfort of the new experience. Often after practicing slow diaphragmatic breathing, the person may report feeling much more relaxed (e.g., sensing heaviness and warmth) with their fingers increasing in temperature.

Ideally, breathing is an effortless diaphragmatic process as described by the phrase, “it breathes me” (Luthe & Schultz, 1970Luthe, 1979); however, some participants struggle to achieve this type of breathing.  The following are common challenges and possible solutions:

Distraction and internal dialogueMany people struggle with thoughts jumping from one area to another. Some people refer to this mental state as “monkey mind.”

Suggested solutions and recommendations.  Validate that distraction and internal dialogue are normal and require continual managing and practice to overcome.  Experimental Practice: Have the person train focus during diaphragmatic breathing techniques by focusing on 1 item in the room. Remind them that when thoughts arise, note them briefly instead of engaging with them and then refocus on the item. Start with increments of time and increase with practice.   

Effect of gravity on breathing.  In the vertical position, exhalation occurs when the abdomen constricts (slight tightening of the transverse and oblique abdominal muscles and the pelvic floor) pushes the diaphragm up, allowing the air to go out. It needs to push against gravity.

In the vertical position, inhalation occurs when the abdominal muscles and pelvic floor muscles relax and the abdomen widens in all directions (360 degrees) which causes the diaphragm to descend as it is being pulled down by gravity. This process allows effortless inhalation. The experience is the opposite when lying supine on one’s back.  While lying down, gravity pulls on the abdomen that cause the diaphragm to go upward allowing the air to flow out during exhalation. Inhalation takes work because as the diaphragm descends it has to push the abdominal content upward against gravity.  

Experiential practice:  Erect versus supine

  • Vertical position. Begin by exhaling completely by pulling the abdomen in and up while staying erect and not pressing/contracting the chest downward. At the end of exhalation, allow the abdomen to relax (pop out) and feel how the air is sucked in without trying to inhale
  • Horizontal position. Begin by lying down, with the face pointing up. Inhale by expanding your abdomen and pushing your abdomen upward against gravity. Then let exhalation occur while totally relaxing as gravity pushes the abdomen downward, which pushes the diaphragm upward into the chest allowing the air to flow out.  Optionally, place a small bag of rice/beans (e.g., approximately one to five pound or. One-half to two kilograms) on your lower abdomen while lying down. When you inhale, push the weight upward and away from you by allowing the stomach, but not the chest, to expand. Allow exhalation to occur as the weight pushes your abdomen down and upward into your chest.  The weight is useful as it allows the mind to focus more easily on the task of feeling the movement of the abdomen.

Over breathing/hyperventilation. Even breathing at about six breaths per minute can cause hyperventilation can occur.  Hyperventilation occurs when a person is breathing in excess of the metabolic needs of the body and thereby eliminating more carbon dioxide. The result is respiratory alkalosis and an elevated blood pH as the dissolved carbon dioxide (pCO2) in the blood is reduced (Folgering, 1999).

The most common symptoms of over breathing are colder sweaty hands and light-headedness.  If this starts to occur, focus on decreasing the airflow during exhalation by exhaling through pursed lips making the sound, “Pssssssst.” While making this sound, make the sound softer with less airflow.  Alternatively, have them imagine a holding a dandelion flower a few inches from their lips and blow so softly the seeds do not blow away.  The blowing away of the seed is the feedback that you are blowing to hard as shown in Figure 2.

Figure 2. Dandelion seeds as feedback when the person is blowing with too much effort. Alternatively, we recommend that the client imagine smelling the scent/fragrance of a flower that usually causes nose inhalation and then exhale gently through pursed lips ast if the air flows over a candle and, the flame does not move back and forth.

Mouth breathing.  Mouth breathing contributes to disturbed sleep, snoring, sleep apnea, dry mouth upon waking, fatigue, allergies, ear infections, attention deficit disorders, crowded miss-aligned teeth, and poorer quality of life (Kahn & Ehrlich, 2018). Even the risk of ear infections in children is 2.4 time higher for mouth breathers than nasal breathers (van Bon et al, 1989) and nine and ten year old children who mouth breath have significantly poorer quality of life and have higher use of medications (Leal et al, 2016).

Breathing through the nose is associated with deeper and slower breathing rate than mouth breathing. Nose breathing reduces airway irritation since the nose filters, humidifies, warms/cools the inhaled air as well as reduces the air turbulence in the upper airways.  The epithelial cells of the nasal cavities produce nitric oxide that are carried into the lungs when inhaling during nasal breathing (Lundberg & Weitzberg, 1999). The nitric oxide contributes to healthy respiratory function by promoting vasodilation, aiding in airway clearance, exerting antimicrobial effects, and regulating inflammation (McKeown, 2019Allen, 2024). Note that alternate nostril breathing, such as breathing in one nostril for 5-seconds and out of the other for 5-seconds is another technique which some people find beneficial.

Slower breathing approaches also facilitates sympathetic parasympathetic balance and reduces airway irritation.  If the person breathes habitually through their mouth, refer them to health care provider to explore factors that may contribute to mouth breathing such as enlarged tonsils and adenoids or deviated septum. In addition, explore environmental factors that could contribute nasal inflammation such as allergies or foods such as dairy (Al-Raby, 2016).

Performance anxiety. Many participants are concerned about their performance.  The direct instructions such as “follow the graphic” causes the person to try hard to breathe with too much effort.  Explore some of the following indirect strategies to interrupt ongoing cognitive judgements and self-talk.

  • Toning or humming (Peper et al., 2019a). While exhaling, have the person hum a sound with their mouth closed. Let the sound go for about 6 seconds, relax, inhale and hum again. Toning is very similar except you verbalize a tone such as “Oammm.” (For detailed instructions on toning, see: Anziani & Peper (2021)).
  • Stroking down arms and legs during exhalation. Have a partner gently stroke down your arms from your shoulder past your fingertips as you are exhaling. The downward stroking is in rhythm with the exhalation.   As the arm is being stroked, attend to the sensations going down the arms.  Be sure that the toucher exhales at the same time and the stroking down the arm takes about six seconds. After being stroked for a few times, have the person imagine that each time they exhale they feel a flow down through their arms and out their fingers.
  • Repeat the same process while stroking down the legs from the side of their hips to their toes.
  • Finally, have the person imagine/feel the sensation streaming down their legs with each exhalation.
  • Many participants will report that they sense a steaming going down their arms, that they hands warm up, and their thought have stopped.
  • Integrated body movement with breathing especially flexion and contraction (Meehan & Shaffer, 2023). Integrate the normal response of flexion that induces exhalation and extension evokes inhalation. Be careful that the flexion movement does not encourage participants to compress their chest during exhalation, which tends to encourage chest breathing.  Have the person focus on their head staying tall and erect.  Have the person sit straight up with their feet slight apart and their hands palm down on their lap. Allow inhaling to initiate as the person simultaneously arches their lower back expanding the stomach, separating the knees and turning the hands palm up. Initiate exhalation while simultaneously bringing the knees together, turning the palms face down on the thighs and rolling the pelvic back slightly rounding the lower back. Do the movements smoothly while keeping the legs and shoulders relaxed.

Flooded by emotions.  Although very rare, at times when the person allows the abdomen to relax, they may experience by the emotions from a past trauma as the habitual bracing patterns are relaxed.

Suggested solutions and recommendations. Validate these emotions for the person. Explain that this is a normal process that may occur if past trauma has occurred. Clients who have had past trauma often experience hypervigilance, which may interfere with the relaxation response that occurs during more optimal states of breathing. Transitioning to a more optimal rest state may be uncomfortable for a person who has experienced trauma because it reduces hypervigilance. This can feel uncomfortable as hypervigilance in these cases serves a protective role, even if it is an illusory feeling of protection from future harm. Since persistent hypervigilance can interfere with the relaxation response, the benefits of allowing a relaxation response to occur through slower breathing should be highlighted.  Grounding techniques as described by Peper et al (2024a) can be useful to become centered.

Generalizing the skill occurs after having mastered diaphragmatic breathing in different positions (sitting, standing, lying down, and while performing tasks). It is important to remember that our breathing patterns are conditioned with our behavior. Become aware how breathing affects cognitions and emotions and how emotions and cognitions affects breathing. The following are some strategies that may facilitate learning and generalizing the slower breathing skills.

Observing how our behavior affects our breathing:  Anything that may evoke the alarm or defense reaction tends to cause the person gasp and/or hold their breath. For example, when a person is sitting peacefully, make an unexpected noise behind their back or movement in their periphery of vision. In most cases they will gasp or hold their breath.  Usually, they are unaware of this process unless they are asked what happened to their breathing. The major reason for the breath holding is that the stimuli triggers an alarm/defense reaction and when we hold our breath our hearing is more acute (we can hear approaching danger earlier).  The problem is that we give this response when there is no actual, immediate or present threat.

Experiential practice. Sit comfortably.  Now as quickly as possible without rotating the head, look with your eyes to the extreme right and then left and back and forth as if trying to identify danger at the periphery.  Do this for a few eye movements. Almost everyone holds their breath when doing this exercise.  For generalizing the skill, ask the person to observe during the day situations in which they hold their breath, ask them if it was necessary and encourage them to start diaphragmatic breathing.

Observing how breathing affects our thoughts and emotions. Breathing patterns are intrinsically linked to our emotions and thoughts as illustrated in the many language phrases such as sigh of relief, full of hot air, waiting with bated breath.  At the same time, our breathing patterns also affect our thoughts. For instance, when we breathe shallowly and more rapidly, we can induce feelings of fear or anxiety. If we gasp, we can experience thought stopping.

Experiential practices: Incomplete exhalation: Observe what happens when you exhale less than you inhale. Begin by exhaling only 70% of the air you inhaled, then inhale and exhale again only 70% of the air you just inhaled continue this for 30 seconds.  Many people will experience the onset of anxiety symptoms, lightheadedness, dizziness, neck and shoulder tension, etc. (Peper & MacHose, 1993). If you experience symptoms during this exercise and you have experienced these symptoms in the past, it is likely that unknowingly breathing in a dysfunctional pattern could have evoked them. Therefore, practicing effortless breathing may interrupt and reduce the symptoms.  Do this practice while observing the person carefully and immediately interrupt and distract the person if they start feeling dizzy, too anxious, or trigger the beginning of a panic attack or PTSD symptoms.

Experiential practice: Gasp or sniff-hold sniffObserve what happens when you are performing a cognitive task and you rapidly gasp or do sniff-hold-sniff again before exhaling.  Begin by sequentially subtracting mentally, the number 7 from 146 (e.g., 146, 139, 132….). Do this as rapidly as possible and do not make a mistake. While doing the subtracting, take a rapid gasp (such as one is triggered by surprise or fear), alternatively, take a quick sniff through your nose, hold your breath and take another sniff on top of the first one, then exhale.  Whereas subtrating numbers is a skill most adults can perform, the ‘time pressure’ along with the direction to avoid mistakes may be the ‘immediate’ source of strain. Whether it was the time pressure, the direction to avoid mistakes or the direction to gasp, observe what happened to your thinking process. In almost all cases, your higher-order thoughts (doing the sequential subtraction under time pressure while gasping) have disappeared, replaced by the immediate thoughts of ‘performance anxiety.’

If you blank out on exams or experience anxiety, gasping and breath holding may be one of the factors that increases symptoms and affects your performance.  If you are aware that you are holding your breath or gasped, use that as the cue to shift to slow diaphragmatic breathing and you may find that your performance improves. Therefore, observe when and where you were blanking out, gasping and/or holding your breathing then substitute slow, effortless diaphragmatic breathing.

How to develop awareness and interrupting of dysfunctional breathing response. Most participants are unaware of their somatic responses until symptoms occur. Being aware of the initiation of a somatic response may assist you in identifying triggers and interrupting the developing process. A significant component of the training is symptom prescription rehearsal.

Symptom prescription is a practice in which the participant simulates/acts out the psychophysiological pattern associated with their symptoms.  They amplify the body pattern until they feel the onset of the actual symptoms.  The moment the person feels the beginning of the symptom, they stop the practice  and initiate slow breathing and relaxation. After practicing the symptom rehearsal, they are instructed to become aware of the onset of the symptom and then use that signal to  trigger the effortless breathing while looking up and shifting the body into an upright sitting position (Peper et al., 2019). Gasping and breath holding are normal responses to unexpected stimuli; however, they may trigger sympathetic activation even when there is no actual danger.

Experiential practice: Developing awareness on neck and shoulder tension:

Sit comfortably and practice effortless breathing for a minute. Take a fearful gasp and observe what happens in your body (e.g., slight neck and upper chest tension, light headedness, slight radiating pain into the eye, etc.). Shift back to effortless breathing until all symptoms /sensations have disappeared.

  • Now gasp with less effort and observe the first sensations, use the awareness of first sensations to trigger the effortless breathing and continue to breathe until symptoms have disappeared
  • Continue this practice. Reduce the gasping effort each time.
  • After having developed the initial somatic sensation then during the day observe what triggers this response and immediately shift to slower diaphragmatic breathing. After you have shifted to effortless breathing, reflect on the trigger. Was it necessary to react? If yes, explore strategies to resolve the issue.

The same process can be done to assist with desensitization to painful memories or stressful events. Each time the person becomes aware of their somatic reaction to an evoked memory or stressful event, they shift to effortless diaphragmatic breathing. If they find that it is difficult to interrupt the emotional memories and it triggers more and more negative thoughts and associations, use the sniff-hold-sniff technique and follow that with box-breathing or any of the other quick somatic rescue techniques (Peper et al., 2024a). Box-breathing in this context could include a brief breath-holding. A typical box-breathing technique is to breath in for a count of four, hold for a count of four, breath out for a count of four, then breath in again for a count of four, continuing the figurative 4-4-4-4 count of breathing.

Practice slower diaphragmatic breathing during the day. Implement effortless diaphragmatic breathing through regeneration and interrupting the stress response.

  • Support regeneration. Each day set aside 10 to 20 minutes to practice slow effortless diaphragmatic breathing at about 6-breaths-per-minute. In the beginning 10 to 20 minutes may be too long, thus in some cases have the person practice a few times a day for two minutes and slowly build up to 10 or more minutes. The practice is not just a mechanical process of breathing it includes mindfulness training.  Namely, as you are breathing each time you exhale imagine a flow doing down your arms and legs and as you inhale an energy coming into you.  Whenever your attention drifts bring it back to the breathing.
  • Integrate breathing with daily activities. Practice slower breather before eating, after putting the seat belt on in the car, or whenever a notification pops up on the cell phone.
  • Set reminders and alarms on your phone to check how you are feeling and breathing. Leave notes on nearby furniture such as a nightstand, on the shower door, and/or on the kitchen table as reminders to be mindful of your breath. If stressed or breathing shallowly, take a moment to breathe slowly.
  •  Interrupt the stress response.  During the day when you are aware that you shallow breathe, are holding your breath,  feel anxious, experience neck and shoulder tightness, or worry and use that as a cue to shift position by sitting or standing more erect, looking upward and take a few slow diaphragmatic breaths.
  • Use cue condition to facilitate this process.  Each time you begin the practice smell a specific aroma or do some behavioral movement and then do the breathing.  After a while the aroma or behavioral movement will become the classically conditioned cue to trigger the effortless breathing.
  • Use role rehearsal and conditioning to generalize the skill. Generalizing the skills often takes more time than what may be expected. In a culture where instant relief is expected— implied message associated with medication— self-mastery techniques are different and challenging as they take time to master the skill and implement them during daily life. The process of mastery is similar to learning to play a musical instrument or sports. Learning to play the violin requires practice as well as practice with failures along the way until one is ready for more challenging musical pieces, recitals, or performances.

A useful strategy to implement the learning is role rehearsal in the office, at home at work, and in real life.  It is usually much easier to practice these skills in a safe space such as your own room or, with a therapist compared to with other people or, at work. To generalize the skill most efficiently, it can be helpful to practice in a safe environment while imagining being in the actual stressful location This process is illustrated by the strategy to reduce social anxiety and menstrual cramps.

Social anxiety when seeing my supervisor. Master effortless breathing in a safe environment. Role rehearsal in imagery. If you observed that you held your breath when your supervisor is around, begin with imagery when your supervisor is not present. Sit, comfortably. Let go of muscle tension and breathe effortlessly, evoking a scenario where your supervisor is walking by and continue to breathe slowly as you imagine the scene. Role rehearsal in action.  Ask another person to role-play your supervisor. Sit, comfortably. Let go of muscle tension and breathe effortlessly. Have this person walk into the room in a similar way that your supervisor would. Imagine that person is your supervisor while practicing your effortless breathing. Repeat until the effortless breathing is more automatic. Practice many times in real life.  Whenever the rehearsed situation occurs, implement slower paced breathing.

Menstrual cramps that causes most women to curl up and breathe shallowly when experiencing menstrual cramps (Peper et al., 2023). Master effortless breathing in a safe environment. Practice breathing lying down. While lying down, breathe diaphragmatically by having a three-to-five-pound weight such as a bag of rice or hot water pad on your abdomen.  If you have a partner, have the person stroke your legs from the abdomen to your toes while you exhale. Role rehearse experiencing pain and then practice lower diaphragmatic breathing. Namely, tighten your abdomen as if you have discomfort, then focus on relaxing the buttocks and sensing the air flowing down your legs and out your feet as you exhale. Practice in real life.  A few days before you expected menstruation, practice slow diaphragmatic breathing several times for at least 5-10 minutes during the day. When your menstruation starts practice the slower and lower breathing while imagining the air flowing down the abdomen, through the legs and out the feet.

Breathing is the mind-body bridge.  It usually occurs without awareness and breathing changes affect our thought, emotions and body.  Mastering and implementing slower breathing during the day takes time and practice. By observing when breathing patterns change, participants may identify internal and external factors that affect breathing which provides an opportunity to implement effortless diaphragmatic breathing to optimize health as well as resolve some of the triggers.  As one 20-year-old, female student reported,   

The biggest benefit from learning diaphragmatic breathing was that it gave me the feeling of safety in many moments. My anxiety tended to make me feel unsafe in many situations but homing in  and mastering diaphragmatic breathing helped tremendously. I shifted from constant chest breathing to acknowledging it and in turn, reminding myself to breathe with my diaphragm.

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Cellphones affects social communication, vision, breathing, and health: What to do!

Adapted from: Peper, E. & Harvey, R. (2024). Cell phones affects social communication, vision, breathing, and mental and physical health: What to do! TownsendLetter-The Examiner of Alternative Medicine,September 15, 2024. https://townsendletter.com/smartphone-affects-social-communication-vision-breathing-and-mental-and-physical-health-what-to-do/

Abstract

Smartphones are an indispensable part of our lives. Unfortunately too much of a ‘good thing’ regarding technology can work against us, leading to overuse, which in turn influences physical,  mental and emotional development among current ‘Generation Z’ and ‘Millennial’ users (e.g., born 1997-2012, and 1981-1996, respectively). Compared to older technology users, Generation Z report more mental and physical health problems. Categories of mental health include attentional deficits, feelings of depression, anxiety social isolation and even suicidal thoughts, as along with physical health complaints such as sore neck and shoulders, eyestrain and increase in myopia. Long duration of looking downward at a smartphone affects not only eyestrain and posture but it also affects breathing which burden overall health. The article provides evidence and practices so show how technology over use and slouching posture may cause a decrease in social interactions and increases in emotional/mental and physical health symptoms such as eyestrain, myopia, and body aches and pains.  Suggestions and strategies are provided for reversing the deleterious effects of slouched posture and shallow breathing to promote health.

We are part of an uncontrolled social experiment

We, as technology users, are all part of a social experiment in which companies examine which technologies and content increase profits for their investors (Mason, Zamparo, Marini, & Ameen, 2022). Unlike University research investigations which have a duty to warn of risks associated with their projects, we as participants in ‘profit-focused’ experiments are seldom fully and transparently informed of the physical, behavioral and psychological risks (Abbasi, Jagaveeran, Goh, & Tariq, 2021; Bhargava, & Velasquez, 2021). During university research participants must be told in plain language about the risks associated with the project (Huh-Yoo & Rader, 2020; Resnik, 2021). In contrast for-profit technology companies make it possible to hurriedly ‘click through’ terms-of-service and end-user-license-agreements, ‘giving away’ our rights to privacy, then selling our information to the highest bidder (Crain, 2021; Fainmesser, Galeotti, & Momot, 2023; Quach et al., 2022; Yang, 2022).

Although some people remain ignorant and or indifferent (e.g., “I don’t know and I don’t care”) about the use of our ‘data,’ an unintended consequence of becoming ‘dependent’ on technology overuse includes the strain on our mental and physical health (Abusamak, Jaber & Alrawashdeh, 2022; Padney et al., 2020). We have adapted new technologies and patterns of information input without asking the extent to which there were negative side effects (Akulwar-Tajane, Parmar, Naik & Shah, 2020; Elsayed, 2021).  As modern employment shifted from predominantly blue-collar physical labor to white collar information processing jobs, people began sitting more throughout the day. Workers tended to look down to read and type.  ‘Immobilized’ sitting for hours of time has increased as people spend time working on a computer/laptop and looking down at smartphones (Park, Kim & Lee, 2020). The average person now sits in a mostly immobilized posture 10.4 hours/day and modern adolescents spent more than two thirds of their waking time sitting and often looking down at their smartphones (Blodgett, et al., 2024; Arundell et al., 2019).

Smartphones are an indispensable part of our lives and is changing the physical and mental emotional development especially of Generation Z who were born between 1997-2012 (Haidt, 2024). They are the social media and smartphone natives (Childers & Boatwright, 2021). The smartphone is their personal computer and the gateway to communication including texting, searching, video chats, social media (Hernandez-de-Menendez, Escobar Díaz, & Morales-Menendez, 2020; Nichols, 2020; Schenarts, 2020; Szymkowiak et al., 2021). It has 100,000 times the processing power of the computer used to land the first astronauts on the moon on July 20, 1969 according to University of Nottingham’s computer scientist Graham Kendal (Dockrill, 2020).  More than one half of US teens spend on the average more than 7 hours on daily screen time that includes watching streaming videos, gaming, social media and texting and their attention span has decreased from 150 seconds in 2004 to an average of 44 seconds in 2021 (Duarte, F., 2023; Mark, 2022, p. 96).

For Generation Z, social media use is done predominantly with smartphones while looking down. It has increased mental health problems such as attentional deficits, depression, anxiety suicidal thoughts, social isolation as well as decreased physical health (Haidt, 2024; Braghieri et al., 2023; Orsolini, Longo & Volpe, 2023; Satılmış, Cengız, & Güngörmüş, 2023; Muchacka-Cymerman, 2022; Fiebert, Kistner, Gissendanner & DaSilva, 2021Mohan et al., 2021; Goodwin et al., 2020).

The shift in communication from synchronous (face-to-face) to asynchronous (texting) has transformed communications and mental health as it allows communication while being insulated from the other’s reactions (Lewis, 2024).  The digital connection instead of face-to-face connection by looking down at the smart phone also has decreased the opportunity connect with other people and create new social connections, with three typical hypotheses examining the extent to which digital technologies (a) displace/ replace; (b) compete/ interfere with; and/or, (c) complement/ enhance in-person activities and relationships (Kushlev & Leitao, 2020).

As described in detail by Jonathan Haidt (2024), in his book, The Anxious Generation, the smartphone and the addictive nature of social media combined with the reduction in exercise, unsupervised play and childhood independence was been identified as the major factors in the decrease in mental health in your people (Gupta, 2023). This article focuses less on distraction such as attentional deficits, or dependency leading to tolerance, withdrawal and cravings (e.g., addiction-like symptoms) and focuses more on ‘dysregulation’ of body awareness (posture and breathing changes) and social communication while people are engaged with technology (Nawaz,Bhowmik, Linden & Mitchell, 2024).

The excessive use of the smartphones is associated with a significant reduction of physical activity and movement leading to a so-called sedentarism or increases of sitting disease (Chandrasekaran & Ganesan, 2021; Nakshine, Thute, Khatib, & Sarkar, 2022). Unbeknown to the smartphone users their posture changes, as they looks down at their screen, may also affect their mental and physical health (Aliberti, Invernizzi, Scurati & D’lsanto, 2020).

(1) Explore how looking at your smartphone affects you (adapted from: Peper, Harvey, & Rosegard, 2024)

For a minute, sit in your normal slouched position and look at your smartphone while intensely reading the text or searching social media. For the next minute sit tall and bring the cell phone in front of you so you can look straight ahead at it. Again, look at your smartphone while intensely reading the text or searching social media.

Compare how the posture affects you. Most likely, your experience is similar to the findings from students in a classroom observational study. Almost all experienced a reduction in peripheral awareness and breathed more shallowly when they slouched while looking at their cellphone.

Decreased peripheral awareness and increased shallow breathing that affects physical and mental health and performance. The students reported looking down position reduces the opportunity of creating new social connections. Looking down my also increases the risk for depression along with reduced cognitive performance during class (Peper et al., 2017; Peper et al., 2018). 

(2) Explore how posture affects eye contact (adapted from the exercise shared by Ronald Swatzyna, 2023)[2]

Walk around your neighborhood or through campus either looking downwards or straight ahead for 30 minutes while counting the number of eye contacts you make.

Most likely, when looking straight ahead and around versus slouched and looking down you had the same experience as Ronald Swatzyna (2023), Licensed Clinical Social Worker. He observed that when he walked a three-mile loop around the park in a poor posture with shoulders forward in a head down position, and then reversed direction and walked in good posture with the shoulders back and the head level, he would make about five times as many eye contacts with a good posture compared to the poor posture.

Anecdotal observations, often repeated by many educators, suggest before the omnipresent smartphone, students would look around and talk to each other before a university class began. Now, when Generation Z students enter an in-person class, they sit down, look down at their phone and tend not to interact with other students.

(3) Experience the effect of face-to-face in-person communication

During the first class meeting, ask students to put their cellphones away, meet with three or four other students for a few minutes, and share a positive experience that happened to them last week as well as what they would like to learn in the class.  After a few minutes, ask them to report how their energy and mood changed.

In our observational class study with 24 junior and senior college students in the in-person class and 54 students in the online zoom class, almost all report that that their energy and positive mood increased after they interacted with each other. The effects were more beneficial for the in-person small group sharing than the online breakout groups sharing on Zoom as shown in Figure 1.

Figure 1. Change in subjective energy and mood after sharing experiences synchronously in small groups either in-person or online.

Without direction of a guided exercise to increase social connections, students tend to stay within their ‘smartphone bubble’ while looking down (Bochicchio et al., 2022). As a result, they appear to be more challenged to meet and interact with other people face-to-face or by phone as is reflected in the survey data that Generation Z is dating much less and more lonely than the previous generations (Cox et al., 2023).  

What to do:

  • Put the smartphone away so that you do not see it in social settings such as during meals or classes. This means that other people can be present with you and the activity of eating or learning.
  • Do not permit smartphones in the classroom including universities unless it is required for a class assignment.
  • In classrooms and in the corporate world, create activities that demands face-to-face synchronous communication.
  • Unplug from the audio programs when walking and explore with your eyes what is going on around you.

(4) Looking down increases risk of injury and death

Looking down at a close screen reduces peripheral awareness and there by increases the risk of accidents and pedestrian deaths. Pedestrian deaths are up 69% since 2011 (Cova, 2024) and have consistently increased since the introduction of the iPhone in 2007 as shown in Figure 3.

Figure 3. Increase in pedestrian death since the introduction of the iphone (data plotted from https://www.iihs.org/topics/fatality-statistics/detail/pedestrians)

In addition, the increase use of mobile phones is also associated with hand and wrist pain from overuse and with serious injuries such as falls and texting while driving due to lack of peripheral awareness.  McLaughlin et al (2023) reports an increase in hand and wrist injuries as well serious injuries related to distracted behaviors, such as falls and texting while driving. The highest phone related injuries (lacerations) as reported from the 2011 to 2020 emergency room visits were people in the age range from 11–20 years followed by 21–30 years.

What to do:

(5) Looking at screens increases the risk of myopia

Looking at a near screen for long periods of time increases the risk of myopia (near sightedness) which means that distant vision is more blurry. Myopia has increased as children predominantly use computers or, smartphones with smaller screen at shorter distances.  By predominantly focusing on nearby screens without allowing the eye to relax remodels the eyes structure. Consequently, myopia has increase in the U.S. from 25 percent in the early 1970s to nearly 42 percent three decades later (OHSU, 2022).

Looking only at nearby screens, our eyes converge and the ciliary muscles around the lens contract and remain contracted until the person looks at the far distance. The less opportunity there is to allow the eyes to look at distant vision, the more myopia occurs. in Singapore 80 per cent of young people aged 18 or below have nearsightedness and  20 % of the young people have high myopia as compared to 10 years ago (Singapore National Eye Centre, 2024). The increase in myopia is a significant concern since high myopia is associated with an increased risk of vision loss due to cataract, glaucoma, and myopic macular degeneration (MMD). MMD is rapidly increasing and one of the leading causes of blindness in East Asia that has one of the highest myopia rates in the world (Sankaridurg et al., 2021).

What to do:

  • Every 20 minutes stop looking at the screen and look at the far distance to relax the eyes for 20 seconds.
  • Do not allow young children access to cellphones or screens.  Let them explore and play in nature where they naturally alternate looking at far and near objects.
  • Implement the guided eye regenerating practices descrubed in the article, Resolve eyestrain and screen fatigue,  by Peper (2021).
  • Read Meir Schneider’s (2016) book, Vision for Life, for suggestions how to maintain and improve vision.

(6) Looking down increases tech neck discomfort

Looking down at the phone while standing or sitting strains the neck and shoulder muscles because of the prolonged forward head posture as illustrated in the YouTube video, Tech Stress Symptoms and Causes (DeWitt, 2018). Using a smartphone while standing or walking causes a significant increase in thoracic kyphosis and trunk (Betsch et al., 2021).  When the head is erect, the muscle of the neck balance a weight of about 10 to 12 pounds or, approximately 5 kilograms; however, when the head is forward at 60 degrees looking at your cell phone the forces on the muscles are about 60 pound or more than 25 kilograms, as illustrated in Figure 4 (Hansraj, 2014).  

Figure 4. The head forward position puts as much as sixty pounds of pressure on the neck muscles and spine (by permission from Dr. Kenneth Hansraj, 2014).

This process is graphically illustrated in the YouTube video, Text Neck Symptoms and Causes Video, produced by Veritas Health (2020).

What to do:

(7) Looking down increases negative memory recall and depression

In our previous research, Peper et al. (2017) have found that recalling hopeless, helpless, powerless, and defeated memories is easier when sitting in a slouched position than in an upright position. Recalling positive memories is much easier when sitting upright and looking slightly upward than sitting slouched position. If attempting to recall positive memories the brain has to work hard as indicated by an significantly higher amplitudes of beta2, beta3, and beta4 EEG (i.e., electroencephalograph) when sitting slouched then when sitting upright  (Tsai et al., 2016). 

Not only does the postural position affect memory recall, it also affects mental math under time-pressure performance.  When students sit in a slouched position, they report that is much more difficult to do mental math (serial 7ths) than when in the upright position (Peper et al., 2018).  The effect of posture is most powerful for the 70% of students who reported that they blanked out on exams, were anxious, or worried about class performance or math. For the 30% who reported no performance anxiety, posture had no significant effect.  When students become aware of slouching thought posture feedback and then interrupt their slouching by sitting up, they report an increase in concentration, attention and school performance (Peper et al., 2024).

How we move and walk also affects our subjective energy. In most cases, when people sit for a long time, they report feeling more fatigue; however, if participants interrupt sitting with short movement practices they report becoming less fatigue and improved cognition (Wennberg et al., 2016). The change in subjective energy and mood depends upon the type of movement practice.  Peper & Lin (2012) reported that when students were asked to walk in a slow slouching pattern looking down versus to walk quickly while skipping and looking up, they reported that skipping significantly increased their subjective energy and mood while the slouch walking decreased their energy.  More importantly, student who had reported that they felt depressed during the last two years had their energy decrease significantly more when walking very slowly while slouched than those who did not report experiencing depression.  Regardless of their self-reported history of depression, when students skipped, they all reported an increase in energy (Peper & Lin, 2012; Miragall et al., 2020).

What to do:

  • Walk with a quick step while looking up and around.
  • Wear a posture feedback device such as the UpRight Go 2 to remind you when you slouch to change posture and activity (Peper et al., 2019; Roggio et al., 2021).
  • When sitting put a small pillow in the mid back so that you can sit more erect (for more suggestions, see the article by Peper et al., 2017a, Posture and mood: Implications and applications to therapy).
  • Place photo and other objects that you like to look a slightly higher on your wall so that you automatically look up.

(8) Shallow breathing increases the risk for anxiety

When slouching we automatically tend to breathe slightly faster and more shallowly.  This breathing pattern increases the risk for anxiety since it tends to decrease pCO2  (Feinstein et al., 2022; Meuret, Rosenfield, Millard & Ritz, 2023; Paulus, 2013; Smits et al., 2022; Van den Bergh et al., 2013). Sitting slouched also tends to inhibit abdominal expansion during the inhalation because the waist is constricted by clothing or a belt –sometimes labeled as ‘designer jean syndrome’ and may increase abdominal symptoms such as acid reflux and irritable bowel symptoms (Engeln & Zola, 2021; Peper et al., 2016; Peper et al., 2020). When students learn diaphragmatic breathing and practice diaphragmatic breathing whenever they shallow breathe or hold their breath, they report a significant decrease in anxiety, abdominal symptoms and even menstrual cramps (Haghighat et al., 2020; Peper et al., 2022; Peper et al., 2023).

What to do:

  • Loosen your belt and waist constriction when sitting so that the abdomen can expand.
  • Learn and practice effortless diaphragmatic breathing to reduce anxiety.

Conclusion

There are many topics related to postural health and technology overuse that were addressed in this article. Some topics are beyond the scope of the article, and therefore seen as limitations. These relate to diagnosis and treatment of attentional deficits, or dependency leading to tolerance, withdrawal and cravings (e.g., addiction-like symptoms), or of modeling relationships between factors that contribute to the increasing epidemic of mental and physical illness associated with smartphone use and social media, such as hypotheses examining the extent to which digital technologies (a) displace/ replace; (b) compete/ interfere with; and/or, (c) complement/ enhance in-person activities and relationships. Typical pharmaceutical ‘treat-the-symptom’ approaches for addressing ‘tech stress’ related to technology overuse includes prescribing ‘anxiolytics, pain-killers and muscle relaxants’ (Kazeminasab et al., 2022; Kim, Seo, Abdi, & Huh, 2020). Although not usually included in diagnosis and treatment strategies, suggesting improving posture and breathing practices can significantly affect mental and physical health.  By changing posture and breathing patterns, individuals may have the option to optimize their health and well-being.

Explore the following blogs for more background and useful suggestions

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[1] Correspondence should be addressed to: Erik Peper, Ph.D., Institute for Holistic Health Studies, Department of Recreation, Parks, Tourism and Holistic Health, San Francisco State University, 1600 Holloway Avenue, San Francisco, CA 94132  Email: epeper@sfsu.edu;  web: www.biofeedbackhealth.org;  blog: www.peperperspective.com

[2] I thank Ronald Swatzyna (2023), Licensed Clinical Social Worker for sharing this exercise with me.  He discovered that a difference in the number of eye contacts depending how he walked. When he walked a 3.1 mile loop around the park  in a poor posture- shoulders forward, head down position- and then reversed direction and walked in good posture with the shoulders back and the head level, that  that he make about 5 times as many eye contacts with good posture compared to the poor posture. He observed that he make about five times as many eye contacts with good posture as compared to the poor posture.


Increase attention, concentration and school performance

Reproduced from: Peper, E., Harvey, R., & Rosegard, E. (2024). Increase attention, concentration and school performance with posture feedback. Biofeedback, 52(2), 48-52. https://doi.org/10.5298/1081-5937-52.02.07

When I sit with good posture on my computer, I am significantly more engaged in what I’m doing. When I slouch on my computer I tend to procrastinate, go on my phone, and get distracted so it ends up taking much longer to do my work when my posture is bad.…I have ADHD and I struggle a lot with my mind wandering when I should be paying attention. Having good posture really helps me to lock in and focus.—22 year old male student.

Over the past two decades, there has been a significant increase in the prevalence of attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), anxiety, and depression. ADHD rates have increased from 6% in 1997 to approximately 10% in 2018 (CDC, 2022). The rates of anxiety among 18–25 year-olds have also increased from 7.97% in 2008 to 14.66% in 2018 (Goodwin et al., 2020). Students are more distracted, stressed and exhausted (Hanscom, 2022; Hoyt et al., 2021). The more students are distracted, the lower their academic achievement (Feng et al., 2019). In our recent class survey of more than 100 junior and senior college students on the first day of class, 54% reported that they were tired and dreading the day when they woke up. When you are tired and stressed it is difficult to focus attention and have clarity of thought. Their self-report is similar to the mental health trends in the United States by age group in 2008–2019. Mental health of young people has significantly deteriorated over the last 15 years (Braghieri et al., 2021/2023).

The increase in psychological distress is most prevalent in people ages 18–29 and who were brought up with the cellphone (the iPhone was introduced in 2007) and social media. Now when students enter a class, they tend to sit down, look down at their cellphone while slouching, and they do not make contact with most other students unless instructed or reminded by the instructor. When instructed to talk to another student for less than 5 minutes (e.g., share something positive that happened to you this week), 93% of the students reported an increase in subjective energy and alertness (Peper, 2024).

As a group, students are social media and cell phone natives and thus have many distractions and stimuli to which they continuously respond. It is not surprising that the average attention span has decreased from 150 seconds in 2004 to 44 seconds in 2021 (Mark, 2023). More importantly, they now tend to sit in a slouched collapsed position, which facilitates access to hopeless, helpless, powerless and defeated thoughts and memories (Tsai et al., 2016; Peper et al., 2017) and reduces cognitive performance when performing mental math (Peper et al., 2018). Sitting slouched and looking down also reduces peripheral awareness and increases shallow thoracic breathing—a breathing pattern that increases the risk of anxiety. Experience this yourself.

For a minute, look at your cellphone while intensely reading the text or searching social media in the following two positions: sitting straight up and looking straight ahead at your cell phone or slouching and looking down at your cell phone, as shown in Figure 1. Most likely, your experience is similar to the findings from the classroom observational study in which half the students looked down and the other half looked straight ahead and then reversed their positions (Peper, unpublished). They then compared the subjective experience associated with the position. In the slouched position, most experienced a reduction in peripheral awareness and breathed more shallowly (see Figure 1).

Figure 1. Effect of slouching or looking straight ahead on vision and breathing.

The slouched position reduces social awareness and decreases awareness of  external stimuli as  illustrated in Steve Cutts’ superb animation, Mobile world (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wUW1wjlKvmY).

Given the constant stimulation, distractions and shortened attention span, it is more challenging to be calm and have clarity of mind when having to study or take an exam at school. As educators, we constantly explore ways to engage students and support their learning and especially share quick skills they can use to optimize performance (Peper& Wilson, 2021). In previous research, Harvey et al., 2020 showed that students who used posture feedback improved their health scores compared to the control group. The purpose of this paper is to share a 4-week class assignment by which numerous students reported an increase in attention, concentration, confidence, school performance and a decrease in stress.

Participants: 18 undergraduate students (7 males and 11 females, average age 22 [STDEV 2.2]) enrolled in an upper division class. As a report about an effort to improve the quality of a classroom activity, this report of findings was exempted from Institutional Review Board oversight.

Equipment: Wearable posture feedback device, UpRight Go 2, which the person wears on their neck and which provides vibratory feedback whenever they slouch, as shown in Figure 2. It is used in conjunction with the cellphone app that allows them to calibrate the feedback device.

Figure 2. Attachment of posture feedback device on neck or spine and the app to calibrate the device.

Procedure: Students attended the 3-hour weekly class that explored autogenic training, somatic awareness, psychobiology of stress, the role of posture, and the psychophysiology of respiration. The lectures included short experiential practices demonstrating the body-mind connections such as imagining a lemon to increase salivation, the effect of slouched versus erect posture on evoking positive/empowering or hopeless/helpless/powerless/defeated thoughts, and the effect of sequential 70% exhalation for 30 seconds on increasing anxiety (Tsai et al., 2016; Peper et al., 2017).

Each week for 4 weeks the students were assigned a self-practice that they would implement daily at home and record their experiences. At the end of the week, they reviewed their own log and summarized their own observations (benefits, difficulties). During the next class session, they met in small groups of 5 to 6 students to discuss their experiences and extract common themes.

The 4-week curriculum was sequenced as follows:

Week 1

  • Lecture on the benefits/harms of posture with experiential practices (effect of slouching vs erect on access to hopeless/helpless/powerless thoughts versus optimistic and empowering thoughts; posture and arm strength (Peper, 2022).
  • Homework assignments:
  • Watch the great Ted Talk and one of the most viewed by Amy Cuddy (2013), “Your body language shapes who you are.”
  • Keep a detailed log to monitor situations where they slouched and identify situations that were associated with slouching.

Week 2

  • Lecture on psychophysiology and class discussion in which students shared their experiences of slouching; namely, what were the triggers, how it affected them and what they could do to change.
  • Demonstration, explanation, and how to use the posture feedback device, UpRight Go 2.
  • Homework assignment: Wear UpRight Go 2 during the day, use it in different settings (studying, walking, work), and keep a log. When it vibrates (slouching) observe what was going on and change your behavior such as when tired>get rest or do exercise; when depressed>change internal language; ergonomic issues>change the environment, posture>give yourself lower back support.

 Week 3

  • Class discussion on what to do when slouching is triggered by tiredness, negative and hopeless thoughts, ergonomics such as laptop placement and chair. Students meet in groups to share their experiences and what they did in response to the vibratory feedback.
  • Homework assignment: Continue to wear the UpRight Go 2 during the day and keep a log.

Week 4

  • Class discussion in groups of five students about their experiences of slouching, what to do and how it affects them.
  • Homework assignment: Wear UpRight Go 2 during the day and keep a log. Submit a paper that describes their experience with the posture feedback from the UpRight Go 2 and fill out a short anonymous survey in which they rated their change in experience since using the posture feedback device on a scale from 3 (worse) to 0 (no change) to 3 (better) .

Results

All students reported that wearing the feedback device increased attention and concentration as shown in Figure 3.

Figure 3.

Amount of time using the UpRight Go 2:On the average the students used the device 4.8 days a week (STDEV 2.0) and 2.2 hours per day (STDEV 1.3).

Location of use:Although most students practiced sitting in front of their computer, they also reported using it while at work, playing pool or doing yoga and even while seeing a therapist.

Discussion

All the students reported that the posture feedback helped them to become more aware of slouching and when they then interrupted their slouching, they experienced an increase in energy and a decrease in stress. As a 21-year-old male student said: “I felt more engaged with whatever I was doing. I tend to … daydream and get distracted, but I experience much less of that when I sit with good posture.”          

Many reported that it helped identify their emotions when they were feeling overwhelmed. Then they could sit up, shift their perspective, and many reported a decrease in back and neck pain as well as a decrease in tiredness. When participants wear non-invasive wearables that provide accurate feedback, they are often surprised what triggers are associated with feedback or how their performance improves when they respond to the feedback signal by changing their thoughts and behavior. This posture self-awareness project should be embedded in strategies that optimize the learning state as described by Peper & Wilson (2021).

To the students’ surprise, they were often unaware that they started to slouch, nor were they aware of how much this slouching was connected to their emotions, mental state or external factors. For example, one student reported that he wore the device while being in a therapy session. All of a sudden, it vibrated. At that moment, he realized that he was becoming anxious, although he and therapist were unaware. He then shared what happened with the therapist, and that helped the therapeutic process.

The benefits may not only be due to posture change but that the students became aware and interrupted their habitual pattern. This process is similar to that described by Charles Stroebel (1985) when he taught patients the Quieting Reflect that reduced numerous somatic symptoms ranging from headaches to hypertension.

The posture feedback intervention is both simple and challenging since it requires the participants to wear the device, identify factors that trigger the slouching, and interrupt their automatic patterns by changing posture and behavior whenever they felt the vibratory feedback. The awareness gave them the opportunity to change posture and thoughts. By shifting to an upright posture, they experienced that they could concentrate more and have increased energy. As a 19-year-old female student wrote: “My breathing was better and sitting in an upright position gave me more energy when doing tasks.”

Conclusion

We recommend that a 4-week home practice module that incorporates wearable posture feedback is offered to all students to enhance their well-being. With the posture feedback, participants can increase their awareness of slouching, identify situations that trigger slouch, and learn strategies to shift their posture, thoughts, emotions and external environment to optimize maintaining an empowered position. As a 20-year old male student reported, “The app helped me when I was feeling overwhelmed and then I would sit up. When I had it on, I did a lot of work. I was more concentrated.”

Explore the following blogs for more background and useful suggestions

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Quick Rescue Techniques When Stressed

Erik Peper, PhD, Yuval Oded, PhD, and Richard Harvey, PhD

Adapted from Peper, E., Oded, Y, & Harvey, R. (2024). Quick somatic rescue techniques when stressed. Biofeedback, 52(1), 18–26. https://doi.org/10.5298/982312

“If a problem is fixable, if a situation is such that you can do something about it, then there is no need to worry. If it’s not fixable, then there is no help in worrying. There is no benefit in worrying whatsoever.” ― Dalai Lama XIV

To implement the Dalai Lama’s quote is challenging. When caught up in an argument, being angry, extremely frustrated, or totally stressed, it is easy to ruminate, worry. It is much more challenging to remember to stay calm. When remembering the message of the Dalai Lama’s quote, it may be possible to shift perspective about the situation although a mindful attitude may not stop ruminating thoughts. The body typically continues to reacti to the torrents of thoughts that may occur when rehashing rage over injustices, fear over physical or psychological threats, or profound grief and sadness over the loss of a family member. Some people become even more agitated and less rational as illustrated in the following examples.

I had an argument with my ex and I am still pissed off. Each time I think of him or anticipate seeing them, my whole body tightened. I cannot stomach seeing him and I already see the anger in his face and voice. My thoughts kept rehashing the conflict and I am getting more and more upset.

A car cut right in front of me to squeeze into my lane. I had to slam on my brakes. What an idiot! My heart rate was racing and I wanted to punch the driver.

When threatened, we respond quickly in our thoughts and body with a defense reaction that may negatively affect those around us as well as ourselves. What can we do to interrupt negative stress reactions?

Background

Many approaches exist that allow us to become calmer and less reactive. General categories include techniques of cognitive reappraisal (seeing the situation from the other person’s point of view and labeling your own feelings and emotions) and stress management techniques. Practices that are beneficial include mindfulness meditation, benign humor (versus gallows humor), listening to music, taking a time out while implementing a variety of self-soothing practices, or incorporating slow breathing (e.g., heart rate variability and/or box breathing) throughout the day.

No technique fits all as we respond differently to our stressful life circumstances. For example, some people during stress react with a  “tend and befriend stress response” (Cohen & Lansing, 2021; Taylor et al., 2000). This response appears to be mostly mediated by the hormone oxytocin acting in ways that sooth or calm the nervous system as an analgesic. These neurophysiological mechanisms of the soothing with the calming analgesic effects of oxytocin have been characterized in detail by Xin,  et al. (2017).

The most common response is a fight/flight/freeze stress response that is mediated by excitatory hormones such as adrenalin and inhibitory neurotransmitters such as gamma amino butyric acid (GABA). There is a long history of fight/flight/freeze stress response research, which is beyond the scope of this blog with major theories and terms such as interior milleau (Bernard, 1872); homeostasis and fight/flight (Cannon, 1929); general adaptation syndrome (Selye, 1951); polyvagal theory (Porges, 1995); and, allostatic load (McEwen, 1998). A simplified way to start a discussion about stress reactions begins with the fight/flight stress response. When stressed our defense reactions are triggered. Our sympathetic nervous system becomes activated our mind and body stereotypically responds as illustrated in Figure 1.

Figure 1. An intense confrontation tends to evoke a stress response (reproduced from Peper et al., 2020). 

The flight/fight response triggers a cascade of stress hormones or neurotransmitters (e.g., hypothalamus-pituitary-adrenal cascade) and produces body changes such as the heart pounding, quicker breathing, an increase in muscle tension and sweating. Our body mobilizes itself to protect itself from danger. Our focus is on immediate survival and not what will occur in the future (Porges, 2021; Sapolsky, 2004). It is as if we are facing an angry lion—a life-threatening situation—and we feel threatened and unsafe.

Rather than sitting still, a quick effective strategy is to interrupt this fight/flight response process by completing the alarm reaction such as by moving our muscles (e.g., simulating a fight or flight behavior) before continuing with slower breathing or other self-soothing strategies. Many people have experienced their body tension is reduced and they feel calmer when they do vigorous exercise after being upset, frustrated or angry. Similarly, athletes often have reported that they experience reduced frequency and/or intensity of negative thoughts after an exhausting workout (Thayer, 2003; Liao et al., 2015; Basso & Suzuki, 2017). 

Becoming aware of the escalating cascades of physical, behavioral and psychological responses to a stressor is the first step in interrupting the escalating process. After becoming aware, reduce the body’s arousal and change the though patterns using any of the techniques described in this blog. The self-regulation skills presented in this blog are ideally over-learned and automated so that these skills can be rapidly implemented to shift from being stressed to being calm. Examples of skills that can shift from sympathetic neervous system overarousal to parasympathetic nervous system calm include techniques of autogenic traing (Schulz & Luthe, 1959), the quieting reflex developed by Charles Stroebel in 1985 or more recently rescue breathing developed by Richard Gevirtz (Stroebel, 1985; Gevirtz, 2014; Peper, Gibney & Holt, 2002; Peper & Gibney, 2003).

Concepts underlying the rescue techniques

  1. Psychophysiological principle: “Every change in the physiological state is accompanied by an appropriate change in the mental-emotional state, conscious or unconscious, and conversely, every change in the mental-emotional state, conscious or unconscious, is accompanied by an appropriate change in the physiological state” (Green et al. 1970, p. 3).
  2. Posture evokes memories and feelings associated with the position. When the body posture is erect and tall while looking slightly up. It is easier to evoke empowering, positive thoughts and feelings. When looking down it is easier to evoke hopeless, helpless and powerless thoughts and feelings (Peper et al., 2017).
  3. Healing occurs more easily when relaxed and feeling safe. Feeling safe and nurtured enhances the parasympathetic state and reduces the sympathetic state. Use memory recall to evoke those experiences when you felt safe (Peper, 2021).
  4. Interrupting thoughts is easier with somatic movement than by redirecting attention and thinking of something else without somatic movement.
  5. Focus on what you want to do not want to do. Attempting to stop thinking or ruminating about something tends to keeps it present (e.g., do not think of pink elephants. What color is the elephant? When you answer, “not pink,” you are still thinking pink). A general concept is to direct your attention (or have others guide you) to something else (Hilt & Pollak, 2012; Oded, 2018; Seo, 2023).
  6. Skill mastery takes practice and role rehearsal (Lally et al., 2010; Peper & Wilson, 2021).
  7. Use classical conditioning concepts to facilitate shifting states. Practice the skills and associate them with an aroma, memory, sounds or touch cues. Then when you the situation occurs, use these classical conditioned cues to facilitate the regeneration response (Peper & Wilson, 2021).

Rescue techniques

Coping When Highly Stressed and Agitated

  1. Complete the alarm/defense reaction with physical activity (Be careful when you do these physical exercises if you have back, hip, knee, or ankle problems).
    • Acknowledge you have reacted and have chosen to interrupt your automatic response.
    • Check whether the situation is actually a threat. If yes, then do anything to get out of immediate danger (yell, scream, fight, run away, or dial 911).
    • If there is no actual physical threat, then leave the situation and perform vigorous physical activity to complete your alarm reaction, such as going for a run or walking quickly up and down stairs. As you do the exercise, push yourself so that the muscles in your thighs are aching, which focusses your attention on the sensations in your thighs. In our experience, an intensive run for 20 minutes quiets the brain while it often takes 40 minutes when walking somewhat quickly.
    • After recovering from the exhaustive exercise, explore new options to resolve the conflict.
  2. Complete the alarm/defense reaction and evoke calmness with the S.O.S™ technique (Oded, 2023)
    • Acknowledge you have reacted and have chosen to interrupt your automatic response.
    • Squat against a wall (similar to the wall-sit many skiers practice). While tensing your arms and fists as shown in Figure 2, gaze upward because it is more difficult to engage in negative thinking while looking upwards. If you continue to ruminate, then scan the room for object of a certain color or feature to shift visual attention and be totally present on the visual object.
    • Do this set of movements for 7 to 10 seconds or until you start shaking. Than stand up and relax hands and legs. While standing, bounce up and down loosely for 10 to 15 seconds as you become aware of the vibratory sensations in your arms and shoulders, as shown in Figure 3.

Figure 2.Defense position wall-sit to tighten muscles in the protective defense posture (Oded, 2023). Figure 3. Bouncing up and down to loosen muscles ((Oded, 2023).

  • Acknowledge you have reacted and have chosen to interrupt your automatic response. Swing your arms back and forth for 20 seconds. Allow the arms to swing freely as illustrated in Figure 4.

  Figure 4. Swinging the arms to loosen the body and spine (Oded, 2023).

  • Rest and ground. Lie on the floor and put your calves and feet on a chair seat so that the psoas muscle can relax, as illustrated in Figure 5. Allow yourself to be totally supported by the floor and chair. Be sure there is a small pillow under your head and put your hand on your abdomen so that you can focus on abdominal breathing.

Figure 5. Lying down to allow the psoas muscle to relax and feel grounded (Oded, 2023).

  • While lying down, imagine a safe place or memory and make it as real as possible. It is often helpful to listen to a guided imagery or music. The experience can be enhanced if cues are present that are associated with the safe place,  such as pictures, sounds, or smells. Continue to breathe effortlessly at about six breaths per minute. If your attention wanders, bring it back to the memory or to the breathing. Allow yourself to rest for 10 minutes.

In most cases, thoughts stop and the body’s parasympathetic activity becomes dominant as the person feels safe and calm. Usually, the hands warm and the blood volume pulse amplitude increases as an indicator of feeling safe, as shown in Figure 6.

Figure 6. Blood volume pulse increases as the person is relaxing, feels safe and calm.

Coping When You Can’t Get Away (adapted from Peper, Harvey & Faass, 2020)

In many cases, it is difficult or embarrassing to remove yourself from the situation when you are stressed out such as at work, in a business meeting or social gathering.

  1. Become aware that you have reacted.
  2. Excuse yourself for a moment and go to a private space, such as a restroom. Going to the bathroom is one of the only acceptable social behaviors to leave a meeting for a short time.
  3. In the bathroom stall, do the 5-minute Nyingma exercise, which was taught by Tarthang Tulku Rinpoche in the tradition of Tibetan Buddhism, as a strategy for thought stopping (see Figure 7). Stand on your toes with your heels touching each other. Lift your heels off the floor while bending your knees. Place your hands at your sides and look upward. Breathe slowly and deeply (e.g., belly breathing at six breaths a minute) and imagine the air circulating through your legs and arms. Do this slow breathing and visualization next to a wall so you can steady yourself if necessary to keep balance. Stay in this position for 5 minutes or longer. Do not straighten your legs—keep squatting despite the discomfort. In a very short time, your attention is captured by the burning sensation in your thighs. Continue. After 5 minutes, stop and shake your arms and legs.

Figure 7. Stressor squat Nyingma exercise (reproduced from Peper et al., 2020).

  • Follow this practice with slow abdominal breathing to enhance the parasympathetic response. Be sure that the abdomen expands as the inhalation occurs. Breathe in and out through the nose at about six breaths per minute.
  • Once you feel centered and peaceful, return to the room.
  • After this exercise, your racing thoughts most likely will have stopped and you will be able to continue your day with greater calm.

What to do When Ruminating, Agitated, Anxious or Depressed
(adapted from Peper, Harvey, & Hamiel, 2019).

  1. Shift your position by sitting or standing erect in a power position with the back of the head reaching upward to the ceiling while slightly gazing upward. Then sniff quickly through nose, hold and again sniff quickly then very slowly exhale. Be sure as you exhale your abdomen constricts. Then sniff again as your abdomen gets bigger, hold, and sniff one more time letting the abdomen get even bigger. Then, very slow, exhale through the nose to the internal count of six (adapted from Balban et al., 2023). When you sniff or gasp, your racing thoughts will stop (Peper et al., 2016).
  2. Continue with box breathing (sometimes described as tactical breathing or battle breathing) by exhaling slowly through your nose for 4 seconds, holding your breath for 4 seconds, inhaling slowly for 4 seconds through your nose, holding your breath for 4 seconds and then repeating this cycle of breathing for a few minutes (Röttger et al., 2021; Balban et al., 2023). Focusing your attention on performing the box breathing makes it almost impossible to think of anything else. After a few minutes, follow this with slow effortless diaphragmatic breathing at about six breaths per minute. While exhaling slowly through your nose, look up and when you inhale imagine the air coming from above you. Then as you exhale, imagine and feel the air flowing down and through your arms and legs and out the hands and feet.
  3. While gazing upward, elicit a positive memory or a time when you felt safe, powerful, strong and/or grounded. Make the positive memory as real as possible.
  4. Implement cognitive strategies such as reframing the issue, sending goodwill to the person, seeing the problem from the other person’s point of view, and ask is this problem worth dying over (Peper, Harvey, & Hamiel, 2019).

What to Do When Thoughts Keep Interrupting

Practice humming or toning. When you are humming or toning, your focus is on making the sound and the thoughts tend to stop. Generally, breathing will slow down to about six breaths per minute (Peper, Pollack et al., 2019). Explore the following:

  1. Box breathing (Röttger et al., 2021; Balban et al., 2023)
  2. Humming also known as bee breath (Bhramari Pranayama)  (Abishek et al., 2019; Yoga, 2023)Allow the tongue to rest against the upper palate, sit tall and erect so that the back of the head is reaching upward to the ceiling, and inhale through your nose as the abdomen expands. Then begin humming while the air flows out through your nose, feel the vibration in the nose, face and throat. Let humming last for about 7 seconds and then allow the air to blow in through the nose and then hum again. Continue for about 5 minutes.
  3. Toning – Inhale through your nose and then vocalize a single sound such as Om. As you vocalize the lower sound, feel the vibration in your throat, chest and even going down to the abdomen. Let each toning exhalation last for about 6 to 7 seconds and then inhale through your nose. Continue for about 5 minutes (Peper, al., 2019).

Many people report that after practice these skills, they become aware that they are reacting and are able to reduce their automatic reaction. As a result, they experience a significant decrease in their stress levels, fewer symptoms such as neck and holder tension and high blood pressure, and they feel an increase in tranquility and the ability to communicate effectively.

Practicing these skills does not resolve the conflicts; they allow you to stop reacting automatically. This process allows you a time out and may give you the ability to be calmer, which allows you to think more clearly. When calmer, problem solving is usually more successful. As phrased in a popular meme, “You cannot see your reflection in boiling water. Similarly, you cannot see the truth in a state of anger. When the waters calm, clarity comes” (author unknown).

Boiling water (photo modified from: https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=388991500314839&set=a.377199901493999)

Below are additional resources that describe the practices. Please share these resources with friends, family and co-workers.

Stressor squat instructions

Toning instructions

Diaphragmatic breathing instructions

Reduce stress with posture and breathing

Conditioning

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